Ever Just Feel Alone?

Well im going through this stage in my life right now were i feel so alone. I feel as if no one loves me or even cares. Im single now and maybe it's just that. I want my ex back but i know she dosnt want me. Im not even sure how to let her go. I went to her work today and dropped off everything that ever ment anything to me infront of her door. I can no longer have her around i feel like it's killing me inside. I try to release my feelings but it dosnt seem to be working. Iv been working every day trying to keep myself busy. iv been partying talking to other people and it's not even working. She said she didnt want anything to dow ith me, so i just told her okay... At that moment hearing those words out of the persons mouth that i love.. I felt apart of me die inside.. okay well i have to go to work now..

Always takes time after a break up. If you didn't feel like this, then that means you had no feelings for the person you were dating and that whole dating experience would have been wasted time.

Keep partying and hanging out with friends. Time will take care of you. Give it a few months man.

Its okay! Just give it some time, if you werent upset and lonely after a rough break up you would be emotionally crippled, and cold hearted.
Just know YOUR THE SAME BEAUTIFUL PERSON WITH OR WITH OUT HER!

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Originally Posted by BlAzInIt4:20

Well im going through this stage in my life right now were i feel so alone. I feel as if no one loves me or even cares. Im single now and maybe it's just that. I want my ex back but i know she dosnt want me. Im not even sure how to let her go. I went to her work today and dropped off everything that ever ment anything to me infront of her door. I can no longer have her around i feel like it's killing me inside. I try to release my feelings but it dosnt seem to be working. Iv been working every day trying to keep myself busy. iv been partying talking to other people and it's not even working. She said she didnt want anything to dow ith me, so i just told her okay... At that moment hearing those words out of the persons mouth that i love.. I felt apart of me die inside.. okay well i have to go to work now..

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Just remember that regardless of what you think or feel, there are still many people who love and care about you. I, for one, somebody that only knows you from the internet, love and care for you. Be strong sweety.

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Originally Posted by GraziLovesMary

Just remember that regardless of what you think or feel, there are still many people who love and care about you. I, for one, somebody that only knows you from the internet, love and care for you. Be strong sweety.

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I WILL SECOND THAT


keep your chin up,,your chest out,,and remind yourself every day that your GREAT,,:) :hippy:

I'm not trying to be funny, but, touch yourself and turn yourself on. Give yourself love to prove that you don't need her's.

Yes. Last night I had a little case of the beer blues. lol I was all sentimental. I had to tell everyone to leave because I didn't want to be a buzz-kill. So anyways, while I was drowning my self in......"sorrow"......I kept feeling empty and painful inside and thinking about how lonely i am, and at the moment i felt like i was alone and no one really cared.

well, during all that, a couple of close associates came back. my friend was with them. and we all smoked some and talked about how everyone feels lonely sometimes. family cares because they are bound to you, but sometimes we need people with no ties to us to show us that they care. we're all spoiled in that sense. we all bleed and feel sad sometimes, girl.
it's part of life. just try to get through those stages as healthy and sane as you can. i garuntee there's people that care about you. you don't strike me as a person that would make everyone hate them.


don't worry, these things heal themselves...

The story of a man on a beach covered with stranded and dying starfish who sees a women taking them one by one and throwing them back into the ocean.

"Why are you doing all of this? There are millions of starfish and the beach goes on for miles. You cannot put them all back into the ocean, so what does it matter?"

She has one in hand and throws it into the water to give it back its life and says "It matters completely to this one, so it's this one that counts"

You matter to somebody, You matter enough to me that I responded to your post and that you're not alone, everyone feels this sometime in their lives.

everyone can feel lonely when it can feel like nobody understands, nobody cares (nobdody can actually care, not even yourself) and there's no point to being especially when you feel that you should be living for something and not just for being an unconscious organic portal. just a number. also evolution doesn't really exist. You think positive things will happen by itself? its never garanteed and there can always be mistakes. its up to you (or others). but if nobody is able then tough. wait for the next life, if there is a next life cuz you know that opportunities can come only once especially for things that are meant to be in which that was the only way to fulfill that, in that one opportunity. You miss it, the chance is over and it's that way forever. Its only creation , and even at that God has his own way of doing things which may or may not seem mysterious, indifferent or selfish. but we can never blame God. the one to blame is always, *ALWAYS* the peasant humans. haven't the humans got enough? NEVER.

