My ex gf is pregnant...

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Originally Posted by LazySmoking420

Was she on the pill? If not. She didn't ask for condom? Why would she put herself at risk like that? Try to tie you down? I'd like to believe stupidity..but I dont know. Young girls like to tie down boys.

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So do you think that protection falls under the females responsibility only? Uh no, a relationship is a 2 person responsibility. You can't blame the chick for being irresponisble and not using protection without blaming the dude. Hes a smart boy, he knows what a condom is; Did he ask for a condom? It's not just HER putting herself at risk, it is JUST AS MUCH THE MANS RESPONSIBILITY!! It takes TWO people to make a child. You can't say she was trying to tie him down when he knew just as DAMNED WELL that unprotected sex can lead to pregnancy. I hope you get some chick pregnant and realize that ITS JUST AS MUCH YOUR FUCKING FAULT AS THE CHICKS.

I'm sorry I just can't believe someone would think that all the responsibility falls on the girl.

you have 3 choices...

1. abort

2. prepare yourself for 18 years of child support (or jail if you decide not to pay)

3. be a daddy (which obviously won't last, so see #2...)

good thing she is your EX-girlfriend

4 words. "never trust a ho". not saying shes a ho, BUT girls can sometimes be fucked up. Same shit happend to me.. girl is calling my hoiuse talkin to my moms saying shes pregnant and shit... fuck! not to mention long pregnancy talk as soon as i got home, and i was FAAAYYYY - DEAD:stoned: . turns out the girl just likes to mess around. what a bitch. unless u saw milk come out of her boobs, dont believe it.. i dont think girls can even produce milk until 3 days after labor. u dont have to believe its urs... this isnt a problem maury cant solve.

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Originally Posted by buddymyfriend

Sometimes people dont have a choice in the matter.

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High school girl with the bourgeois dream
just like the picture in the magazine
she found on the floor of a laundrymat
a woman with kids can forget all that
if she comes up pregnant, what'll she do
forget about her career forget about school
can she live on faith, live on hope?
high on jesus or hooked on dope
when it's way too late to just say no...( to be continued)

dai*ma:stoned:

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Originally Posted by Acouwaila

Thanks guys for all of your help, really. I am not freaking out, and if I dont adopt I am ready to step up and be a man and do what I have to , to take care of my child.

She is going to buy a test real soon actually.

I was actually relying on the "pull-out" method. While we were dating she was using birth control. After that, we've had sex quite a few times un-protected and for a long time she never got pregnant. I guess I just pushed my luck, huh?

Well she just had her period about 2 weeks ago...and it was this past weekend that we had sex. I didn't know women could lactate this early in the pregnancy either.

Im not sure if she is pregnant or not but I will find out soon. Whatever the answer, I am ready for the consequences.

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good luck.

dai*ma

so has she missed a period yet?

dude i sugest you get an abortion unless you and her are both up for being parents.
if tahts the case, i sugest you get a job fast.

you have $500? get an abortion. it wont be easy on you and it will be HELL for her (while shes having it, and the depression for a couple months afterwards), but imagine having to deal with a mistake for 18 years... :-\

ive had a similar situation and i think the abortion was probably the best choice. so does she.

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Originally Posted by TallulahGreen

So do you think that protection falls under the females responsibility only? Uh no, a relationship is a 2 person responsibility. You can't blame the chick for being irresponisble and not using protection without blaming the dude. Hes a smart boy, he knows what a condom is; Did he ask for a condom? It's not just HER putting herself at risk, it is JUST AS MUCH THE MANS RESPONSIBILITY!! It takes TWO people to make a child. You can't say she was trying to tie him down when he knew just as DAMNED WELL that unprotected sex can lead to pregnancy. I hope you get some chick pregnant and realize that ITS JUST AS MUCH YOUR FUCKING FAULT AS THE CHICKS.

I'm sorry I just can't believe someone would think that all the responsibility falls on the girl.

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your argument is unbeatable. you are 100% right.

dai*ma:stoned:

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Originally Posted by Nochowderforyou

There's a haeartbeat 20 days after becoming pregnant. Just because the fetus isn't alive on the outside, doesn't mean it isn't alive on the inside of the women. A heartbeat=life.

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You sound like some Pro-Life Catholic, there are too many people man, some need to be killed before they even start. More people = less land = less territory= and territory dispute = war. Humans are animals, and the more people killed the better. I would rather save a tree. I bet this kills the thread. Ahahahaha