i hate it when people post wanting advice, they get a load back and then dont reply to it.
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i hate it when people post wanting advice, they get a load back and then dont reply to it.
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I agree, we are all spending our time here trying to help this guy out and he doesnt even have the preasence of mind to check his MFing thread....unless the asian ppl killed him and hes being turned into general taos "chicken" right now.....mmm general taos chicken
sorry ya'll havent been here in awhile, yea were both minors, the age difference between us is 3 years. it would be kinda hard to keep it a secret as serious as this relationship is tho. i tired writing them a letter i dont think its gotten to them yet but i hope to god it works. and i asked her to ask her parents why they hate me and all she said they said is that if they find out she was with me again they would call the police for sexual harrasment (wtf?) and i cant even imagine not being able to see her agian :(
^^^im really hoping that qwas just a threat.
Be advised, if shes a minor living at home with mom & dad THEY have the law on their side.
I'd try to get over her & move on.......there are many hotties out there, ya know.
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u just need to chill and dont be worrying so much,just dont go over to her house.her folks are muppets anyways so u dont want to go to her house,just make sure wenever u see her she comes to ur house or else somewhere away from her house so her parents wont see yous,its easy to keep a secret relationship and its more fun
your both minors so enjoy yourselves and dont be worrying,chances are its not goin to last forever in anyways so just enjoy the time yous have and fuck like rabbits
if all that fails then dont worry,the parens have a bullseye on their forehead so it wont be hard to mis them with a couple of bullets
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Originally Posted by professer evil
great advice....
Ahole
I'm a bit hesitant to give any advice since if your both minors and there's a three year difference between you then one of you is at least 14 if not younger. My guess is it's the girl. If some 17yo guy comes around when my daughter's 14....well....let's just say I won't be too happy either.
That being said, I was in the same position as you 9 years ago. I was white and my girlfriend was Chinese (actually living in China as was I at the time) and, ironically, there was a three year differnce between us. She was 23 at the time, however, not 14, you perverted cradle robber!! Just kidding, sort of.
Anyhow when she first told her parents they wouldn't stand for it. Her mother actually got on a bus and took the 8hr ride from her hometown to Shanghai to talk my girlfriend out of it. They forbid my girlfriend from ever seeing me again but she continually resisted and eventually they agreed to meet me. The first meeting was a bit shakey, not as bad as yours was but then again SHE WASN'T 14, but we kept the pressure on. Basically we kept showing them that we loved each other. I was also very careful to respect their culture and not do anything to offend them. Over time the gradually accepted the fact that their daughters happiness was what was most important.
Well, like I said that was 9 years ago and as of last May we've been married for 8 years. I now get along great with my in-laws and spent nearly all of last February(Chinese New Year) with my wife's whole family back in China. My Mother-in-law always tells me that she knows I'm a good husband because her daughter is always happy. I may be a crazy round-eye but now I'm one of the family.
So, my first advice is to find an older gf. But if you insist on seeing her make sure her parents know you care about her. Always be polite "yes sir", "no mam", "thank you", "please" , etc when talking with them. Make sure you always get her home in time and for God's sake make sure you ALWAYS use protection and DO NOT get her pregnant. Hopefully, if they see she's happy, they'll gradually learn to accept the fact that their daughter is dating an old pervert.
just be secretive.
hey fengzi dickhead just cos shes 14 (shes responsible) doesnt mean she cant think for herself.
ok this isn't my real advice (i can't really give you any for biggomist (sp? and word usage?) parents...but....slap them both in the face and tell them "i'm a juggalo bitch!"