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I love MJ, but I only have one friend that smokes. My wife hates when I smoke, so I have to keep it completely separate from her so she doesn't have to know (I would never lie to her). My friend works as much as I do, so on the rare occassion our days off sync up, he may or may not want to smoke.
None of my other friends smoke (i don't think). I just wish I had a few others to partake with. I'm a social guy
I was in your boat a few years back when I first started. I'm only 20 (I say that because it's usually easier for young kids to find more people because it seems every other teen-young adult down here smokes heavily) and about 3 years ago I went to VooDoo Music fest down in New Orleans with an old friend and his newer group that I wasn't that familiar with. I just casually brought it up in a conversation with the new people I didn't even know and out of all of them it was my oldest friend who was happiest I had some. There were no signs, he never mentioned it and I would have never known if I didn't speak up (because I wanted to and didn't want to wait around all day not smoking the joints in my pocket, but I didn't want it to be awkward). Anyway, I guess somewhere in this message my point is you never know. Just be open and polite about it, don't come off as a stereotypical stoner, that always attracted the wrong crowd for me. I like the more mature smokers who have fun will doing it but shut up about it after and in public. What also worked for me was bringing up pot in a normal conversation but have it be related to recent news. For instance : Medical Marijuana Becoming Legal. You can instantly pick out the uninterested and the ones who enjoy it. Trust me and give it a shot, but at the end of the day even if you're alone, at least you're stoned right?
That's great advice, thanks
i have many friends who smoke but i prefer smokin on my own. it's a shame your wife doesn't approve, haveing a toke after a hard days work sitting in the comfort of your own home is so chilling. i'm sure as time goes by you will meat many fellow tokers, best of luck on your quest to finding new smoke buddies :D
Hah you really do need to stop by my home on a Wednesday night. Lets just say I help people find the things they want. I have quite a few older married guys I help out and unfortunately almost all of them were in the same boat as you. One Wednesday night they all needed some help so I set some things out in my garage and introduced them all to each other. They started their own little mature smokers club in there, they all talk about old fart stuff im bored by so I just let them use my garage and leave them to it. They're regular as a clock and I certainly don't mind, they smoke tons when they get together.
I don't have anyone to smoke with anymore.
My friends don't smoke that often and when they do it's with me and my bud.
I need people to smoke with as smoking alone gets boring after a while.
Bad times, truly bad times!
yeah i only have one friend i smoke with right now. ironically, the guy who got me into smoking recently quit. go figure. if i could only get my wife to smoke with me, id be a much happier man.
Funny, I can't seem to get rid of some of my friends! I'll send some your way! LoL They love to smoke! EVERYONE of them!
I find all my friends on Craigslist.
I buy mine on ebayQuote:
Originally Posted by DookJones
if you come to texas i'll blaze with ya!
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Shit man come to colorado springs and we will blaze 24/7 homie :smokin:
bro, if u come to jersey anytime soon just stop by my house. Me and my friend smoke almost everyday when we can. We got a VERY annoying friend whos house may work. or we can just chill in his woods with a tent and a very lovely bong.
aww bro jus hit the backwoods and explore mother nature, mother natures always a wonderful companion
I prefer toking by myself, i can do what i want, how i want. Listen to what i want, eat what i want, i'm not forced to smoke tobacco joints. I can sit in peace and quiet without feeling the 'need' to socialize or communicate. I can play cod4 as much as i want. I enjoy it much more privately then socially. I disagree with the notion that cannabis must be smoked with other people because that's how alcohol is consumed. It's not that entertaining sitting with ppl who are too monged to talk anyway. If i had more female friends i actually hung out with that blazed maybe my philosophy would change. But all the ones i know hate weed and love alcohol. Each to their own, i'm happy by myself, i know what i like and i do what i want.
I am the same way, I am a pretty social guy once I feel comfortable, its just when I moved to san diego I didn't find anyone to really click with that smoke, only 1 of my coworkers smokes with me n that's bout it. I don't go out as much as I used to so I really don't meet to many new people.
I smoke alone with nobody else you know when I smoke alone I prefer to be by myself.
Thorogood.
I know what you mean. I'm the only one who smokes around here so I usually smoke alone, my boyfriend can't smoke because of work and I really wish he could.
I'm pretty much a loner here also,my own little secret.:smokin:
Girlfriend and 23yr old son, thats about it at my age- 3days older than dirt!
I'm lucky enough to have a gf that blazes whenever i blaze. She loves smoking the ganj :hippy:
My wife and are both smokers, neither of us drink ever or smoke cigerettes. Try finding another couple with kids, who are normal, with decent kids, who smoke. It's next to impossible. Atleast we have one another, but a cool couple would be nice from time to time.
I too prefer, and think its much easier, to just stick to yourself, but I enjoy a good gathering as much as the next guy. What sucks is that you can't be comfortable smoking around your wife. Mine doesn't smoke, but thats a good thing most of the time. Think about it, you can hang on to your stash longer if its just you. Craigslist is a godsend. Not to overstep any boundaries here, but you may want to explain how important it is to you and that you'd prefer not to have to reach out to strangers to get human interaction while you're stoned. I've had that talk and explained how its much more dangerous and limits the relationship. Much to my suprise, this even worked for growing, bringing up budget concerns and "the search" being extremely unpredictable and at times dangerous...this just worked for me, I'm 30 and have been around bars and music since I was 16...so I've kinda gotten to be a recluse...I talk too much about politics too, so its hard for me to find people who are interested in listening after 5-10 minutes...thats why I type in these forums! gotta let it out...:jointsmile:
My wifey and I both smoke, but we found out she is preggers so she cant now,I love blazing with other people! It's fun to share different smoke with everyone. Just have a smokeout at your house and get some guys to come over with there stuff and just get blazed.