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so i was reading the ideal partner thread and i realized that i met him and lost him and thats not ok. He was sexy sweet understanding and liked too smoke as much as me. we always had an awsome time when we were together then all of a sudden bam its over because he can't be held down. How the hell can you make a guy who doesn't want to commit ... commit?
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You can't and if you did, that's not really what you want anyway. That's what seperates men from women. Real men retain their identity and don't change, women know this, they complain, but deep down, they love it.
wait, if he wants to commit he will
Ha ha! You can't make anybody commit or love. That is only given.
He obviously wants to explore the female kind and get a taste before he decides to settle down. You can't amek him do anything. He'll do it when he is ready, not when you're ready.
you can't make someone commit. you can only make them super jealous so they WANT to commit to you. haha jk. in all honesty though, if he doesn't want to commit, there is really nothing you can do. if somehow you force him into a relationship, it probably won't work anyways because he is obviously not ready for one right now. as samwhore said, just WAIT! not necessarily for him, but wait until the right person comes along.
make him love you again, i have the same problem
i have had many guys (ex-bfs or ex-flings), months and years later, come to me and in some way or another, let-on how much they miss me, or what a mistake it was for breaking up, etc. i wish i knew the magical way to be able to get them back much sooner, but i don't know if there is such a thing.
your all right i can't change someone ... sorry samwhore it blows ... oh well
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Originally Posted by gabee42ee
it does blow, all you can do is hope for the best
yeah im gonna keep hoping... and looking really good when i see him ... and attempt to make him jealous ... and all that crap ... i hate games but i can't help it ...
give him more sex and head and everything else than anyone ever could, can't garuntee that will make him love you or want to commit, but it'll damn sure make him stick around long enough for anything of that manner to develope ;)
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Originally Posted by slipknotpsycho
that wont make him love you, just think your a whore, i know it hurts to send love and recieve none back
You aren't a whore if you fool around A LOT with your PARTNER. If you fool around A LOT with MANY partners [at the same time], then there's an issue. But even then, I can't say that because I know quite a few young women (not teenagers, mind you) exploring their sexuality safely and healthily.
Anyway,
Listen sweetheart, as someone has said before their ex's have come back, months or years later wanting to rekindle a relationship or what ever they've had previously. Eventually, they ALL come back for one reason or another and when that time comes, you realize that they either aren't what you want or need OR you realize they truely were and you want to be with them again. But in most cases it's the former..he may seem like everything you've ever wanted right now but once you mature and live a little more you'll realize you've got a lot more going for you then just some man. But in general, you can't make anyone comit, come back, love, or fuck you.
offer him unlimited amounts of marijuana and ass. if he dosent bite, hes gay
i recently broke up wth ma gf simply because i dnt like it when you wont do sumfink the you get ' but your suppost to be my gf' or ' is it even worth us being together' things like that are what made me not want to go out wiv ma gf anymore now were on a break but still fucking ect she just cant make me do anythink lol
you said that so much better than me! also, i dont think i said before, but NONE of the guys that came back to me later on where still worthy. too little too late IMO.Quote:
Originally Posted by BabyFacedAbortion
lol it was mostly a joke, but i did say the purpose of that was to just keep him around long enough so that if anything were to develope, it'd have the time to do so.Quote:
Originally Posted by Samwhore
unless the things have already developedQuote:
Originally Posted by slipknotpsycho
I would try to forget about him because sometimes, the more you think about a guy and how you can get him back, the more you start becoming someone you're not, which, it may push him away or turn him off. Go hang with your friends and do things you enjoy or find something new to do.
I know it may seem tough right now, but things will get better for you.
i sugest you become great friends with him at least, and then i sugst you start giving him facors that noone else does for him and i sugest you just really try and be a great person to him, better than anyone else has ever been. you need to be with him for a LONG ASSS TIME if you want him to feel comitted to you. i mean like a long time. make yourself mean something to him.
its probly not gonna ahppen thought beacuse love is love and you cant really make someobdy love
u right nightprowler i need to be better friends with him ... i actually thing just being that would be perfectly fine because he is so sweet as a person ... for now im just not going to care if he wants to date or not... maybe someday he will comeback ... maybe ill meet someone new im blazed as hell and i culd run on a lot longer about this but ill stoppp
How old are you Gabe and how old is he?
im 18 and hes 19
Well there you go. Do I need to elaborate?Quote:
Originally Posted by gabee42ee
yeahhhh....
These are just generalizations so....
If he was maybe a little older and thinking about settling down or not looking to play as much but he wasn't sure if he found someone that he wanted to settle down with, even if just for a short time, you would have a better chance of convincing him you were the one. But it sounds like he is still young, a couple of years out of high school so he is enjoying he freedom and partying and playing around. So you are fighting two fronts, him wanting to be young and free and unchained and convincing him you are worth it. Look at how this life is glamorized in the media today. I'm not saying there is anything wrong with it but you turn on the tv and it is all about which celebrity is with who and how quick they find someone else. It is about late night booty calls and notches on the belt. I'm dating several people right now and I am 30 and I am having fun since I just got out of a long term relationship. I hate playing games but if I must I can do it with the best of them.
So if you want him, try a little bit but don't be disappointed if it doesn't work. Step up your game and try to spend time with him but don't come on too strong. Try to see him once a week, twice at the most and try not to make them two days in a row. Don't flood him with calls. Play hard to get but give him just enough to make him want more. Give him some mind blowing sex and then leave every once in a while. Act as though this is just casual and you may make him want it to become something more. It isn't about convincing him that you want him to commit, it is about making him want to be with you and part of that is by acting that isn't what you want.
i know how that feals to send love, and not get any returned.... it fucking sucks... i mean, one girl that i dated, all she said was IF WE MAKE IT TO... my 18th birthday....Quote:
Originally Posted by Samwhore
and when ever she did say she loved me, she said it in a"hey im trying to make you not pissed off" kind of way, and then the one time that she did say she loved me, and sounded a little bit serious was the weekend befor she broke up with me over her cusians friend...
of course, you could just fuck his brians out... and let it be like that... until he relises that you have suck a tight pussy that hes staying wth you for ever....
yea, so what, that is the way i think... and then i relise that pussys dont stay tight for ever... and then you relise that you love the person, and the only way to for get them is threw putting your heart out to some one else... but then that some one else is a stupid little cunt, who still wants to loose her fucking verginity to her fucking ex boyfriend... and i mean if i was her ex boyfriend, and she wanted him to take her virginity, i would of already been on it... i mean hell if i would have had a fucking condom that fucking night... i would have fucked her... but no.... the last GF was on birth control, so i didnt have anyfucking condoms... and i figured that there wouldnt be sex that early in the relationship... so i never bought any... but fuck that stupid whore...
ok... im gonna go bitch at some girl now.... cause you guys dont need to know the rest of the fucking problems with the stupid ass bitches in this town...
P.S. i should of went and hung out with some one in G.H. on friday instead of sitting around this town with stupid bitches...
fucking bitches man
that made me feel good, it really did ;)