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Originally Posted by Terps
im sorry everyone here from this poin tu may think me a mean bastard and an evil person but i would have dun the same (like i say a little backhand never hurts) and what she started saying is verbal rape accusation she's bad news dont take her call mate and dont talk to her you def better off without.
u guys dont seem to understand ..he may have slaped her but why?
because she's demanding sex and if he says no she's goin to completly ruin his life even more then he has i know what he dun in the first place was very shit and turp it was u stole from someones house when they trusted you ...personaly u woulda got more then a punch from me......
but still at the end what she is saying now is just as worse....''fuck me or ill tell on you'''''................backhand go home and sleep bitch..thats ovet the mark.
Terps you wanna be glad she don't have friends like me coz I would stomp you if you had stole from me .You are both screwed in the head and she is too stoopid to stay away from your sorry ass.
Ok first off, if you have any chance of getting your life in check, you need to get rid of herQuote:
Originally Posted by Terps
Slapping her was going way passed the line but hey we all do stupid shit when we are pissed, still it was wrong nevertheless
If I were you, I would just ignore her completely, don't dare give her a second of your time, instead take every opportunity to make yourself well again
And being successful in spite of her will get you nowhere because by that time she will have moved on and would care less, and although you'll be successful, if you see she doesn't care, you'll go back to square one
You need to take some time, get your shit together
Fix the car, and forget about the bitch, go on with your life as these things have never even happened, and move on
try to move forward, not backward
To me it seems you two are one in the same, and thats only a combination for a destructive relationship and a destructive path for yourself, you both have different poisons but never the less they are both deadly
Your mother would have wanted better for you, and if she was here, she most likely wouldn't be too pleased
She wanted the ass because she wants comfort, simple as that
In her head, if you guys would have fucked, she would think she has her way, and that you guys are fine, plus she was drunk, never fuck a drunk girl unless you never see her again (sounds a bit crude but its true) especially if she's your ex, and especially since she wanted to trick on you, if you guys would have fucked, don't even think she wouldn't have threw that in when tellin everybody your buisness
Right now your focus should be starting fresh, it may not seem that way to you now, but the sooner you do it, the better off you will be
Oh and turtle420, the only fires I start are weed fires lol :rasta: too pyrophobic to start any other kinds
Burn your bridges with her, and move on man, if you really want the best for yourself, then thats my suggestion, otherwise history is just going to repeat itself, and you'll be heading down a very volatile path, and you won't ever see the light until you hit rock bottom, and usually rock bottom mean 6 feet under
don't take anything I said as attacking you, especially about your mother, like i said i lost my mother, i know how you feel, but i look at some of the things I've done and my mother would have my ass on a platter if she was still here
Stay strong man, don't give into temptation, and don't give up, get well and hope it all works out for you
[QUOTE=chisme]u guys dont seem to understand ..he may have slaped her but why?[QUOTE]
If you have any kind of memory you will know that HE started all the shit in the first place,she keyed his motor because of him putting her in the shit with the people she babysat for and god knows what else.
I am starting to believe that it's all a crock of shit anyway,starting to sound more and more like BS to me.
My advice to Terps is (if he is being straight) put it behind you and decide to make a better life for yourself and I really don't see why he thinks he was right to resort to violence.
[QUOTE=psychocat][QUOTE=chisme]u guys dont seem to understand ..he may have slaped her but why?Quote:
If you have any kind of memory you will know that HE started all the shit in the first place,she keyed his motor because of him putting her in the shit with the people she babysat for and god knows what else.
I am starting to believe that it's all a crock of shit anyway,starting to sound more and more like BS to me.
My advice to Terps is (if he is being straight) put it behind you and decide to make a better life for yourself and I really don't see why he thinks he was right to resort to violence.
no bruv listen right im saying about the whole thing right of course ive read and i know whats goin on dumbass .what i mean is everyone saying ooo you slapped her thats bad your bad your evil.....im saying hwe slaped her because she's trying to force him into sex........read what im saying in the right context before you judge it.
yeah he stole and dragged her into it........thats not what im talking about thou is it!!!:mad: :mad: ffs
now u all know what i mean when i say no-one understand what im saying because they allways think im talking about something else other then what i am and get the wrong end of the stick....loo i know i speak diffrently from u guys in usa and canada and iraq and stuff but would u please read my posts and keep in mind i dont refure to things the same way as you...but thats no reason to try and insult me because of it......to be doin that just shows small mindedness.
Just a suggestion but a little punctuation would make your posts easier to understand.
I disagree with him slapping her fullstop because at the end of the day the original sin was his, it's that simple.
Without him stealing they probably wouldn't have broke up at that moment (him being a junkie makes me think it would've happened eventually) and therefore his motor wouldn't of been keyed,he wouldn't of gotten a smack in the mouth and this whole problem would simply not exist.
wtf! who slapped who? :confused:
im too baked to read that whole thread to find out!:stoned: :stoned: :stoned:
He messed up her life so she keyed his car then he slapped her quite boring really and not worth wasting your time over.
