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		LOL!
Well, regardless of gender, we are well met.  I am glad I met you on this forum, your advice, and words, are golden in my book.  I really appreciate it.
Thank you all for your kind words...and blunt knives(lol)...for it is all very helpful.
Do you think I should bring this up to her, or should I figure out what I want first,, and then find a way to talk to her about it?  You are all right;  Trust is broken in a few peices, and my worst fear is that I am all business to her...that she is using me, that is...and I dont think anyone should think like that about their special someone-nor should they have to.  Am I right?
What warning signs should I be aware of...since I am kind of blind when it comes to her?
	 
	
	
	
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		Tootsie:  I just read what you said.  I started laughing only because her parents are already asking for shit-including a place to stay when they return from Vegas with her daughter, "just until they get on their feet"...riiiigggghhhht.
	 
	
	
	
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		Oh all right you twisted my arm.   :D   My opinion is to talk to her as I said before about your plans.  If you listen with new ears you may hear some surprising things and they may be good or they may be bad.  She may indeed be a bad seed but who knows? You admit you are not studying this objectively. How can you?  You are right in the middle of.   I am a firm believer that people can change and improve their lives.  
BUT .....golden rule here......NOBODY changes unless first they REALLY want to.  Does she?  Is she willing to work at it?  How hard?  Does that fit with what YOU want?  
I will be back with soil questions later but will wait a few if you want to flip me off quickly or something.....then going to count seeds.  ;)
	 
	
	
	
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		LMAO!!  No, I wont be flipping you off. LOL!
Bring the questions, lets see if we cant bring up a tree here.  Also, did you post that thread?  I want to find some better pictures, when I do, I will save them and upload one or two for you in a post, I know there are some very beautiful flowering pics that I took at night-at night the pistils really show, and the flowers/buds are just amazing.
Look, I really want to thank you for your kind words and sound advice...I know I told you that already, but it means alot to me-I have no one else.  Nuff' said-bring the seeds!
-Pockets:D :thumbsup:
	 
	
	
	
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				Originally Posted by pocketsrstillEmT
				
			
			Tootsie:  I just read what you said.  I started laughing only because her parents are already asking for shit-including a place to stay when they return from Vegas with her daughter, "just until they get on their feet"...riiiigggghhhht.
			
		
	 
 
I'm tellin ya-----------------RUN  DON'T LOOK BACK.
LEAVE NO FORWARDING ADRESS.
I can
t be much clearer. This is BAD NEW ALL THE WAY AROUND.
Look, it's your life and if you believe there are no decent women just waiting for you, you are dead wrong.
This ex of yours should stay that way. EX. You don't need this.
Hell, c'mon here so I can slap some smart into ya fer chrissake boy!
You just have no idea the mess and heartbreak just down the road.
Find a nice girl that will love you not the temporary stability this other gal wants. For the moment. She'll screw you and her parents will break you.
mark my words. you stay, you are doomed.:(
	 
	
	
	
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		Let me know.....good luck
	 
	
	
	
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				Originally Posted by pocketsrstillEmT
				
			
			Tootsie:  I just read what you said.  I started laughing only because her parents are already asking for shit-including a place to stay when they return from Vegas with her daughter, "just until they get on their feet"...riiiigggghhhht.
			
		
	 
 
THEY WILL NEVER LEAVE
YOUR HOME WILL BE A FILTHY CRACK DEN.:(
	 
	
	
	
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		Good luck man. I sure hope you do the right thing.
I can tell you this. I am sure as HELL glad this isn't in my life.
I'd be packed, phone shut off and gone like the wind. No address forwarded.
Look, you loved her once. It was good then.
You parted ways, it's been a good while and should stay that way. An EX love.
She comes back to you with a bunch of baggage?
And crackhead parents?
lol, no thank you. ever.:jawdropper: :giveflower:  
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		Roll......I wish you would be more clear about what you are thinking here....i can't quite get what you are trying to say.  ;) :D 
Pockets.....new day.....new round if you still want to go a few.  i did have more questions for you if you still want to talk about things.  :)
	 
	
	
	
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		Weedhound...speak now or forever hold your peice!  Lil bit of not funny humor...irony,, ok not funny-got it.
Whats up??