Married women and/or steady girlfriends

So my boyfriend had this bestfriend, who happened to be a girl. And being the trusting soul I was I didnt think anything of her until one day boyfriend came running up to me after class ranting about how 'that nasty bitch' kept telling him she was gonna 'fuck him better than I ever did'. EXCUSEEE ME.

Let's just say..I hated to ruin a friendship but he was tired of it too..they're no longer speaking.

no worries birdie, i bet youre prettier then she is and I already KNOW youre more intelligent :P

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Originally Posted by Dro_Princess

My husband sounds the same as yours. He is a very nice guy and oblivious to when someone is flirting with him. Im a very jealous person so I might not be the right person with the right answer. But if it were me I would be like a dog and marking my territory, making sure she sees it. Being all lovey dovey and practially attached at the hip anytime she is around, while sending out " back off bitch he is mine, if you touch ill have no choice but to kick your ass vibes" I like to be subtile at first when it comes to the feeling that someone may be invading things that are mine. But I never let my guard down when there are vultures circleing. I sleep with one eye open.

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Wow...that's pretty much exactly what I was going to write, except it's my boyfriend, not my husband!! I never knew how oblivious he was about other women flirting with him until this one night...he was sitting on a couch at this party between two girls, one of which was practically throwing herself at him...I got super pissed off (im really jealous too, altho im gettin better) and confronted him about the girls...he got really defensive and mad in return cause he didn't think they were flirting with him at all! When i found out that his only fault was being oblivious to flirting, I couldn't be mad anymore lol.

Don't let your husband know how it bothers you. Actually your best bet would be to make friends with her and be sickly sweet about it all.

He's going to feel extra-guilty if you aren't even being a bitch about it.

I recommend reading "Charlotte Simmons" even though it is a crappy novel, just for the portion where it discusses "Sarc 3"...

Sarc 1: real sarcasm.
Sarc 2: sarcasm with a hint of sincerity (confusing)
Sarc 3: being SO NICE that nobody knows you're being sarcastic.

I say take Sarc 3 with this bitch. And don't breathe a word to your husband, either.

I disagree with not talking to your husband about it. I had to deal with this recently so it hits close to home. I say that men are freaking clueless sometimes and you really have to spell certain things out for them. Personally I think if you talk to him about it and let him know that its NOT okay and he lets her come over again, things are more serious than previously thought. If you dont talk to him about it and she tries to make her way into his life, you never really told him its not okay. Of course he should know its not okay but sometimes you do have to tell them.

The woman in our situation is no longer in our lives at all. We did set new rules down. If something like this happens again he's already had his chance and he knows the consequences. If he makes the choice to do it again knowing the rules and consequences, I'll be walking out before his head stops spinning.

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Originally Posted by Mrs. Greenjeans

I'm a hateful bitch. The next time I ran into her, I would tell her my husband doesn't need her help, and to focus on fixing her problems with her own husband. I would also tell her to stay away from my house or I'd rip off her head and shit down her neck. I do not play. Actually, fuck waiting until you run into her. Beard that bitch in her own den. I'm serious. Men are dumb like that, and woman are devious. She knows exactly what the fuck she's doing. If you don't call her out and nip it in the bud, she'll do it again, and next time you might not be so lucky as to have your parents around.

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Sorry for butting in but she's right. Get better. Get your boots on and go let her know, "visits" are not allowed at your home, take your garden claw rake =).

I am pleased to report that the Charlene problem went rolling away down the street in a moving truck this past weekend. She actually didn't pay any further visits, since, of course, I've been home. But she was served with divorce papers a couple of weeks ago, and they've pretty well emptied out their house now, dividing all their stuff, I guess. There's a realty sign up in the yard. So all is well with the world. And least my world. My husband saw her estranged husband last weekend and he said there's no going back, no chance of reconciliation. The predatory Charlene is temporarily living with her sister three suburbs from here. So all's well that ends well.

YAY!:clap: :clap: :clap:

Welcome to a woman's world. (shakes head and walks away quietly)

WW

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Originally Posted by EmoRebellion

It doesnt really matter if she is going to put the moves on him, as long as you trust him, right? Do you really think he is going to take her up on any offers with you in the hospital? She can flirt all she wants as long as he is coming home with you, and not her. :jointsmile:

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Oh please, are you fricken serious? We all know which head most guys think with. Poor Mr. Gallent, Mr Fixer, Mr. Pleaser...Before ya know it, it's slip slidin away. Scheech

Glad to see the end to this post! I was totally in agreement with Mrs.Greenjeans. I absolutely cannot stand women like that...ones who are suspiciously always around when you're not. While it's true that some men don't notice when one of these whores is coming onto them...sometimes they do...
nonetheless, happy it worked for you!