how to deal with the fact that you have never had a girlfriend...

Everyone starts somewhen :jointsmile:

I don't think I'll ever get a girlfriend

I dont even know how to get one. One cannot even really be direct in looking for a girlfriend without it looking like you're just looking for meat can they?

I always found that a direct approach works. My opening line is :
Do you fuck on first dates? LOL

Only kidding my problem isn't getting girlfriends it's keeping ex=girlfriends away.At my moms funeral two of my exes were there as well as my current one.

In my own experience as funny as it seems,I usually find women when I'm not looking.Its seems if I show no interest it makes them more attracted to me. The times I was most approached by women was when I was married. My wives friends were all over me. But me being the idiot I was I never took any of them up on it.

i dont get why girls get all whorish around every other guy except for me and then they get all mad with me or some shit and are quick to throw me a lawsuit.

one of the funniest things i've ever read, on a guitar forum

"Sex is overrated. Try World of Warcraft."

Why do so many of you guys want a girl friend? Most of you guys are younger than me, you shouldn't even be looking for a girlfriend, you should be dating as many women as you possibly can, the last thing you want is to waste your youth with 1 person! I think this is where many of you are having problems, because you are so desperate for a girlfriend every girl you talk to can smell your desperation so you get a quick route into the friend category. But if you make it clear you are only looking to date, aka have sex, then they will never make the mistake of thinking of you as a friend. If they aren't interested, move on and find another. Repeat this process over and over, and in time, you will get better and better, but don't waste your time with a girlfriend while you are so young, in the long run you will just see how much of a waste of time that was.

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Originally Posted by yoda

one of the funniest things i've ever read, on a guitar forum

"Sex is overrated. Try World of Warcraft."

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ROFLMAO!!!!! :S2::S2::S2:

BTW... for all those who think the life is shit only because they have not girlfriends... i can say from my own experience... i had my first girlfriend when i was 20, so i know how you feel. And i can say its not THAT too much... Its good, of course, but not having one is not the end of the world.
AND, having a girlfriend brings a LOT of new problems... many of which you may not be ready to deal with. I say it by experience, its far more complicated than you think... and to someone who never had any relationship, women can be, at least, incomprehensible... It would have been better for me if i had my 1st girlfriend when i were older, and wiser.
Also, i know it seems to be a lot of "social pressure", like to be the only ones that are alone... but dont worry about it. Each one is a unique and special person, and no one should feel need to be like no one... so, just be yourself.
A final advice, is that things happen when youre NOT looking for them. If you worries too much about finding someone, probably youre just keeping them away. Stop to worry, do other things, enjoy your life, and when the right time comes (cause it always come), you will find your one. Until then, relax... or, like was said in the quote on the yoda's post (my version):

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Originally Posted by coelho

"Sex is overrated. Try Weed :stoned:"

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Originally Posted by Nailhead

Why do so many of you guys want a girl friend? Most of you guys are younger than me, you shouldn't even be looking for a girlfriend, you should be dating as many women as you possibly can, the last thing you want is to waste your youth with 1 person! I think this is where many of you are having problems, because you are so desperate for a girlfriend every girl you talk to can smell your desperation so you get a quick route into the friend category. But if you make it clear you are only looking to date, aka have sex, then they will never make the mistake of thinking of you as a friend. If they aren't interested, move on and find another. Repeat this process over and over, and in time, you will get better and better, but don't waste your time with a girlfriend while you are so young, in the long run you will just see how much of a waste of time that was.

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the problem is I can't even get a date or fuck budddy

what the fuck is dating anyway. I dont know how to go about that one with women. "Hey you wanna go on a date?" it sounds better if I just ask them if they wanna hang out.