My ex gf is pregnant...

^^^Yeah man, you gotta use a rubber, except for the first time, that's a free pass! :p

Scrape it out with a coat hanger

Heh, and if they get preggers on the free pass, you can name the baby 'Free Pass Nochowderforyou'! ;)

Everytime you have un-safe sex there is a chance...

Don't believe the myth, That you can pull out before you cum...Because there is something called a pre-cum that contains more sperm than the cum itself.

I know it's hard but you really got cut ties with the baby at the very least. You dont have to kill it but maybe somebody else could take care of it better than you youngins'. I dont want for you to ruin your life this young.

Was she on the pill? If not. She didn't ask for condom? Why would she put herself at risk like that? Try to tie you down? I'd like to believe stupidity..but I dont know. Young girls like to tie down boys.

I don't think I could find a place on the internet with more loving, compassionate people if i searched for the rest of my life. You guys never cease to amaze me on how helpful and there you are for people you have no ties to other than this website. When I need advice I know where to come from now on. You guys love like humans are supposed to- Just thought I'd let you all know how highly i think of you.

IMO abortions aren't wrong, the baby isn't born yet, so therefore it's not a living thing. Some people say it is but honestly, if you don't want to have a child then you shouldn't have to. That's what america is all about man.

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Originally Posted by buddymyfriend

Well to cut along story short

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LOLz...

live with it,but dna is crucial!!!

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Originally Posted by AlwaysBlazed

IMO abortions aren't wrong, the baby isn't born yet, so therefore it's not a living thing. Some people say it is but honestly, if you don't want to have a child then you shouldn't have to. That's what america is all about man.

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There's a haeartbeat 20 days after becoming pregnant. Just because the fetus isn't alive on the outside, doesn't mean it isn't alive on the inside of the women. A heartbeat=life.

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Originally Posted by InTheJungle

Fairplay daima, but I doubt a lecture is what he needs right now. I've been having unprotected sex for about a year now (granted, I use the 'pull-out' method, but still) and have only just begun to realize how dangerous it really is. Safety during sex is so underrated, a child, hundreds of thousands of dollars, the stress and pressures of young parenting and a potentially ruined life aren't worth the 20 mins (or however long one may go on for) of fun - let alone the last 10 seconds.

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MMMM,mmmmmmm you're right. It is too late for him. Just apply prior message to yourself. :thumbsup:

peace,
dai*ma:stoned:

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Originally Posted by LazySmoking420

Was she on the pill? If not. She didn't ask for condom? Why would she put herself at risk like that? Try to tie you down? I'd like to believe stupidity..but I dont know. Young girls like to tie down boys.

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So do you think that protection falls under the females responsibility only? Uh no, a relationship is a 2 person responsibility. You can't blame the chick for being irresponisble and not using protection without blaming the dude. Hes a smart boy, he knows what a condom is; Did he ask for a condom? It's not just HER putting herself at risk, it is JUST AS MUCH THE MANS RESPONSIBILITY!! It takes TWO people to make a child. You can't say she was trying to tie him down when he knew just as DAMNED WELL that unprotected sex can lead to pregnancy. I hope you get some chick pregnant and realize that ITS JUST AS MUCH YOUR FUCKING FAULT AS THE CHICKS.

I'm sorry I just can't believe someone would think that all the responsibility falls on the girl.

you have 3 choices...

1. abort

2. prepare yourself for 18 years of child support (or jail if you decide not to pay)

3. be a daddy (which obviously won't last, so see #2...)

good thing she is your EX-girlfriend

4 words. "never trust a ho". not saying shes a ho, BUT girls can sometimes be fucked up. Same shit happend to me.. girl is calling my hoiuse talkin to my moms saying shes pregnant and shit... fuck! not to mention long pregnancy talk as soon as i got home, and i was FAAAYYYY - DEAD:stoned: . turns out the girl just likes to mess around. what a bitch. unless u saw milk come out of her boobs, dont believe it.. i dont think girls can even produce milk until 3 days after labor. u dont have to believe its urs... this isnt a problem maury cant solve.

