Ladies - DO GUYS HAVE erection ISSUES?

How many guys have problems geting it up, espicialy the one night stand dates. I know girls don't want to say "Oh all the time" because then it can be turned around on them by other girls saying "Oh I don't have those issuses with guys" <yea right, or Guys say thats because your boring or no fun. 90% of the time if a guy can't get it up or keep it up it has to do with him so don't be affraid to tell the truth and do you exprct him to be ready to go when the underwear comes off.

I'm just currious how many guys talk a big game but fail to deliver. give you answer in % 50% or like 1 out of 3 or 8 out of 10.

I can't give you a figure because I have only been with my husband for the past two+ decades and before that, with one other. But it occasionally happens to them all (once or twice a year, and it's nearly always from fatigue or stress or illness) and I'd guess that one-night-stands might have a higher rate of problems than commited relationships because the performance pressure is greater and the possibility of alcohol- or drug-aggravated erection problems is also higher. Just a hunch. Most grownup guys with any sense know better than to talk a big game till after they've delivered the goods, if you know what I mean.

I think the only times this happened to me were after a long night of coke or booze. Although, the coke notsomuch.

Thinking of one ex in particular, 100% of the time he got drunk he was impotent, and whenever he ran out of drugs/money he couldn't get it up...

As for guys failing to deliver in general...100% of guys have made me a promise, and 100% of guys have failed to deliver.....

Here's a night I'd love to forget. It was the end of my freshman year and I had Math with a senior who I'll call "Mark". Mark was everything I wanted in a guy, older, witty, sarcastic, intelligent, nice looking, an extreme flirt with letters of how he wants to fuck me and ish during class, ect. Eventually Mark invites me over to his uncle's house (who he's house-sitting) and we hang out. We go for a drive and end up driving all around my county, talking and smoking cigarettes. So to end the night we go back to his uncle's and sort of fool around and he can't get it up. So I give him head. He can't get it up. So he sorta gets it up and goes straight to fucking. He can't keep it up. I basically jumped up and said "WHAT THE FUCK" because I've never had the problem before and saw him get this disgustingly grim expression on his face. He looked incredibly ashamed and was like " Babe, I still love her." HER being his bitchy ex girlfriend/girlfriend, thing. I don't know what she was, but yea..nice way to kill my sex drive. I attempted not to bawl as I listened to him talk about her for a good hour before he drove me home. LOVE!...What a turn off..

Luckily that's the only time I've had that problem. Haven't even ran into whiskey dick yet.

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Originally Posted by BabyFacedAbortion

him get this disgustingly grim expression on his face. He looked incredibly ashamed and was like " Babe, I still love her." HER being his bitchy ex girlfriend/girlfriend, thing. I don't know what she was, but yea..nice way to kill my sex drive. I attempted not to bawl as I listened to him talk about her for a good hour before he drove me home. LOVE!...What a turn off..

Luckily that's the only time I've had that problem. Haven't even ran into whiskey dick yet.

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YEA RIGHT" WHAT EVER DUDE,

You really can't take it personal, he's making up excuses for not delivering, If he loved her so much why did he invite you out to his place, if he couldn't get it up he should have slowed down his advances, why move on to fucking if your sporting a softy, he should have just gave you oral once he got the two of you into the situation. Not that sex isn't complicated for guys, but they can't just put it off on someone else - like in this instance BabyFacedAbortion by indicateing that his EX would have been able to get it up for Him, or Him for her like she was something else, if your so in love with her he should have cryed in his pillow a few more months before venturing out into the pulic again. The truth is it didn't have anything to do with her he sounds confused and that spread to BabyFacedAbortion like an infection. Not trying to be overly hard on the dude but it should have been what is was - he couldn't get an erection, and not that some other girl is what he needs to get it up.

When ever I can't get it up or keep it up, I have NEVER made excuses, I'm good 70% of the time and the other 30% I got to relax and slow down and let it happen. There are times when the girl is part of the problem but thats usualy no more than 25% of the time. So ladies if you have had 4 guys that couldn't get it up regardless if you think it you or not its really only an issue of you in 1 out of the 4 maybe. The Statement by a Guy "This never happens to me" is simply total BS.

I have trouble getting it up on my own but im alright with a lady... as long as i get my foreplay im happy...

