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come on guys! Am I the only one here that thinks this is really bullshiting parenting? They told her not to sleep over his house but they wont pick her up! Its really stupid!!!! Shit if my parents did that to me (which they wouldent) i'de be very pissed off.
i figure your learning responsibility the hard way....im 20 and i still gotta walk home everynight....its about an hour walk from my mates which isnt too bad if your listening to music or got somthing to take your mind off it...i get soooo paranoid when the street lights stop, i think im halucinating the most of the time...(cause im stoned and i worry about shit)
my GF is also 20 and her parents wont let me stay at hers, imo this is being a little over protective but what can you do...i have no idea why they wont let me stay.....maybe their worried about her getting pegnant or somthing...but her parents are really nice people and have nopthing against me.....to my knowledge.
there really isnt a lot you can do....do as theysay before they say it to inpress them.
didnt u sell ur IPOD for crack lol
you may disagree to this all you like but it is the honest truth...........when your under your parents roof you have to obey their rules..........you may not like it and they may even not like it but rules are there for a reason.Quote:
Originally Posted by powair
peace.
Look powair Iâ??m not trying to be a nazi here.
People all Iâ??m saying is there no telling how much shit she has put her parents through. Powair â?¦.wait until you have a little girl of your very own. Youâ??ll start to see very quickly the fears that parents have for their children.
Iâ??m sorry but your just gonna have to work really hard to win my sympathy if thatâ??s what you want from me.
And yes Robert she did trade her Ipod for drugs and yes it does matter.
(just coulldnâ??t understand why they wouldnâ??t buy you another one)
I donâ??t hate you powair
I just think youâ??re spoiled
Your boy friend if he cared for you would help you with bus fare. Itâ??s and hour walk how much could it be? You were finding money for smack now youâ??re trying to tell me you donâ??t have money for bus fare (please.)
You canâ??t blame your parents for not trusting you and you canâ??t expect them to pony you around anymoreâ?¦
My parents dont like me. Ever since way before I had ever tried anything other than pot,they were constantly hassling me to change the way i dress, the way i talk, my values and opinions. They told me they were ashamed to bring me to functions they attented (my dad being a doctor) because I shop at thrift stores. They bought my brother a car, give his as much money for booze on the weekends as he could possibly want, bought him a mac laptop, ipod, they paid for him to live in an expensive house in calgary, and they even pay for his fucking gas. I asked for new shoes because mine had holes in the bottom and was told i could damn well get a job and pay for it myself. Oridnarily, that would be reasonable. But not when my brother gets every single fucking thing he asks for, no questions asked. The favoritism in my family is sick. I dont understand it at all.
Like i said, this was before I experimented with anything. I was even a virgin lol. But I began to not really give a fuck if what i did bothered my parents, because they could care less about me. I thought i would at least give them a viable reason to hate me.
Now all the drug shit and not living at home is in the past. It has been for a few months. I quit all drugs exept pot, lsd, mushrooms, all on my own accord, no help from them. I dont do anything they wouldnt approve of at home. They dont like me smoking pot but they accept the fact that i often do when I'm out. I still dont dress the way the want me to, or have the same opinions on basically everything about life, but I dont see that as any reason to treat me as such a lesser to my brother.
You can tell all of that from the words I type? WOW! You must be a mind reader. A crackhead, drug addicted teenage mindreader. Ya, I'll take advice from you! :rolleyes:Quote:
Originally Posted by powair
I have a nephew thank you very much. I've been raising him for 3 years now because his real parents rather be getting high than taking care of their kid. So I have some, issues, with spoiled brats and crackheads. Really smart girl...I know where you'll be in 5 years. Good luck in life. :(
Powair, I can somewhat, relate to your situation since my younger sister was my parents's favorite. My parents celebrated my birthday maybe twice (?) in my entire life but for my sister's birthday, it was trips to Canada, or wherever she wanted to go and it was celebrated every year. She always wore name-brand clothes and I don't remember getting "new" school clothes. I don't believe that my parents hated me. They have also said to me, when I was younger, that I embarrassed them because of the way I dressed and looked.
Still, I never thought to disrespect them and I eventually came to terms with how they treated me and how they treated my sister. I love my parents and my sister. I knew that if I didn't accept how things were, I was the one that was going to be stuck in that miserable way of thinking and maybe even do things, bad things, to myself to numb the pain. I would've paid for it, in the long run.
You DO have the power to change how you feel. You just have to be strong enough, for yourself, to have a healthy outlook on life.
Bang On, Bitterness gets you nowhere flower! ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by Cheery Cherry
hey rach, u dont have a bike? and if no, then just dont stay that late before coming back home. yea i know this is stupid but theyre your parents...
but the point is why cant u sleep at your boyfriend's house. i find this kinda stupid. and for your course, 100$ is not much. do you work?