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Originally Posted by buddymyfriend

Sometimes people dont have a choice in the matter.

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High school girl with the bourgeois dream
just like the picture in the magazine
she found on the floor of a laundrymat
a woman with kids can forget all that
if she comes up pregnant, what'll she do
forget about her career forget about school
can she live on faith, live on hope?
high on jesus or hooked on dope
when it's way too late to just say no...( to be continued)

dai*ma:stoned:

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Originally Posted by Acouwaila

Thanks guys for all of your help, really. I am not freaking out, and if I dont adopt I am ready to step up and be a man and do what I have to , to take care of my child.

She is going to buy a test real soon actually.

I was actually relying on the "pull-out" method. While we were dating she was using birth control. After that, we've had sex quite a few times un-protected and for a long time she never got pregnant. I guess I just pushed my luck, huh?

Well she just had her period about 2 weeks ago...and it was this past weekend that we had sex. I didn't know women could lactate this early in the pregnancy either.

Im not sure if she is pregnant or not but I will find out soon. Whatever the answer, I am ready for the consequences.

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good luck.

dai*ma

so has she missed a period yet?

dude i sugest you get an abortion unless you and her are both up for being parents.
if tahts the case, i sugest you get a job fast.

you have $500? get an abortion. it wont be easy on you and it will be HELL for her (while shes having it, and the depression for a couple months afterwards), but imagine having to deal with a mistake for 18 years... :-\

ive had a similar situation and i think the abortion was probably the best choice. so does she.

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Originally Posted by TallulahGreen

So do you think that protection falls under the females responsibility only? Uh no, a relationship is a 2 person responsibility. You can't blame the chick for being irresponisble and not using protection without blaming the dude. Hes a smart boy, he knows what a condom is; Did he ask for a condom? It's not just HER putting herself at risk, it is JUST AS MUCH THE MANS RESPONSIBILITY!! It takes TWO people to make a child. You can't say she was trying to tie him down when he knew just as DAMNED WELL that unprotected sex can lead to pregnancy. I hope you get some chick pregnant and realize that ITS JUST AS MUCH YOUR FUCKING FAULT AS THE CHICKS.

I'm sorry I just can't believe someone would think that all the responsibility falls on the girl.

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your argument is unbeatable. you are 100% right.

dai*ma:stoned:

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Originally Posted by Nochowderforyou

There's a haeartbeat 20 days after becoming pregnant. Just because the fetus isn't alive on the outside, doesn't mean it isn't alive on the inside of the women. A heartbeat=life.

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You sound like some Pro-Life Catholic, there are too many people man, some need to be killed before they even start. More people = less land = less territory= and territory dispute = war. Humans are animals, and the more people killed the better. I would rather save a tree. I bet this kills the thread. Ahahahaha

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Originally Posted by TallulahGreen

So do you think that protection falls under the females responsibility only? Uh no, a relationship is a 2 person responsibility. You can't blame the chick for being irresponisble and not using protection without blaming the dude. Hes a smart boy, he knows what a condom is; Did he ask for a condom? It's not just HER putting herself at risk, it is JUST AS MUCH THE MANS RESPONSIBILITY!! It takes TWO people to make a child. You can't say she was trying to tie him down when he knew just as DAMNED WELL that unprotected sex can lead to pregnancy. I hope you get some chick pregnant and realize that ITS JUST AS MUCH YOUR FUCKING FAULT AS THE CHICKS.

I'm sorry I just can't believe someone would think that all the responsibility falls on the girl.

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Wow, the biggest load of absolute shit I've heard in quite a while, I actually blushed reading this because its so off the mark.