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as long as i get my foreplay im happy...

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that the reason I asked the last question about being ready to go when the underwear comes off, inotherwords do they feel dis appointed if they have to work to get it up for him.

Once guys get out of their teens/early 20s, ladies definitely don't expect them to be ready the moment the underwear comes off unless they're ladies who don't have much experience with adult men.

As guys mature, it take more time and more foreplay to get them ready. That's just a fact of life. Women love the foreplay time themselves, and then when we're applying our magic touch (whatever, however) to guys to help get them hard, that's a very empowering feeling. We like to know we had some influence in causing that reaction, you know? At least I know I do. Hope that makes sense. So, again, no, seriously, we don't expect guys to be hard the second their underwear comes off.

Well Im 19 and have an extremely high sex drive (borderline sex addict lol), so I havent had that problem yet. Had an embarassing moment with an ex a few years back when she was 'helping me', and when I came I had this terrible pain in my abdomen. Five minutes later I was being violently sick in the bathroom, and whenever I came for two weeks after that the same would happen. Luckily, it was down to the meds I was on, and from then on I was put on different meds.

i dunno dude...odd enough for me..i have erection problems myself...only the problem is not getting it up, its getting it to go down...i pop boners at the oddest of times...i have a huge sex drive i guess...me and my girl used to do it 2 or 3 times a day and id still have to spank it once or twice...but we cant do it that much anymore..(something about her inside being bruised from all the beating :p, so were giving it a brake to once sometimes twice a day with the occasional anal :D)

both my partners have had erection issues at various points in time

it just happens from time to time, but when it happens all the time, then there is a problem

I take no offense by it at all, totally understandable, there are times when no matter what I can't get wet, shit happens

my ex must have loved sex more than i do.
she would get on top of me before it's even fully erected.
just as long as it was kinda erected she was happy.
but i want my foreplay dammit.

I can get wet in a split second, only problem is my bf whose sex drive is a lot lower than mine. He thinks sex once a week is doing good. :sadcrying

Only happened the once in my teenage years. But I have noticed as I get older the old boy needs a lil more experienced attention to play ball. Ladies as few tips you dont need to yank it like you're hoovering under the side board, and watch those teeth!

Peace

Buddy

its all in the mind
if im with a girl whos not attractive
but im horny and fucked up
my dick will betray me
my mind will say "fuck that girl"
but my chile says"hell nah"

what can one do with such problems

i never have that problem unless ive drunk alchohol, and even then i need like, the exact certain amount, no more no less, and when you do accidently stop drinking at the WRONG time, literally all feeling just leaves that part of your body and its just embarissingly hard to get it up,

at least thats what ive heard....... lol

I hate drinkin and then hittin the skins. I pee like a camel when I drink and that just aint a good combo for me!:(

Peace

Buddy

it happens. girls think guys wanna have sex ALL the time but its not true, well we do MOST of the time but not all the time. sometimes im just like "damn girl leave me alone and lemme smoke this blunt and watch cartoons!"

I've got an erection issue. I cant get the damn thing to go down.

^^ Haha yeah man.
Sometimes im college and im pretty bored and my cock is just going off on one.
Starts getting all active, im not even thinking about sex when this happening.

I heard that smoking weed makes guys have eretile difficulties. Is this true? Can stoners not get boners?!

Any smoking is bad for erectile function. Cigarettes are worse, but weed smoke is irritating and dessicating to your vascular system, it causes a significant initial increase in BP that contributes to other circulatory troubles, and most indications from urologists who've done anecdotal studies are that weed is not a friend to erectile function. Fortunately, the trouble that results from smoking of either weed or cigs doesn't usually affect men in their teens or early or mid-twenties. Most folks with smoking-related ED don't report trouble till their early thirties, but it may be that that's simply when they finally go to a urologist or cardiovascular doc for help.

You choose which means more. I'd vote for the boners, but I'm not a guy and not a smoker, either. Remember there are probably some hormonal influences on men who are weed smokers that work against testosterone, too, and so that factor also affects erectile capability. Remember that ED doesn't just mean complete impotence, it also means lower quality or shorter-lasting erections.

of the guys I have been with I would say 20% had a hard time keeping it up.
But then some guys can keep it up as long as needed.
I guess it really depends on the guy...

when alcohol is in my system