He-he!Honestly i don't think u were wrong.Did u say u were married?
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He-he!Honestly i don't think u were wrong.Did u say u were married?
OK, please before you give an opinion, read the prior postz, at least the top thread....We have established a looooong time ago that yes, I was wrong for cheating on my wife, but thank you Torog for your eye-opening thesis....Buddymyfriend, dude is NOT my "friend" just a slight acquaintance......
Just to give an UPDATE, last night ALL 3 of us went out to slang some of my CD's, right....so far, so good dude was actin real cool---hooked up with a couple more of my peepz, next thing ya know we were at this wildwest-type bar called the "Coyote Saloon"....You should've seen the faces when we walked in---2 white dudez, 2 white chickz and El Negro leadin the packhaha....anyway they were having Karaoke Night--after being egged on for about 30 minutez by the whole crew, and feeling just a little "jolly" from the 8 Coronaz I had consumed---I finally hit the stage (after a very "special" rendition of "AchyBreakyHeart".....MY first selection was Prince--Purple Rain....They enjoyed me so much I even had the "good ol boyz" buying my CD and asking for autographz....one dude just sits there with his rebel flag hat and biker gear on and sayz, "You dun good, boy"....O my God is he serious??? I blew it off, told him thankz, tried to shake his hand, but it didn't move......the cool onez even made a special request, guess what they wanted to hear?? "Cause I Got High"---so I did that, after that even the rebelhat bikerbuddy wanted to shake my hand....introduced himself simply as "RedNeck"....we talked for a minute---After kickin it with me for about 30 minutes, he had a much different view about black people and people in the world in general.......Everything was cool until the [chick] had her last Heineken....she couldn't stay off me, right---kissing my neck, rubbin on me and shit---I HAD been trying to use a little restraint with HER (for the dude's sake he said he was cool but I still didn't know).....Why did she do that now I'm getting really nervous plus everybody's drunk.....Anyway the shit hit the fan when I went to do one more song ---"When Doves Cry" right....Anyway, by this time all the femalez in the club had adjusted and were quite comfortable with my presence.....As I'm singing the song, a couple of em come to the stage and start dancing with me....really close, right.....even my girl comez up and joins in---she had them broadz pullin they topz up and actin all freaky wit me and shit while I was doin the song!!!! Suddenly here comes Bob (just made that name up)...using the hand motion you know cross your neck back and forth and he's like "Uh-uh man that's enough"...He grabz one of the chicks and carries her away from the stage O shit....OK, time to go----the bitch was tryna leave WIT US and shit--Can you believe that shit Man, let me get the FUCK up outta HERE----Looking around for the dude, didn't see him---he's outside, on the phone (or pretending), apparently drunk and unstable, and suddenly his true feelingz came out....
Now I REALLY don't have time for this shit I'm not gone be fighting with the mufucka I CAME wit it's plenty on the inside were ready to string me up, rightlol.....Anyway I tell him he's drunk but he just keeps trippin he REALLY WANTED TO FIGHT ME----now this is one CRAZY ass white boy he doesn't know what he's getting into, it's not his fault, plus a did feel a small degree of responsibility for his current condition, right.....Anyway, I keep telling him he's drunk, just get in the PoMobile I'mma give you a ride home...He jumps in my shit, STEADY talkin shit, right....So I'm like, "Man, I'm giving you a ride home and you steady talkin shit--what's up wit that??" So he's like, "I don't need a ride I can walk"---so I stop, he hops his dumb azz out to prepare for a 10-mile hike back to his house...guess he just couldn't take ol girl being all on me, THEN to see all those other chickz jocking me and he's dateless...can't help it he's a loser, right....I tried to help him, I told him I could give him some game, but he didn't want it.....Anyway, me and the [chick] were still in a semi-good mood, so I parked in some distant dark spot on the backwudz here in Mississippi (plenty spotz)...and proceeded to bang her to DEATH in the back of the van haha....I don't think I'll go back around the dude, tho...since his true feelings are out, whether he was drunk or not, I don't need that in my life, besidez he wasn't doin shit for me he just hung out with me washin my whipz and shit trying to get off in the music shit....what a lame.....
PS I LOVE this board man I've NEVER been able to tell anyone around me what goes on in my life....I feel like I can tell you guyz whatever and it's cool, and if you ain't, well Fuck You I'm cool----I usually have shit happening ALL THE TIME tho man, the craziest shit....I could tell ya some stories and half of you would seriously think I was lying.....that's why I decided to start my own reality show (The "Po" Show)...IF ya'll check out this first episode, you'll be able to see this idiot I've been talking about the whole time do his thang (trippin) PEACE
all i have to say is what can u expect his from missisippie i bet they still hang the confederate flag on his side of the trailer park
This is the type of half-assed racism I have come to expect from you Torog. If you think that the white community has any fewer problems with infidelity you are sorely mistaken. To imply otherwise does a grave injustice to the process of social equality in this country.Quote:
Originally Posted by Torog
(Note: I'd also love to take the time to point out that these type of side comments just aren't socially acceptable anymore. This isn't the 1980s anymore, kiddo.)
Just ask Bill Cosby? Was that a joke? Why must you insist on infecting threads with your backwards, morally superior bullshit when people are just trying to live their lives?
Bill Cosby did recently go on a public rant about this very topic and I'm sure that is what Torog is referencing. T just tells it like he is, it is ok. He doesn't mean any harm by it, he is of a different generation.Quote:
Originally Posted by lemonboy
and poboy it is all good, just be nice and it will come back to you. The cheating thing hit a nerve, the first man I fell in love with, cheated on me constantly with skanky ugly ho's and I never understood why he would hurt me so bad, just to get his dick sucked by some fat ugly chick.
Well, Scarlett, I seriously believe some of us (a lot of us)---simply cannot help ourselvez....That is the nature of a man, no getting around it, married or not....anyone with a retort to that is a bold-faced lie....But now, there is the issue of control, which most of us have none......My wife thinkz I have a sex addiction....I just have a weakness for cute white girlzlol....I don't know, maybe because it's something new to me, I just started dating white chickz on a regular basis not too long ago....lately they've been throwing themselves at my feet (even if they don't know who I am at the time)....I got a big problem saying "No"........Got in this morning about 5am, she was waiting on me....I fucked up big time, man she found a video of me and this OTHER chick on the computer (how in the HELL did she find THAT shit???!!!)......So now I'm in the doghouse *again*---to be honest she isn't THAT cool with it--she just tries to tolerate it cause she loves me so much--I probably don't deserve her--then again come to think of it ---I probably do----lol!!! I GOT A PROBLEMQuote:
Originally Posted by ScarlettCrush
I think it has a lot to do with self esteem and self control, just because you can doesn't mean you should. Maybe you all should have an open relationship for a while, so you can get it out your system. Maybe you should talk to someone about it learn some self control, but it obviously isn't making you or your family happy an you can't ignore it. good luck with it, I been on the other side, so I don't know what to say.