My ex gf is pregnant...

[Acouwaila]

So...for the past couple of weeks ive been visiting her and having sex (I know it was wrong and I really didnt have the intentions to every time i went over but it happened)

and now....shes pregnant...no doubt about it...no test was done but shes got symptoms....

i mean...im only 18 years old I just started college....

I dont even have a job yet...

I really dont believe in abortion

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what do i do???

Acouwaila Reviewed by Acouwaila on 10-20-2006. My ex gf is pregnant... So...for the past couple of weeks ive been visiting her and having sex (I know it was wrong and I really didnt have the intentions to every time i went over but it happened) and now....shes pregnant...no doubt about it...no test was done but shes got symptoms.... i mean...im only 18 years old I just started college.... I dont even have a job yet... I really dont believe in abortion Rating: 5

[tootsie roll]

First make sure. Then you have to find out if there are any other guys she's had sex with lately.
If she is pregnant and you are just going to assume the baby is yours, then you have lot's and lots to think about. A little life that will need little diapers and little doctor appointments and a place to live and food to eat......for at least 18 years.

If she's not pregnant, I suggest condoms from now on and any other form of birth control there is. IE the pill, IUD, diaphram, sponge.....

I'm not sure what to say. It's common knowledge that when penis penetrates vagina and ejaculation occurs, there is a chance of pregnancy.

[ToDrunkToFish]

Shit same thing happened to my friend. All I can say is they got an abortion early on. And then the relationship was ruined.

Im not all about that shit either. But the sooner the better.

[kwik nasty]

youre fucked man. time to quit college & get a job at the kwikie mart.

[Acouwaila]

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well she said her breasts were producing milk but no sites i read on say that, that is a symptom of pregnancy even tho its obvious...I dont know!!

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[d00d989]

just punch her in the stomach


lol jk

[kwik nasty]

aw sorry man...dont get down. life isnt over, but life is going to change. thats for sure. you havta decide if you wanna get with yo babys momma or not.

[Phire210]

Man... that's a huge bummer. I feel for ya bro. Getting a girl pregnant has always been one of my fears. I hope that she doesn't end up being pregnant, I'm pullin' for you. In the end I believe that by law, it's completely up to the mother to decide whether or not to get an abortion, but i may be just talking out of my ass. I hope all goes well, keep us updated.

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well she said her breasts were producing milk but no sites i read on say that, that is a symptom of pregnancy even tho its obvious...I dont know!!

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No. Noooooo. :dance:

If it were far enough along where her breasts were already producing milk, I think she'd know that she was pregnant.

There's many free services that can handle this kind of thing, take you the entire process. Trust me, I know. First, find a free clinic in your area (sorry, I don't know how common these are outside california) that'll give you a free birth control test, or buy one yourself. Trust me, that seven bucks is worth it.

[tootsie roll]

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well she said her breasts were producing milk but no sites i read on say that, that is a symptom of pregnancy even tho its obvious...I dont know!!

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In highschool I had this friend and she was kinda small busted but they were always leaking and she wasn't pregnant.

Most recently I got to know a gril in her 20's, large busted and she leaks too.

Me, I've never just leaked to leak so I don't know the whole story on that.
I could do some googling if ya like.