girlfriends parents hate me

[MyStiCalFiSh]

ok i am in love with this beautiful asian girl and she has everything a man could ever want. but her parents hate me. i did NOTHING to offend them in anyway. they always talk behind my back and whenever i call for her they say she doesnt want to talk to me. one time she came over crying and she fell into my arms because her parents were swearing at her and asking her y the fuck she was going out with a round-eyed whiteboy and if she kept doing so they were going to excommunicate her.

well she started crying over my shoulder and i felt so bad for her that i was doing this shit that maybe it would be better for me too break up with her. she started telling me all the shit her parents were calling her (bitch, slut, etc.) for dating me. then she fell into my arms and we just cuddled on my bed for like 2 hours which felt warm and great and it made her feel better. i tried to raise her self-esteem by telling her the truth that i loved her and that shes isnt really a bitch and too not listen to her parents.

so the next day i went to her house to talk to her parents and they wouldnt even shut the fuck up for 1 sec. to let me talk. they said that it would be a cold day in hell before i ever touched thier daughter, and too get the fuck away from there house and never come back and that thier daughter hated me and never wanted to see me agian.

but that night she snuck over around 2 in the morning and she apologized for how her parents acted and i said it wasnt ur fault and i forgive them. i told her that she shouldnt listen to what her parents tell her and that she is beautiful and nice and that i loved her. well we started to hug, then kiss, then touch, one thing led to another and before we knew it our clothes were off and we were fucking like there was no tomorrow. afterwards we hugged for a little bit and i made sure she felt fucking great about herself before she went home.

well now its the next day and i feel guilty about havin sex with her because it was her first time and if for some reason her paerents found out i have no idea what they are capable of doing. i need some help, can someone please help me on what to say to her parents to make them not hate me so much. i have tried EVERYTHING i can think of from complimenting them to sitting down and talking with them. they still think im the worst thing ever to happen to thier daughter and now they are taking thier anger out on her aswell as me.

does anyone know something i can say to her parents to make them not totally fucking hate me anymore? i have to do something cuz i love thier daughter and i dont think were be leaving each other for a long ass time.
any helpful suggestions would be GREATLY appreciated.

MyStiCalFiSh Reviewed by MyStiCalFiSh on 06-29-2005. girlfriends parents hate me ok i am in love with this beautiful asian girl and she has everything a man could ever want. but her parents hate me. i did NOTHING to offend them in anyway. they always talk behind my back and whenever i call for her they say she doesnt want to talk to me. one time she came over crying and she fell into my arms because her parents were swearing at her and asking her y the fuck she was going out with a round-eyed whiteboy and if she kept doing so they were going to excommunicate her. well Rating: 5

[Cheery Cherry]

Oh wow, this is a tough one. Her parents hate you because you're white? If so, it's not you that they hate. Her parents may be very old fashioned and want their daughter to only date Asian? Or did some white person piss them off in the past so they think all white people are bad? I don't know...Does she have a close relative that might accept you and maybe see that you are not all that bad....and help you let her parents understand that you do love her and you will treat her well. Maybe you could write her parents a letter?

I don't really have an excellent advice for you. I'm sorry to hear about your situation...I can offer you support though...

Good luck!

[NoosaHeads]

Its sounds like you Truley Love this Girl and she defenetly feels the same way about you.

Maybe you should move in together and put her Narrow minded/Racisit Parents totally out of the picture..

In time her parents will come to their sences.
Because If they Dont they'll Loose their Daughter....

[makor01]

dude i dated this korean woman for about 6 months...she was the biggest freak i ever met btw,right after the first time i met her parents i never heard from her again...they were majorly old fashioned from what some mutual friends told me. youre probably in the same situation.

[ZigZagZeppelin]

If the girl is less then 18 I wouldn't pursue it. Not if she lives with her racist parents still!

If she's 18 or over & u have ur own place MOVE HER IN.

[Not Enough Herb]

i wanna know how the fuck they found about u guys having sex?

these parents r assholes man, theres not much u can do thats gonna have a postive affect

if u and ur gf really love eachother like u said, ull find a way to get thru this

goodluck

later

[mellowyellow]

fuck them man they can butt the fuck out i had the same problem once parents hating me that is, anyway ended up her mom called the cops and i got my ass arrested for "harrasment" but any way dont give up keep the realation goin on the low down even arrest didnt stop me so more power to u bro fuck those bastards

[henrypj]

get her to ask them why they hate you. also writing a letter would be a good idea, but keep it simple. thing is though, if she's been brought up with those parents, she won't wanna do something big like move out or defy them alot, because shes been brought up to respect their authority. but sreiously dude find out the reason they dont like you, if its racism, fuck em, (or their daughter) if its something you can negotiate on, give it a try, but dont back down too easily, theyre not so high and mighty.

[muncheemama]

maybe they read your entry on the "shower sex" thread

[jacquelyne]

Thats very sad.Fuck those parents.Dont say nice things or crawl to them they will hate u more and think u have motives.My family hated my ex but with good reason.They seem not to like you as your not asian.Thats crap i would hate for my inlaws to hate me they probably do.I thought my partners mum wouldnt like me because she is Maltese and im not and i thought she only would like her son with another wog woman because he was with one for a few yrs before me.All is good though and she is happy that we are having a baby even though she is pushing the marriage a bit much.Anyways i will take so much crap from an inlaw but not too much.If you love each other screw her parents and see each other secretley.Dont take shit from those bastards.