I don't understand girls..

I totally agree ... Put her on ignore all together! :thumbsup:
She is playing a game trust me I know I am a woman ... Anyways besides that smoke a fatty and be happy! :rasta:
Cheers :thumbsup:

Ok, so updated situation.. I talked to her on AIM for a bit and was in the process of writing an angry stoned instant message when she actually replied, so i changed from angry and just simply asked her if she was going to change or not.. she said "i don't know" so i told her to text me if things were going to change text me and if they weren't don't and blocked her from AIM so.. i'm pretty sure i'm done with her now, thanks you guys for helping me realize that she was playing a game. I love the internet!

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I don't understand girls...

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Allow me to take an evolutionary biology perspective on this matter.

At any given time, women of high desirability have a multitude of potential suitors. Though different women and different men may have different tastes of partners, let's face it, if you like one girl then chances are many others want her as well. There are baristas of Starbucks whom are asked out no less than ten times a day. To further complicate the matter, unsuccessful suitors take form of male friends; they all either secretly want/would want to screw her or she wants/would want to screw them, depending largely upon who initiated the friendship and timing, as sexual attraction is the primary impetus towards such matters. So, women have many suitors whether or not realized.

Multiple suitors have the evolutionary advantage of mate selection by natural selection. Weak suitors don't survive and by the constant, gradual adding in of new potential suitors, whom either survive or die, certainty of the most fit suitor is resolved. You were voted off Survivor Island long ago but since you had kept up the interest to keep the connection, she figured she may as well capitulate and use it for what it's worth: drugs. People will use you only as much as you allow them.

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Originally Posted by Oh My High

Allow me to take an evolutionary biology perspective on this matter.

At any given time, women of high desirability have a multitude of potential suitors. Though different women and different men may have different tastes of partners, let's face it, if you like one girl then chances are many others want her as well. There are baristas of Starbucks whom are asked out no less than ten times a day. To further complicate the matter, unsuccessful suitors take form of male friends; they all either secretly want/would want to screw her or she wants/would want to screw them, depending largely upon who initiated the friendship and timing, as sexual attraction is the primary impetus towards such matters. So, women have many suitors whether or not realized.

Multiple suitors have the evolutionary advantage of mate selection by natural selection. Weak suitors don't survive and by the constant, gradual adding in of new potential suitors, whom either survive or die, certainty of the most fit suitor is resolved. You were voted off Survivor Island long ago but since you had kept up the interest to keep the connection, she figured she may as well capitulate and use it for what it's worth: drugs. People will use you only as much as you allow them.

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That's what THIS (Guide to Mid-Level Game: Closing the deal - Rudius Media Message Board)
IS FOR

She is a *user*, all she wants is your drugs... dump her and find somebody that really gives a crap about *YOU* and not just what she can get from you.

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Originally Posted by slipknotpsycho

well while i'm hesitant to say this about all women....

women want what they can't have... simple as that.... there are soooooooooo many instances of a girl not liking some guy, until he was unavailable to her... then all of a sudden she wants him... (i.e. you chase after her for upwards of a year, nothing... you get with some other chick after giving up, the next week all of a sudden she wants you)

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Yup, that's exactly it. The thrill is gone once you catch the fish. lol.
I dont think she likes you that way sorry to say. Its time to find another, to take your mind off her THEN find the one after you've forgotten the first girl. lol its complicated but it works for me.

i had a girl like that... without the drugs though.
wed go through 2 months hanging all the time, then just stop, and she wouldnt answer txt/calls. shed say she would call me then wouldnt.
i gave up on her and stopped trying

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Originally Posted by Willyboy241

i had a girl like that... without the drugs though.
wed go through 2 months hanging all the time, then just stop, and she wouldnt answer txt/calls. shed say she would call me then wouldnt.
i gave up on her and stopped trying

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Do you guys still talk?

If you really want her you have to find the balance between ignoring her completely and making it seems like you're ignoring her.

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Originally Posted by birdgirl73

It sounds, quite frankly, like she's just not that into you. Except on the occasions when it serves her purposes, like for drugs.

Find someone else to be interested in. And then be a bit more stand-offish. I think it's true that young women go for people whom they consider to be a challenge. When we get older, we're just grateful when you have a pulse rate and can stay awake past 10 p.m.

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BG it's nine-fifteen for me. Live, you've gotten pretty much every possible answer here and you don't like any of them. The one you're looking for (she adores me) just isn't there....mostly because everyone else can see that already. You even get glimpses of it as well....which is why you started this thread.

I usually agree with BG on this stuff but not here. You don't need people in your space that come in and suck the life out of you. Leave the game playing for Monopoly. This girl is trouble. Go get a pet if you want to feel needed. This one will bring you down. :wtf: