Married women and/or steady girlfriends

[birdgirl73]

OK, ladies, I'd like your feedback on this one. As some of y'all know, I was down and out for several days in the hospital until yesterday. While I was gone, a neighbor lady down the street who always has her eyes on other people's husbands made two trips down, once to bring dinner to my husband and once just to "see how he's doing and make sure he's holding up OK" and bring him some golf balls she said her husband left behind but which I feel certain she went out and bought so she'd have another reason to visit. He told me she stopped by, but my mom and dad, who were here with him both times she came by, also told me how "concerned" she was about him, holding his hand a little too long and just being the generally overly solicitous (slutty) cow that she is. This lady is separated from her husband and is one of those women who'll gladly attempt to retain her social position by moving in on someone else's.

I don't think it's Dave's fault. He's sorta clueless about these things. But he's sometimes gullibly nice to everyone, including vixen-type women, which, in her case, probably has a way of encouraging her. I trust him with all my heart. But I don't trust her. Dave's a handsome guy with a successful job. It makes my head spin to think how fast Bovine Charlene and a couple of other ladies would put the moves on him if I were indisposed for very long.

What would you do in a situation like this, if anything? Try not to let it bother you and just keep on keeping on? Maybe I need to draw up another will and put a special no-Charlene clause into it . . .

birdgirl73 Reviewed by birdgirl73 on 02-07-2007. Married women and/or steady girlfriends OK, ladies, I'd like your feedback on this one. As some of y'all know, I was down and out for several days in the hospital until yesterday. While I was gone, a neighbor lady down the street who always has her eyes on other people's husbands made two trips down, once to bring dinner to my husband and once just to "see how he's doing and make sure he's holding up OK" and bring him some golf balls she said her husband left behind but which I feel certain she went out and bought so she'd have Rating: 5

[Dro_Princess]

My husband sounds the same as yours. He is a very nice guy and oblivious to when someone is flirting with him. Im a very jealous person so I might not be the right person with the right answer. But if it were me I would be like a dog and marking my territory, making sure she sees it. Being all lovey dovey and practially attached at the hip anytime she is around, while sending out " back off bitch he is mine, if you touch ill have no choice but to kick your ass vibes" I like to be subtile at first when it comes to the feeling that someone may be invading things that are mine. But I never let my guard down when there are vultures circleing. I sleep with one eye open.

[invision]

want me to kill her........

[birdgirl73]

Thanks, Princess! You have no idea how comforting and validating it was to read your response. I think I feel more vulnerable to the vultures right now than I normally would. Under normal circumstances, the Charlenes of the world wouldn't bother me so much.

Good plan. Dave'll have to plan to peel me off next time Charlene comes within two blocks of this place.

[birdgirl73]

want me to kill her........

Let's keep that in mind as our backup plan, Invision. Thanks for the offer.

She may fall victim to her own marital situation soon enough and be ousted from her house and not be in the neighborhood anymore. Or she may die from an overdose of artificial hair color or whorish red nail polish, too. So there are encouraging possibilities. . . .

[Dro_Princess]

Thanks, Princess! You have no idea how comforting and validating it was to read your response. I think I feel more vulnerable to the vultures right now than I normally would. Under normal circumstances, the Charlenes of the world wouldn't bother me so much.

Good plan. Dave'll have to plan to peel me off next time Charlene comes within two blocks of this place.

No problem BG, alot of your posts to some of my therads have made me feel more comfoting so anytime.

[BabySnookums]

i would WANT to cuss her out, beat the living shit out of her, and all that good stuff....

but in reality i'm way too timid for that kinda stuff...so i'd prolly get all grumpy about it and be sad....

sorry, i'm not much help....i wanna maim anyone that looks at slip wrong LOL...all i can say is if you really trust your man, thats all that matters

*end of hallmark card ish rambling*

[Thepossumdance]

Or she may die from an overdose of artificial hair color or whorish red nail polish, too. So there are encouraging possibilities. . . .

ZOMG wow... that might be the single funniest thing I've heard in this new year. lol i love that.

[Mrs. Greenjeans]

I'm a hateful bitch. The next time I ran into her, I would tell her my husband doesn't need her help, and to focus on fixing her problems with her own husband. I would also tell her to stay away from my house or I'd rip off her head and shit down her neck. I do not play. Actually, fuck waiting until you run into her. Beard that bitch in her own den. I'm serious. Men are dumb like that, and woman are devious. She knows exactly what the fuck she's doing. If you don't call her out and nip it in the bud, she'll do it again, and next time you might not be so lucky as to have your parents around.

[EmoRebellion]

Okay, im not a married woman. Actually, im not any kind of a woman (excluding thursday nights), but I would still like to field this. It doesnt really matter if she is going to put the moves on him, as long as you trust him, right? Do you really think he is going to take her up on any offers with you in the hospital? She can flirt all she wants as long as he is coming home with you, and not her.

Sure, its not right for her to make moves like that, but it really shouldnt be anything to worry about. If you even have to think twice about him touching another woman, maybe you have some deeper issues with your marriage than you think. There are always going to be people going after what you have, but you cant let it worry you.

Okay, if she keeps it up I would introduce Ms. Face to Mrs. Fist, but only because its really disrespectful to you.

Sorry if I killed your ladies-only club. :jointsmile: