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My girlfriend recently changed her opinion on my pot-smoking, mostly because I did it every day alone, instead of occasionally with friends. I chose to submit, because she's more important to me than pot, and because I wouldn't want to seem like the kind of guy who would give up a girl for drugs.
How about you? Has anyone ever been asked by their girlfriend or boyfriend to stop smoking weed? What did you do?
Haha, yes kind of, except I was the one demanding she stopped. Ha I have changed so much since 15. Now I'm considering trying to land a job dealing with cannabis activisim. I'm currentlworking on an English major (though it may not be obvious here) and am looking for something to do with my life. Can't think of anything I would love, so I just set a goal to at least got a job (not even career as a writer for weed. I can go to my shitty tech writing job every day but I will always have the one I like on the side.
God I'm rambling like a mad drunk woman...
Oh yeah, but 6 years ago I was trying to force my girlfriend of the time to quit smoking.
Why?Quote:
Originally Posted by JaggedEdge
never ever ever
ya my gf of 3 years told me about 8 months ago to stop
i tried and tried to get a reason but she couldnt come up with a good reason that i didnt have a counter for....shes always been bery stubborn and very close minded and basically it was just another way she could try to express her dominance over me...i mean its not like i smoke everyday alone or choose pot over her or sacrifce time with her because of pot...im completely responsible about it but and she knew about it and was fine but one day something just went off in her head and she freaked
shes really important to me and just like you i would never choose a drug over some1 i love...so i quit for her....lasted about 3 weeks at most until my mates convinced me for a smoke and i went back to my ways...she doesnt need to know that though
Yea, girls can be real bitches when it comes to that. I was talking to this girl for 3 months and every time we were suppose to meet up and fuck something would come up with her. Comes to find out she wouldnt fuck me cause i smoke weed? Wtf?
All i need
Is patrone and weed.
Yeah, I quit for 2 months.
Yeah my old GF got a job that drug tested. Told me I had to stop since she couldn't do it anymore. And thus she is an "old" GF.
I was very religious and straight laced when I was youn and bought into the bullshit. Than I slowly started seeing the light and enjoying life.Quote:
Originally Posted by moeburn
I was the same way. I feel like such a dick about it now.Quote:
Originally Posted by JaggedEdge
I had a girlfriend with lots and lots and lots of medical problems. Chronic pain, severe glaucoma, weekly ear infections. I loved her dearly, but at that point in time I had this HUGE thing against weed and alcohol. I told her so profusely how much I hated people who did those things because for all I knew she was straightedge.
The relationship lasted about 13 months. A year after that, I found out she used to smoke an 1/8th every 2 days and had five plants in her basement. I actually called the exact location when I found out... I feel really bad, because she stopped using weed for her glaucoma because she didn't want me to get angry at her. Now that I think about it, I really wish she had brought it up and told me straight out, because if it's safe and it takes away the pain, do it.
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I wish I could go at it again with her.. but current situations aren't exactly working out.. (her boyfriend was killed in a car accident two days ago). One of the most amazing people I have ever met..
ive "cut down" on smokin for a couple girls, but if they ever told me to stop completly, id say fuck no
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Originally Posted by Taiden
I find it so funny because most of the people I knew in the beginning of highschool would dislike me now and the people I know now would have hated me than.
i had a boyfriend who i quit for for a year...god, shit sucked that year :-( it was fucked up cuz he'd go out n get drunk like every night
ive had girlfirends that have tried to make me quit. i told them straihgt up (and some of them cried) that just because they are giving me pussy, it doesnt give them the right to try and control me. they are not the boss of me, they are simply the provider of thy nookie. it told them that i didnt even need them. that i could make a phone call and have a nice hot lunch right at my front door in 20 minutes if i wanted to and they wouldnt try and control me, they would just say "thanks for the fuck but i gotta go" and be off. most of them left and i did exactly like i said i would, called up a ho and had her come over. this reminds me of something. i had finished telling my ex all of this (its kind of a prepared speech ive got for the situation) and she said it was over and left my house. a while later shes knocking on the door and im in the middle of banging one of my hos so i had to put on some boxers and answer it. she wanted to come in and talk, i said, okay but you have to wait in the living room for about an hour. she comes in, sits down and watches tv. i go back in my room and the ho wanted know who it was, i told her it was my ex, we just broke up and now she wants to talk. so im eating her out and she starts moaning so loud my ex barges into the room to find out who was dying. she flipped out and i said "i told you! your not my girl anymore so back in the living room or you can watch!" she left, never came back and i havent seen her since.
