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Originally Posted by Terps
So the story goes on...
Katie (my x-gf) calls me up today, i ignord her first 50 calls just like she did mine, and then i picked up she was in tears. balling about hows she sorry she did that to my car and blah blah, then she goes on about how much she has missed me and how she wants to come over...so i tell her to come over and we can talk, she gets to my house and she is so fucked up she tripps on my shoes and falls face first to the floor, i help her up and dust her off and i bring her to my couch and tell her how sorry i am and immedeitly she says "Forget about it" and attempts to make-out with me. i push her away as i know shes just drunk and wants to fuck. Now she gets angry demanding that i have sex with her or she will ruin my life, she says abunch of stuff like "I will call the cops and tell them u raped me" "I will call the cops and tell them about your drug problem" "i will call the university and tell them what you did" "i will call all your friends and tell them what you did" so on and so on the bitch came up with so many reasons that i should have sex with her it wasnt even funny i just sat there, thinking thinking about the 36 mafia song "Pussy got you hooked" i waqs about to cave in and have sex with her but then came the vurse that say "HELL NAH!"...i looked at her slapped her accrosed the face and kicked her out of my house. i told her if she ever comes back or ever fucks with my shit one more time i will get the cops involved myself.
This was realy weird i love the girl to death but at the same time i dont...
why do i feel this way???
im sorry everyone here from this poin tu may think me a mean bastard and an evil person but i would have dun the same (like i say a little backhand never hurts) and what she started saying is verbal rape accusation she's bad news dont take her call mate and dont talk to her you def better off without.
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u guys dont seem to understand ..he may have slaped her but why?
because she's demanding sex and if he says no she's goin to completly ruin his life even more then he has i know what he dun in the first place was very shit and turp it was u stole from someones house when they trusted you ...personaly u woulda got more then a punch from me......
but still at the end what she is saying now is just as worse....''fuck me or ill tell on you'''''................backhand go home and sleep bitch..thats ovet the mark.
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Terps you wanna be glad she don't have friends like me coz I would stomp you if you had stole from me .You are both screwed in the head and she is too stoopid to stay away from your sorry ass.
What should i do (Big problem)
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Originally Posted by Terps
So the story goes on...
Katie (my x-gf) calls me up today, i ignord her first 50 calls just like she did mine, and then i picked up she was in tears. balling about hows she sorry she did that to my car and blah blah, then she goes on about how much she has missed me and how she wants to come over...so i tell her to come over and we can talk, she gets to my house and she is so fucked up she tripps on my shoes and falls face first to the floor, i help her up and dust her off and i bring her to my couch and tell her how sorry i am and immedeitly she says "Forget about it" and attempts to make-out with me. i push her away as i know shes just drunk and wants to fuck. Now she gets angry demanding that i have sex with her or she will ruin my life, she says abunch of stuff like "I will call the cops and tell them u raped me" "I will call the cops and tell them about your drug problem" "i will call the university and tell them what you did" "i will call all your friends and tell them what you did" so on and so on the bitch came up with so many reasons that i should have sex with her it wasnt even funny i just sat there, thinking thinking about the 36 mafia song "Pussy got you hooked" i waqs about to cave in and have sex with her but then came the vurse that say "HELL NAH!"...i looked at her slapped her accrosed the face and kicked her out of my house. i told her if she ever comes back or ever fucks with my shit one more time i will get the cops involved myself.
This was realy weird i love the girl to death but at the same time i dont...
why do i feel this way???
Ok first off, if you have any chance of getting your life in check, you need to get rid of her
Slapping her was going way passed the line but hey we all do stupid shit when we are pissed, still it was wrong nevertheless
If I were you, I would just ignore her completely, don't dare give her a second of your time, instead take every opportunity to make yourself well again
And being successful in spite of her will get you nowhere because by that time she will have moved on and would care less, and although you'll be successful, if you see she doesn't care, you'll go back to square one
You need to take some time, get your shit together
Fix the car, and forget about the bitch, go on with your life as these things have never even happened, and move on
try to move forward, not backward
To me it seems you two are one in the same, and thats only a combination for a destructive relationship and a destructive path for yourself, you both have different poisons but never the less they are both deadly
Your mother would have wanted better for you, and if she was here, she most likely wouldn't be too pleased
She wanted the ass because she wants comfort, simple as that
In her head, if you guys would have fucked, she would think she has her way, and that you guys are fine, plus she was drunk, never fuck a drunk girl unless you never see her again (sounds a bit crude but its true) especially if she's your ex, and especially since she wanted to trick on you, if you guys would have fucked, don't even think she wouldn't have threw that in when tellin everybody your buisness
Right now your focus should be starting fresh, it may not seem that way to you now, but the sooner you do it, the better off you will be
Oh and turtle420, the only fires I start are weed fires lol :rasta: too pyrophobic to start any other kinds
Burn your bridges with her, and move on man, if you really want the best for yourself, then thats my suggestion, otherwise history is just going to repeat itself, and you'll be heading down a very volatile path, and you won't ever see the light until you hit rock bottom, and usually rock bottom mean 6 feet under
don't take anything I said as attacking you, especially about your mother, like i said i lost my mother, i know how you feel, but i look at some of the things I've done and my mother would have my ass on a platter if she was still here
Stay strong man, don't give into temptation, and don't give up, get well and hope it all works out for you
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[QUOTE=chisme]u guys dont seem to understand ..he may have slaped her but why?[QUOTE]
If you have any kind of memory you will know that HE started all the shit in the first place,she keyed his motor because of him putting her in the shit with the people she babysat for and god knows what else.
I am starting to believe that it's all a crock of shit anyway,starting to sound more and more like BS to me.
My advice to Terps is (if he is being straight) put it behind you and decide to make a better life for yourself and I really don't see why he thinks he was right to resort to violence.
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[QUOTE=psychocat][QUOTE=chisme]u guys dont seem to understand ..he may have slaped her but why?
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If you have any kind of memory you will know that HE started all the shit in the first place,she keyed his motor because of him putting her in the shit with the people she babysat for and god knows what else.
I am starting to believe that it's all a crock of shit anyway,starting to sound more and more like BS to me.
My advice to Terps is (if he is being straight) put it behind you and decide to make a better life for yourself and I really don't see why he thinks he was right to resort to violence.
no bruv listen right im saying about the whole thing right of course ive read and i know whats goin on dumbass .what i mean is everyone saying ooo you slapped her thats bad your bad your evil.....im saying hwe slaped her because she's trying to force him into sex........read what im saying in the right context before you judge it.
yeah he stole and dragged her into it........thats not what im talking about thou is it!!!:mad: :mad: ffs
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now u all know what i mean when i say no-one understand what im saying because they allways think im talking about something else other then what i am and get the wrong end of the stick....loo i know i speak diffrently from u guys in usa and canada and iraq and stuff but would u please read my posts and keep in mind i dont refure to things the same way as you...but thats no reason to try and insult me because of it......to be doin that just shows small mindedness.
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Just a suggestion but a little punctuation would make your posts easier to understand.
I disagree with him slapping her fullstop because at the end of the day the original sin was his, it's that simple.
Without him stealing they probably wouldn't have broke up at that moment (him being a junkie makes me think it would've happened eventually) and therefore his motor wouldn't of been keyed,he wouldn't of gotten a smack in the mouth and this whole problem would simply not exist.
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wtf! who slapped who? :confused:
im too baked to read that whole thread to find out!:stoned: :stoned: :stoned:
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He messed up her life so she keyed his car then he slapped her quite boring really and not worth wasting your time over.