i kissed my best friend last night

Kryzco

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lay it out gently

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beachguy in thongs

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That's funny, bizzle. I thought you would have used another piece of anatomy.

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i though i was bad

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Originally Posted by birdgirl73

What's Avalon, Bong? I've never even heard of that. . .

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It is blueberry, afgani cross............OMG wicked

I've always found it was best to be up front with people especially ones you care about....if your bothered by it only two ways to get over it, talk about it or ignore it.

I think you know which option is best. Good Luck.

okay so i am thinking about asking her what she meant that kiss to be. THEN i will tell her that even tho i love her like a sister, i just cant put myself inn a sexual relationship with her, it would be too awkward first of all and i just cant bring myself to do anything like that to her or any woman. i think it would hurt our relationship more than it would do good.

what i find so strange is how we hung out for maybe 4 hours that morning and the whole time, WE SAID NOTHING about it. nothing. maybe she doesnt even remember... it was like 4am and we were pretty burnt out from a whole day of walking in the woods and toking....i'm confused. madi is usually the type to say something i she was uncomfortable....maybe she just wants to give me time to think it over, maybe the whole thing was calculated...maybe it was total random girliness blown out of proportion. i am almost scared to approach her. like i said, its eating my BRAIN (yes, brain)

We need pics to see if your making the right decision.

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Originally Posted by poiuyt

We need pics to see if your making the right decision.

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Yes, pictures would help :).

yes, dips most definetly. but u gotta luv em

Aint nuthin wrong with girls kissing in my opinion. It aint the end of the world being a lesbian.

i love death cab for cuties soul meets body :D

You seem pretty scared of approaching her because of what the outcome is going to be but like alot of people said here if the friendship is strong enough this shouldnt be an issue.

I'm just curious why you kissed her back in the first place?
Perhaps she was doing what you were doing and kissed. Maybe you two feel the exact same way and is waiting for the other to approach about the situation. And maybe you guys feel the same way about the kiss. I say you just approach her, unless you're going to wait for her to approach you first.
I think its going to turn out fine, you guys seem like pretty close friends. I mean cmon you kissed.
My fingers are crossed for you. Good luck Bizzle.

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Originally Posted by BizzleLuvin

yikes, thats the truth. here is what happened:
we were STONED. i was spending the night. i woke up with her face right next to mine. she says to me 'youre pretty when u sleep' (this is the kinda platonic nicery that goes on between us, the standard dishing-out of friendly compliments. i thought nothing of it, so i said 'you looked hot stuff in your new dress today'). next thing i know, she grabs my whole face and just kisses me. a long, long, LONG kiss. no tongue. just lip. im stunned. totally weirded out. so i just do the next best hting and kiss her back. we exchange a few more pecks and a caress or two.we say NOTHING while this goes on. then i roll back over and fall asleep.
it didnt hit me till i woke up this morning. i'm a little freaked out. because i am not sure whether it was sexual or not. i do NOT swing that way, it one of the few things i wont do and i know that she does. madi and i will hug and cuddle like girl-friends do, but this just blew me away. i didnt say a word about it because i am not sure what to think. wtf? i have this scared feeling in the back of my head that this kinda thing will ruin our relationship. madi knows very well that i do not dig other women, but by kissing her back i think i just screwed up the message. i am just not sure what to do. i bitched at her earlier that day because i HATE her boyfriend, and i am not sure if she took that as some kind of hint. was she just stoned? i dont think so cause madi tends to keep her head well above the water. iam just scared.
need some help u guys! what do you think????
p.s. madi is my platonic soulamte and i want to keep our realtionship

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your only choice is to talk to her and tell her how you feel about the situation, if it goes 'untended' she will more than likely get the idea in her head that it's ok by you, thus she's going to build a whole relationship in her head that's not even there and when it all finally comes to light she will more than likely be devestated, or atleast highly upset, upset you don't want her that way, upset you mis-lead her, upset that you didn't say something at the time, upset that she feels like an idiot... yea talk to her, and do it ASAP, the longer you go without doing, the more chance your friendship will be completely ruined by the whole thing...