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Originally Posted by MastaChronic
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my girlfriend smokes just as much if not more then me, that was one of the things taht i told her upfront, that a smoke a fuckload and she was compltely okay with it
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Originally Posted by Taiden
i've had a few guys tell me not to smoke; so i don't... within a week they're rolling it for me;)
You seem to have that POWERQuote:
Originally Posted by kindprincess
iloveyou
WOW you're an asshole. Glad you're not my boyfriend.Quote:
Originally Posted by MastaChronic
wat ur gal dont know cant hurt her i been puffin away in secret 4 2 yrs my bf hates weed lolQuote:
Originally Posted by moeburn
Nope, my girls parents grow, and smoke, she smokes herself.. and none of any of my old girlfriends have ever asked me to.
My on and off bf doesnt care if I smoke, he even grows.
I guess anything is possible... If I met the absolute girl of my dreams and she was against weed.... I mean you have to be a little messed up in the head to let a love of a life-time go cause of a fucking plant!!! LoL
But the average girl, hell no. I wouldnt be a dickhead about it, I would just take the position that smoking is part of who I am and if she isnt willing to accept all of me then it just isnt going to work...
PS
MastaChronic, hey bro I'm totally cool with you but your post was a little harsh man... I hope you really wouldnt say or do that to a chick... They tend to be sensitive creatures you know ;)
PSHHH....
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Originally Posted by MastaChronic
You shit in girls' mouths then skull fuck her, then force her to swallow a mixture of your jizz and shit?
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Kinky.
dont let somebody tell u you cant smoke weed....communicate and form some kinda compromise dude, that way u can have your babycakes and smoke it too :cool:
Ive chosen the weed over a few girls, I dont think Id chose it over the perfect girl for me, but the rest, fuck em, id rather burn with my buddies and fuck girls then be with the girl who doesnt like ME doing what I wanna do..
You'd have to assume that any girl of anyones dreams would be the girl to accept what ever activity they enjoy is alright. After all, it's about spending time with the person, not controlling their habits.Quote:
Originally Posted by someuser
But yes, I do agree. :)
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Originally Posted by couch-potato
im a harsh person when it comes to control. dont get the wrong idea and think that im a control freak, please. what i mean is i dont like people trying to control ME. i cant stand that at all, ya know? i really dont care if a girl chooses not to smoke weed, thats her choice and i respect that.Quote:
Originally Posted by someuser
MastaChronic, that attitude won't last when you get old and stop being attractive, you might actually have to commit to someone.
Yea, i was told, after we got married. 6 years later we're divorced. No not cause of weed, but hey.. it still matters :P
All my girlfriends smoked weed and all my future ones will too.
LOL...Quote:
Originally Posted by Reefer Rogue
careful..
don't temp fate...
ahahahahaha loser
my girl dont smoke but she dont care if i do :jointsmile:
she was gonna buy me a glass peice from EDIT but she would have to use her mothers credit card so she couldent :(
One of my old gf's did not like me smoking pot. Since then, I only date girls who smoke pot. Do yourself a favor and avoid the drama and find a smokin' tokin' girl. They are out there and usually carry less drama too.Quote:
Originally Posted by moeburn
yeah once what was her name...hmmm I don't know but she had a sweet ass
ya a couple girls told me to quit, and replied with hell no, if you can't except me for me, then leave.....and they never do....