Go seek a profesional, tell him how you feel, how you are a junkie and steal. I know it may seem hard but im hoping it will be easier to you considering your talking to a stranger and he won't think any less of you because its his job to help you, tell your g/f that you've realised what you've been doing is wrong and that you want to get off this addiction and become a better person. Its going to be hard, but if you give this up now once you've over come this you'll see how much better your life is :)
Good luck man, MUCH love
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Originally Posted by Terps
As i said, get profesional help. Other wise your going to end up in jail, depressed the rest of your life. Or worse, dead. You only have one life. Don't wreck it man. Make sure if you do talk to her again that she's sober and just explain about how the threats ar'nt helping and your trying your hardest.
lol ill take your advice, smoking the rest of this dooby in the back garden seems better!:dance: :thumbsup:Quote:
Originally Posted by HiddenBeauty
its nice outside, like a summer night!:smokin: :thumbsup:
true its not worth argueing over
Sounds like you have the right idea.I can't believe it's like a summer night in Scotland :confused: ;) :smokin:Quote:
Originally Posted by highjinx
This thread went to hell at post 52, man. Before that I was very much into it, now it's sounding like a joke....and a pretty funny one at that.
Reminds me of that WB bullshit from television.
so after class today i called katie, of course she didnt answear so i left a msg saying that i want all my crap back, all my sweatshirts, all my dvds, all my cds...everything i dont want to have another reason to see this bitch ever. so she called me back like 5 mins later telling me i can come by and pick up my stuff anytime i wanted, so i did i hopped in my car that is all fucked up now and drove to her house. knocked on her door. she came to the door with my stuff, handed it to me and i turnd and walked away without saying a word. got in my car and drove off, she called me about a min later begging me to come back and talk, i told her it would be best if i didnt, best for the both of us. we are both young both new to the game and both have lots of life ahead of us. i told her i was sorry for what i did, sorry for imbarrassing her, sorry for lieing to her face, and sorry for hitting her last night and hung up the phone. My story is done and over. This is probly the biggest learning experience of my life so far in these past few days i feel i have grown emencly. i will continue to stay away for pills and situations that involve pills tell i think i am stronge enough to tackel them head on. i want to thank all who responded with good helpfull comments.
For all of you who still dont understand why i slapped her last night there were 2 main reasons....
1) She DEMANDED sex from me, and got in my face demanding sex and making fulse statments
2) I dont care how much u say that car can be replaced...it cant its not just a normal car its not just any old car...its all i have left its the only thing i have to remind me of my mom.
Oh dear did she hurt you with her nasty words? You didn't NEED to hit her you did it cause of what she said and thats a lame excuse. And thats coming from someone who has made that mistake themselves and believe me when I say that it was the sorriest moment of my life so don't bullshit a bullshitter and make excuses for yourself.Quote:
Originally Posted by Terps
Did she take a 14 pound sledgehammer to the motor? Did she put sugar in the tank??
NO! she keyed the fucking thing , you never heard of a spray shop??
Last I have to say on the subject.
say you were 14 years old and your mom got killed by a drunk driver, and your mom left you say a fuckin boombox and sum punk decided to spraypaint all over it...would u let that fly?
Shut the fuck up and dont post on my thred anymore
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Originally Posted by psychocat
pychocat
no 1.:mad:
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Originally Posted by Terps
no. 2
u ever heard of how much money it costs to get a full repaint? and yes he will have to do that or hell have one door bright and all the rest of the car slightly faded.
..also plus that fact he shouldnt have to pay-our for her taking out her key and scratching it down his car........that his mom has left him.:mad:
[QUOTE=Terps]
For all of you who still dont understand why i slapped her last night there were 2 main reasons....
1) She DEMANDED sex from me, and got in my face demanding sex and making fulse statments
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THANK YOU THATS WHAT IM SAYING THE FACT THAT SHE TRIED TO THREATEN U WITH GETTING U INTO BIGGER SHIT DESERVES A SLAP!.god
also turps look bro u fucked up big u fucked up bad but as the same with everyone else all we can do is try and make up for it.youve obviously tried so i cant kock u much except for your mistake but we all make mistakes at least you've admited it to yourself aswell as other people. so.....good luck
Real men don't steal a suffering woman's medication.
Real men don't hit women. For any reason.
That's all I have to say.
Yes lieing MORE is the key man, you ROCK.Quote:
Originally Posted by Genuine17
And you didnt have any missed calls cus if you have no reception it doesnt say missed calls.. it juts went straight to your voicemail.. she didnt leave a voicemail yes but you know she prolly called. you need to call her back and tell ehr you need help. i got arrested for weed. and my gf was so scared that i would never see her again so i told her i needed her help, i ahvent smoked in 4 months, will be back soon once im outta trouble but you get me. good luck.