just wanna say your not alone bro

i just went through the same thing....gf of almost 4 years just decided she needed to be single all of a sudden....it sucks man and its only been 8 days for me and very little progress has been made

hopefully, like others have promised, time will take care of things

just wanted to let you know that what ur going through isnt unique to you and plenty of others including myself have gone through or are going through exactly what you are


send me a message or something if u need some1 to chat about it with

well after moving to a new city (only a hlaf hour away from home still) and having everyone go to college, including my boyfriend, and i live alone wen im used to having 2 sisters yeah increadbly

Alone is what I know best, oddly enough. I dont really search out aloneness as it seems to find me often enough, and I have a hoppin social life already... I am still alone at night. But maybe its for the better, the night is when Im most productive. I can sleep when Im dead.

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Originally Posted by BlAzInIt4:20

Well I'm going through this stage in my life right now were i feel so alone. I feel as if no one loves me or even cares. Im single now and maybe it's just that. I want my ex back but i know she dosnt want me. Im not even sure how to let her go. I went to her work today and dropped off everything that ever ment anything to me in front of her door. I can no longer have her around i feel like it's killing me inside. I try to release my feelings but it doesn't seem to be working. Iv been working every day trying to keep myself busy. iv been partying talking to other people and it's not even working. She said she didnt want anything to dow ith me, so i just told her okay... At that moment hearing those words out of the persons mouth that i love.. I felt apart of me die inside.. okay well i have to go to work now..

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OK, BlazinIt, I'm going to step out on a limb here and ask whether you're looking for someone on the outside to provide what really needs to be intrinsic validation you give yourself? I wonder that because I've read your stories about your ex's nasty treatment of you, and I tend to think that if you felt stronger and more confident in yourself, felt better about your life, and were more comfortable being on your own, you wouldn't be apt to feel so lonely or grieve about the passing of a relationship that was neither healthy nor happy.

I'm certain there are people who care deeply about you. You've heard from several very kind ones here. But my hunch tells me the person who needs to learn to care the most about is you yourself. When you start to like yourself, you'll be more comfortable being alone, will be able to reassure yourself that occasional phases of loneliness are temporary and normal, and you'll avoid hooking up with--and mourning for--romantic partners who don't treat you as well as you deserve.

Hey dont be sad cause we love ya:D PLENTY of timwe have i felt the way u feel. But soon like all say the wounds do heel. Remember that even though when she talks to u she may seem mean or cold. But she too lays in her bed at night thinkin of you also. She may just feel as lonely as you. Right now i feel lonely but i keep thinkin that at least im alive to be with my lil baby girl. Look at it this way as long s your both stillalive then there is a chance unless u have done somethin soooooo terrible she cant forgive you. Time alone sucks but at times it wut we all need to gather our thoughts. You've heard the term if u love somethin then let it go, if it returns it was yours?? Listen to my fucked up story so maybe just you'll see that we all run into destructing heart break. I had been workin at tis place for 4 yrs. I wasnt gettin to spend time with my babys mom or my lil girl. i was going into work at 5am but not gettin home sumtime until midnite!!!!! Eventually one day those words came over the phone" Baby we need to talk" So i had to wait ALLLLLL day at work until i was done to come home and see wut i already knew it was. She broke up with me and it tore my heart apart. The worst thing was one 4 days later i was still so tore up i showed up at her house to jus talk!!! WRONG CHOICE cause there was ALREADY someone else in her bed.............. how ya think that made me feel? How would u feel??? For someone to say they'll always luv u but be sleepin with someone else b4 the week was up?!?!?!? i did the righ tthing and walked out b4 i did somethin i would regret. i was a mess for the longest, but my friends were there for me. They wouldnt let me wash my emotions away with chemicals etc. They stood behind me 100% and helped me heal and for that im grateful. Make sure u let ur friends help u out man. You got my su:rasta:pport hang in there!!!

Birdgirl your completely right and i know thats my problem. Iv been working with myself and trying to better understand myself and accept my flaws. Iv done alot of soul searching and i have found that it dosnt matter what anyone else thinkns of me. And that im not alone their is always someone out their. People who care, people who love. This girl i was in the relationship with i relized it was jsut a stepping stone and that im holding myself out until i find the poerson i want the person that i dream of you get me? Why settle for less when i can just hold out for something better that will come along. I know she treated me like shit and iv relized this now, And i do not feel bad for leaving her ass. I do feel lonely at time's. But it's only because i miss that other person who lays on the other side of the bed. So thank you everyone for showing me people care. and telling me to stay strong..