It comes down to this, the girl is the one who decides when and where sex happens, its not the mans responsibility unless he's raping a girl. The girl is the reciever, and its her responsibility to make sure what he puts in her is protected. Shove that girl power shit up your ass. Men have thing's called hormones that make them want to fuck, women don't, they do it for 'fun', its not a biological need. On the other hand some men are fucking idiots, and if you are stupid enough to get a girl pregnant, its your problem, don't blame all men for a few stupid fucking idiots.

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Originally Posted by MegaOctane12

You sound like some Pro-Life Catholic, there are too many people man, some need to be killed before they even start. More people = less land = less territory= and territory dispute = war. Humans are animals, and the more people killed the better. I would rather save a tree. I bet this kills the thread. Ahahahaha

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I would reply if this post made any sense at all.

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Originally Posted by Nochowderforyou

I would reply if this post made any sense at all.

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Figure it out man, I can draw you a picture

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Originally Posted by MegaOctane12

Figure it out man, I can draw you a picture

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Okay.

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Originally Posted by MegaOctane12

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That reeks of maturity. Mommy must be proud.

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Originally Posted by MegaOctane12

Wow, the biggest load of absolute shit I've heard in quite a while, I actually blushed reading this because its so off the mark.

It comes down to this, the girl is the one who decides when and where sex happens, its not the mans responsibility unless he's raping a girl. The girl is the reciever, and its her responsibility to make sure what he puts in her is protected. Shove that girl power shit up your ass. Men have thing's called hormones that make them want to fuck, women don't, they do it for 'fun', its not a biological need. On the other hand some men are fucking idiots, and if you are stupid enough to get a girl pregnant, its your problem, don't blame all men for a few stupid fucking idiots.

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your reply is one of the most ignorant statements i have ever read, and i have been reading for 50 years.

dai*ma:stoned:
life is hard
but life is hardest
when you;re dumb
you wait for years
but inspiration never comes
with a negative iq
you'll be lonesome
sad and
blue
life is hard
but life is hardest
when you're
dumb

^^^ Ha ha! Nice poem.

Do you write all those yourself off the top of your head? Just curious. :)

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Originally Posted by daima

your reply is one of the most ignorant statements i have ever read, and i have been reading for 50 years.

dai*ma:stoned:
life is hard
but life is hardest
when you;re dumb
you wait for years
but inspiration never comes
with a negative iq
you'll be lonesome
sad and
blue
life is hard
but life is hardest
when you're
dumb

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Your entitled to your opinion, not that it means anything to me either way

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Originally Posted by Nochowderforyou

That reeks of maturity. Mommy must be proud.

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Don't deny being a spotty fat thick shit though do you

ok so we have a new asshole of the boards... and lol at your entire posts... ignorant people are funny :p

id rather go to hell than raise a mistake imo

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Originally Posted by LazySmoking420

Because there is something called a pre-cum that contains more sperm than the cum itself.

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Which leads me to my next question...

Where do some people get their "facts" from??

I had to endure this same painful situation with my girl...
We are in love and used to have totally unprotected sex all the time (now shes on the pill)
i hate abortions as much as the next person
but i was 19 and a premed and my life was more important to me.
I cant imagine what my life would be like if we had the baby.
As wrong as it is, we are human bro, and we make mistakes.
God knows we make mistakes, and he WILL forgive you.
Hope this helps.

God is Love
Fuegz

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your reply is one of the most ignorant statements i have ever read, and i have been reading for 50 years.

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Hey, my friend. I couldn't agree more. Mega has never impressed me with his intellect. But he has always left me standing in awe of his appalling manners and lack of respect for others. I suspect he has that effect on most of the people he meets.

Now a note to Acouwaila. If your ex-gif and you only had sex two weeks ago and she's showing what may be an early sign of pregnancy with slightly leaking breasts, is there a reasonably good chance she might have conceived a pregnancy with some other guy before you and she hooked up two weeks ago? Because her symptom timing is a little off for a conception that's literally less than two weeks old. It's important that you do get that test--and that you try and diplomatically find out who her other partners might have been.

