when theres no other direction

Hey C........find yourself.......I don't want some psycho bitch two faced girl making you think that she is the best thing on earth and then bashing you down.....okay maybe that was a little to blunt but dude find out what you like and know yourself. You have to be able to know yourself before you can really find someone who is compatiable with you!! She is out there!!!!!!!! Ever seen the butterfly effect.....every little thing that you do...that girl that maybe smiled at you.....buy hey don't get paranoid...lol... some of your posts about the cops getting you on this sight!!
:) good luck!

It was a nice story, N2M :)

I was the same, about kids, I mean...didn't really have alot of time for them.
But I'll tell you what..when my first was born (I was at the birth), and I heard that first cry..man, I thought that my heart was gonna explode. It was like a rush of emotions - fear, awe, and uncontrollable pride :D
I will never forget that moment.

You're right to wait, N2M...you don't need me to tell you that babies are a whole lot more than just cute. They're hard work, and need loads of attention.
But, they are also very rewarding.
When they are with me, I try to balance good grounding and child-like play - not always easy, especially as I only see them at weekends...I don't want to spend the whole time being the 'strict' father..but I also want them to be good people, and sometimes, you have to be 'cruel' to be kind.

But no matter how down I feel, when I tuck them into bed at night, and they look up at me and say "I love you, Daddy"...sheesh!...lmaoo...you know what I mean.
Soppy old git, aint I?

I could tell how much you love your sister, N2M, from those pics you posted back along.
And she you :)

Kids, eh? :rolleyes:

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It was a nice story, N2M :)

I was the same, about kids, I mean...didn't really have alot of time for them.
But I'll tell you what..when my first was born (I was at the birth), and I heard that first cry..man, I thought that my heart was gonna explode. It was like a rush of emotions - fear, awe, and uncontrollable pride :D
I will never forget that moment.

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i know what u mean i still remember all my babies first cries :D
it was the most amazing moment of my life!
i feel bad for people who choose not to exsperiance it :(

Ammie, Hey babe,dont let that shit get you down ,it s the way we all may feel at some point in our life,I rely on my faith and my strong will to get me through and at some point ,everything in your life will start to seem much clearerand you will understand that lifes just a carnival,enjoy the ride,and when you get to scared rely on your faith,and take a break ,do something for someone you dont know someone that could really use a hand,and you will feel better after you do,but just remember you are very important in this equation,and to flourish you must move foward and not stay idle.well,im not all knowing,i just feel a deep concern for you.Stay focused,everything will get better.Im sure.

yea, babies are great!
I loves the little crys too, you can always tell the difference between a hurting cry and other crys...I do love my little sister and i feel sorry for ppl who dont choose to have kids or just cant have kids too Ammie, its a great experience, and loads of joy!
It may be hard at times, but its worth every second!