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Confront him, tell him you're cool with it, and lay down some ground rules.
Coming from a kid who's parents are pretty much totally against it...it might sound like your kid won't follow your rules of when to smoke, but if my parents let me, I'd have only done it when they said. G'luck man.
Glad it went well.
What I think would be cool is.. Get a nice joint rolled up, then when the wife isn't around go sit next to the kid put the joint on the table in front of him and say seriously "we gotta talk" let him sweat a few seconds. Then smile and say "lets smoke one before mom comes home" hehe then procced and while you are tell him how you feel about it and want him to be able to be open and honest with you about everything. wouldn't you rather know where and what hes up to, then have him off who knows where with who knows who. Be a cool dad, you'll be a hero:):dance: :rasta:
That, or put the joint on the table and if the kid says "thats not mine!" then you'd be like "Haha, I know. Its mine, you wanna' blaze or what?"Quote:
Originally Posted by bavet
Haha, that'd be sweet.
I was pretty disapointed when I realized you had already talked to him before I posted...lol.
Spark one up with him eventually..for all the kids like me that will never have the opportunity. :)
^agree; hand him the pipe or what ever tool you use to your kid next time your smoking
as from being 20 and have smoked with my relatives... you develope a whole new sense of bonging.. bonding
Smoked with my cuz once, it wasn't that great. It was kind of a sneaky smoke downstairs, and he was on the phone and shit. I want to have a proper sesh with him one day.
hey im 15 and i used to take my dads stash all the time.. my point of view... dont get mad at him, and dont tell the wife. hah but you know tell him you notice it and its ok he does it and youd do it with him tell him though that if you do this and he gets in trouble... outside of you and him doing it means trouble... basically do it with him around you too keep him out of trouble from the cops, or even with your wife...
and yea it will develop alot stonger of a relationship with your son.. just keep it on the downlow tell him not to tell his friends or anything and you wont have to worry about anyone finding out...
i AM 15, and heres my advice.
the kids at his school or w/e probobly overcharge for pot, and pinch the sack, its just so mutch eisier to light up on dads stash, i admit, ive stolen pot from ym dad, and my mom doesnt know either of us smoke. basically sam situation your in. just let him know that you know he pinched your sack, smoke with him every now and then, yah know, he gets an A+ on his math paper, why not give him a bud? there is so many ways to do it, not to mention he wont steal from you again after you confront him.
basically, my dad said...
"i smoke, you smoke, you know that, lets not lie to eachother. i will help you in anyway i can, i dont really have a problem with you smoking, i dont really condone it, but yah know i started smoking at your age too, but its not an excuse to steal. i have no problem giving you bud now and then, but you are going to have to earn it."
me "okay dad i am sorry i will not steal from you anymore, im glad you can understand where i am coming from"
dad pulls a joint he had in his ear hidden under neath his hair, and then smokes it with me, i couldnt believe it, it felt weird at firs but now its all good, and mom still doesnt know (SHHHHH!!!)
just recently i came home with my report card (2.0 gpa, raised it from a .64 gpa, so he was happy) and my dad gave me about .5 gram. i was so happy, i went and smoked, etc. and every now and then hell give me a bud just cause he wants to, maybe i did the dishes, or had been really nice to my mom, etc. it really is great.
just dont put your self in the position where it could end up being a power struggle and him and you argunin in front of mom, yah know how it goes, dont want it to end up like
"YOU SMOKE POT!!!"
"YOU SMOKE POT TOO!!"
"YOUR A HYPOCRITE!"
"GO TO YOUR ROOM!"
because thats noe fun and it could hurt your relation ship with him and make it hard on the both of you..
its always good to have someone to tell me "moms coming home and it reeks like dank in here, better change your shirt, ill get the frebreeze"