parental problems

i'm an unlucky son of a bitch. my dad (an assistant principle at my high school) caught me smoking a joint outside my house when i thought he was at work. so a few hours later my mom calls me outside and the 3 of us start talking. they were saying some bullshit about how weed is bad and they were fixed that it was gonna ruin my life forever. well i told them they shouldn't be smoking cigarettes so much, and that i should be getting after them. my dad, who smokes at least 6 cigs a day, told me that cigarettes won't lead people to other drugs like pot will or some crap like that.

so here i am telling you what happened, and i'd just like some suggestions to help others deal with their parents if something like this happens to them.

I think the first thing you should do if you get caught is be calm and give a good explanation on why you do it and why you don't think it's wrong. since my parents are such uptight asses they didn't even wanna listen to what i had to say about it and told me i was 'immature' because of my point of view. i hope you all have better luck than i do and that this thread helps if your luck ever runs out.

oh, and i made a deal with them that i'd stop smoking weed if they stop smoking cigs, and my mom immediately agreed to it but my dad didn't say anything. tha'ts when i came inside to write the thread.

man fuck ur parents smoke all u want, just be more carefull, remember they cant control you, noone can...most parents try to make thier kid become a "good" member of society. Fuck that fuck society its all mind controlling bull shit. And they arnt gona stop smoking cigs cause they are addicted, they just wont around you. Try to smell smoke on them and if u smell it be like I smell ciggeretts so i'm gonna go smoke a J, then do it.<---period

i'm glad to see we share the same thoughts man :)
i just couldn't put it in the right words to say to my parents know what i mean? plus im 17 so if i say something like fuck society they'll probly send me to counseling lol.

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Originally Posted by PureEvil760

Try to smell smoke on them and if u smell it be like I smell ciggeretts so i'm gonna go smoke a J, then do it.<---period

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excactly. That's what you should do, have them joints ready for action! Quitting cigs is like hell my friends dad said, nothing compared to heroin or crack probablly, but yeah....

yeah my dad actually quit for a few months a few years back. But he lost his temper once and started again.

What happens if only your mom is able to quit? Will you stop smoking weed? If she thinks weed will destroy you then there is a real possibiliy that she could quit pretty easily.

When you smoke just try to be safe and dont let noone see you and who cares your seventeen your old enough to make your own choices.

if only my mom is able to quit i'll just use that as an excuse if i get caught again lol.

Owned?

you'r 17. Get out on your own. I see so many threads like this with a 17 or so year older, just get out! You can work and finish school. And then do what ever it is you do. But I doubt you're dad will quit, he will do the same thing as you. Say ciggeretes help the family because he can control his temper and blah blah blah. Then blow up in his face about how crazy you are because weed isn't there. Then he will say you're addicted, then tell him it's exactly what he did, just replace the drug

hot damn! I got another idea. Get one of their packs of ciggeretes and take all of tobacco out from inside the tube and replace with weed and then top it with tobaco. that would be good, especialy if he smokes before work :)

I'll offer a totally different opinion. You don't need to agree, and since I don't know any of you, I'm not sure that it's the right approach for you, but here's my 2Cents:

Tell your parents that you'll do what they say. If you continue to smoke, be more carefull, and don't get caught. Get to a point in your life where you can live independently from them (finish ur education, get a job, set up your life). Become an adult and establish your own life and rules.

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Originally Posted by llamaman666

hot damn! I got another idea. Get one of their packs of ciggeretes and take all of tobacco out from inside the tube and replace with weed and then top it with tobaco. that would be good, especialy if he smokes before work :)

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lmao that'd be pretty funny, my dad trippin out in school and shit. i don't take my parents that seriously to actually stop smoking mary jane, even if they both are able to quit cigs. so i'm doing basically what darko is saying, just that i'm gonna have to wait til next year to leave cuz they're gonna buy me a car and i'll be 18. plus i like this house, my current room used to be a big ass garage.

Lllama, that would be funny...but he wouldn't get too high with the filter and everything.

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Originally Posted by Etrain

Lllama, that would be funny...but he wouldn't get too high with the filter and everything.

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thats not true, i smoke ciggaweed alot

So dad says cigs don't lead to other drugs. Well neither does pot but that aside,
he is doing something that is KNOWN TO KILL PEOPLE. Gee dad you sure are smart!

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Originally Posted by Marko123

So dad says cigs don't lead to other drugs. Well neither does pot but that aside,
he is doing something that is KNOWN TO KILL PEOPLE. Gee dad you sure are smart!

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he works at the school, what do you expect, hes ALWAYS right...

I am telling ya, the US has gotten its priorities way out of whack. And while we are at it, we better not tell our kids gay people really do exist.