Ladies - DO GUYS HAVE erection ISSUES?

[SuperTorch]

How many guys have problems geting it up, espicialy the one night stand dates. I know girls don't want to say "Oh all the time" because then it can be turned around on them by other girls saying "Oh I don't have those issuses with guys" <yea right, or Guys say thats because your boring or no fun. 90% of the time if a guy can't get it up or keep it up it has to do with him so don't be affraid to tell the truth and do you exprct him to be ready to go when the underwear comes off.

I'm just currious how many guys talk a big game but fail to deliver. give you answer in % 50% or like 1 out of 3 or 8 out of 10.

SuperTorch Reviewed by SuperTorch on 09-30-2006. Ladies - DO GUYS HAVE erection ISSUES? How many guys have problems geting it up, espicialy the one night stand dates. I know girls don't want to say "Oh all the time" because then it can be turned around on them by other girls saying "Oh I don't have those issuses with guys" <yea right, or Guys say thats because your boring or no fun. 90% of the time if a guy can't get it up or keep it up it has to do with him so don't be affraid to tell the truth and do you exprct him to be ready to go when the underwear comes off. I'm just Rating: 5

[birdgirl73]

I can't give you a figure because I have only been with my husband for the past two+ decades and before that, with one other. But it occasionally happens to them all (once or twice a year, and it's nearly always from fatigue or stress or illness) and I'd guess that one-night-stands might have a higher rate of problems than commited relationships because the performance pressure is greater and the possibility of alcohol- or drug-aggravated erection problems is also higher. Just a hunch. Most grownup guys with any sense know better than to talk a big game till after they've delivered the goods, if you know what I mean.

[gr8misadventures]

I think the only times this happened to me were after a long night of coke or booze. Although, the coke notsomuch.

Thinking of one ex in particular, 100% of the time he got drunk he was impotent, and whenever he ran out of drugs/money he couldn't get it up...

As for guys failing to deliver in general...100% of guys have made me a promise, and 100% of guys have failed to deliver.....

[BabyFacedAbortion]

Here's a night I'd love to forget. It was the end of my freshman year and I had Math with a senior who I'll call "Mark". Mark was everything I wanted in a guy, older, witty, sarcastic, intelligent, nice looking, an extreme flirt with letters of how he wants to fuck me and ish during class, ect. Eventually Mark invites me over to his uncle's house (who he's house-sitting) and we hang out. We go for a drive and end up driving all around my county, talking and smoking cigarettes. So to end the night we go back to his uncle's and sort of fool around and he can't get it up. So I give him head. He can't get it up. So he sorta gets it up and goes straight to fucking. He can't keep it up. I basically jumped up and said "WHAT THE FUCK" because I've never had the problem before and saw him get this disgustingly grim expression on his face. He looked incredibly ashamed and was like " Babe, I still love her." HER being his bitchy ex girlfriend/girlfriend, thing. I don't know what she was, but yea..nice way to kill my sex drive. I attempted not to bawl as I listened to him talk about her for a good hour before he drove me home. LOVE!...What a turn off..

Luckily that's the only time I've had that problem. Haven't even ran into whiskey dick yet.

[SuperTorch]

him get this disgustingly grim expression on his face. He looked incredibly ashamed and was like " Babe, I still love her." HER being his bitchy ex girlfriend/girlfriend, thing. I don't know what she was, but yea..nice way to kill my sex drive. I attempted not to bawl as I listened to him talk about her for a good hour before he drove me home. LOVE!...What a turn off..

Luckily that's the only time I've had that problem. Haven't even ran into whiskey dick yet.

YEA RIGHT" WHAT EVER DUDE,

You really can't take it personal, he's making up excuses for not delivering, If he loved her so much why did he invite you out to his place, if he couldn't get it up he should have slowed down his advances, why move on to fucking if your sporting a softy, he should have just gave you oral once he got the two of you into the situation. Not that sex isn't complicated for guys, but they can't just put it off on someone else - like in this instance BabyFacedAbortion by indicateing that his EX would have been able to get it up for Him, or Him for her like she was something else, if your so in love with her he should have cryed in his pillow a few more months before venturing out into the pulic again. The truth is it didn't have anything to do with her he sounds confused and that spread to BabyFacedAbortion like an infection. Not trying to be overly hard on the dude but it should have been what is was - he couldn't get an erection, and not that some other girl is what he needs to get it up.

When ever I can't get it up or keep it up, I have NEVER made excuses, I'm good 70% of the time and the other 30% I got to relax and slow down and let it happen. There are times when the girl is part of the problem but thats usualy no more than 25% of the time. So ladies if you have had 4 guys that couldn't get it up regardless if you think it you or not its really only an issue of you in 1 out of the 4 maybe. The Statement by a Guy "This never happens to me" is simply total BS.

[LIP]

I have trouble getting it up on my own but im alright with a lady... as long as i get my foreplay im happy...

[SuperTorch]

as long as i get my foreplay im happy...

that the reason I asked the last question about being ready to go when the underwear comes off, inotherwords do they feel dis appointed if they have to work to get it up for him.

[birdgirl73]

Once guys get out of their teens/early 20s, ladies definitely don't expect them to be ready the moment the underwear comes off unless they're ladies who don't have much experience with adult men.

As guys mature, it take more time and more foreplay to get them ready. That's just a fact of life. Women love the foreplay time themselves, and then when we're applying our magic touch (whatever, however) to guys to help get them hard, that's a very empowering feeling. We like to know we had some influence in causing that reaction, you know? At least I know I do. Hope that makes sense. So, again, no, seriously, we don't expect guys to be hard the second their underwear comes off.

[Tom Swierzbinski]

Well Im 19 and have an extremely high sex drive (borderline sex addict lol), so I havent had that problem yet. Had an embarassing moment with an ex a few years back when she was 'helping me', and when I came I had this terrible pain in my abdomen. Five minutes later I was being violently sick in the bathroom, and whenever I came for two weeks after that the same would happen. Luckily, it was down to the meds I was on, and from then on I was put on different meds.

[dryst]

i dunno dude...odd enough for me..i have erection problems myself...only the problem is not getting it up, its getting it to go down...i pop boners at the oddest of times...i have a huge sex drive i guess...me and my girl used to do it 2 or 3 times a day and id still have to spank it once or twice...but we cant do it that much anymore..(something about her inside being bruised from all the beating , so were giving it a brake to once sometimes twice a day with the occasional anal )