how to deal with the fact that you have never had a girlfriend...

I think Nailhead brought up some good points. I wont go so far as to say sex is EVERYTHING and that is the sole key to a long-term relationship, but yes sex is important.

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Originally Posted by Nailhead

It would be moronic if I was giving him relationship advice, getting laid and getting a g/f are 2 completely different things. If he is like any normal guy, he probably thinks that in order to get laid he needs to have a relationship, which just isn't true at all.

Maybe it is just me, but you seem a bit angered by the advice I gave, why is that?

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I apoligize for my anger ive been dry on bud for a few days now so i havent gotten the best sleep. You gave advice to get layed, I gave advice for a relationship, i miss interpreted what he wanted, my bad.

lol, I don't know how to go about getting sex without a relationship first.

Obviously you are going to need to make friends with a few girls first. Mentioning that you aren't looking for a serious relationship at the moment is a must, but I wouldn't necessarily mention your personal/truthful intentions right off the bat.

It sounds to me that you have trouble meeting people. Get outside and meet people. Be a fun and positive person, then women will want to have fun with you.

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Originally Posted by Non

lol, I don't know how to go about getting sex without a relationship first.

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Have you ever heard about a poison called booze?

its called date rape get with the times :glugglug:

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Originally Posted by Innominate

It sounds to me that you have trouble meeting people. Get outside and meet people. Be a fun and positive person, then women will want to have fun with you.

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I can't speak for Non, but I'd say that people who have trouble meeting people often have trouble meeting people because they suffer from some sort of social anxiety and I'd say that meeting people, for a person with social anxiety, can be quite troublesome. It's quite difficult to have friends, male or female, when you're too scared to go out and do something.

Well im not the most social person...most find me weird. Its all about confidence, think to yourself they are lesser than you and your doing them a favor. Also most people with not so much experience tend to cling severely...just relax and be patient.

Drinking helps me, might be worth a shot....snap, nice pun.

Try and lightly flirt or just start little conversations then ask for a date, after the date wait a bit before you call. :smokin:

got a girl yet?
go get a girl !


then you'll find love ~~
fill us in !!


make love to her from the back of a chevy !

memorable !!

the next post you read will be

about the bitchin chick NON has!!

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Originally Posted by cadmiumblimp

I can't speak for Non, but I'd say that people who have trouble meeting people often have trouble meeting people because they suffer from some sort of social anxiety and I'd say that meeting people, for a person with social anxiety, can be quite troublesome. It's quite difficult to have friends, male or female, when you're too scared to go out and do something.

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I completely understand, but it doesn't mean it is hopeless for him. As I've said before, there are different kinds of women out there looking for Non.