If you have been her only partner and she's showing the breast-leaking symptom only two weeks after sex, she may indeed have some sort of breast problem instead of an early pregnancy. The earliest the lactation symptom generally shows up is four to six weeks after conception, according to what I can find in my obstetrics book. At two weeks, it's still mighty early for a pregnancy symptom of any kind. The hormone levels need some time to build up.

Keep us updated, OK?

people should be aloud to have an abortion if they please, if the girl who is pregnant doesnt want to have a baby, its her body and its her decision (or it very well should be) whether or not she wants to raise a child. yes having sex has its responsibilities and you should be able to accept that fact and take the responsibility. but if there are other options out there that could mean an easier life (in the opinion of the one recieving the abortion) why should that person not be allowed to take that option? until you yourself are pregnant with a child and facing these very question i believe you will not know what it feels like. i dont see it as murder either, ok so it has a pulse, so it is considered "life" but its not going to be able to think or react or do anything short of be a vegitable inside of a woman i wouldnt consider it life.

same goes for brain dead people living off respirators and food tubes, pulling the plug is the same thing as an abortion, just on the opposite end of the persons time line (if you get my comparison)

my advice,
start believing in abortion!

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people should be aloud to have an abortion if they please, if the girl who is pregnant doesnt want to have a baby, its her body and its her decision (or it very well should be) whether or not she wants to raise a child. yes having sex has its responsibilities and you should be able to accept that fact and take the responsibility. but if there are other options out there that could mean an easier life (in the opinion of the one recieving the abortion) why should that person not be allowed to take that option? until you yourself are pregnant with a child and facing these very question i believe you will not know what it feels like. i dont see it as murder either, ok so it has a pulse, so it is considered "life" but its not going to be able to think or react or do anything short of be a vegitable inside of a woman i wouldnt consider it life.

same goes for brain dead people living off respirators and food tubes, pulling the plug is the same thing as an abortion, just on the opposite end of the persons time line (if you get my comparison)

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i agree... and as a comdeian once said "you ever notice the people against abortion are people that you wouldn't wanna fuck in the first place? lol just thought this thread could use some humor about right now.....

think about it from the kids point of view, would you want to grow up, with parents who don't want you, or grow up never knowing who you really are just because your parents didn't want you? i was given up by my parents, and i speak from experience when i say i would have rather not been born, then born to a family who didn't want me in the first place. don't get me wrong, yes i'm happy i'm alive, and happy i have a wife and kid now, but that still doesn't justify the some 16 years of life i lived/live consciencly wondering why i wasn't wanted, and if i wasn't wanted why i was made in the first place.

it's alot easier to say abortion is wrong when you're not the one in the hotseat.

birth is a wonderful thing but you gotta think if its worth it or not

think with your big head ..not your little one

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Originally Posted by Nochowderforyou

Hey man, if you're man enough to have sex, then you're man enough to take care of your responsibility. You should have known what was bound to happen when you have sex man, so don't act so surprised.

Don't hev her get an abortion. People who do that should have their dickholes/vaginas sewed up for the rest of their life so they never have sex again. I can't stand it when there are people out there who want their own children, but can't because their body won't allow it. Abortions are for greedy people.

A baby has a heartbeat after only 20days of life. Think about it. :thumbsup:

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<<Tootsie jumps up,gets her old pom poms out and cheers>>>

Go Chowder~~~~~Go Chowder!!~~~:thumbsup: :dance: :thumbsup: :dance:

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Originally Posted by Phire210

I don't think I could find a place on the internet with more loving, compassionate people if i searched for the rest of my life. You guys never cease to amaze me on how helpful and there you are for people you have no ties to other than this website. When I need advice I know where to come from now on. You guys love like humans are supposed to- Just thought I'd let you all know how highly i think of you.

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That's very sweet Phire. xoxo:)