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Hey, somebodies gotta do it.Quote:
Originally Posted by MastaChronic
You play it safe, get your shit together, and you'll be back on your feet in no time Gothen.
Edit: I was kicked out at fifteen. Your mother sounds exactly like mine.
In time, everything heals.
man.. went thru something a lil simular..
my dad is/was and is again, a severe alcoholic.
i remember spending many nights in my truck... v_v
hope shit recovers soon for you buddy.
as all said before, dont sell till its a last option.
reading this made me actually made me sad... man that is fucking terrible... but imo atleast in the end its probably best to just be getting out even tho it is hard... dont like it fuck up ur plans...
id be sad if u couldnt post here anymore....
That Bloomington idea sounds like a good one dude. I know it sounds like you got a place with a friend for a while, but if that doesn't go over well then I would try to keep Bloomington in your memory banks
It doesnt matter what they've done. Grassing on family is the biggest no,no i can think of.Quote:
Originally Posted by psychocat
Maybe its right in america, but its wrong in england..
unlucky mate this shit happened to me when i was 16. me n me mum used t have massiv barnis due to her alcohol consumption which 1 christmas ended up with me beinf told to fuck off and not bother coming back plus aving a load of milk bottles chucked at me. luckily me birds mam and dad let me stay at theirs for a year or so till i got me own pad.just hope youve got a decent bird,mate,family member who will put you up for a bit till you get sorted
Sorry to hear this Gothen, i feel your pain bro. Hope shit works out for and im glad youve found somewhere to crash, maybe something to do from all these good vibes from cann.com;)
Peace
Buddy
Well this happened to me like a month ago dude, my parents tried to kick me out but i had nowhere to go. My mom called the cops and they said i had a right to live there or something. Basicly i "negotiated" with my parents by simply absorbing their insults and verbal abuse until they felt bad about it...it only took a few hours!! Now I'm not getting kicked out. It pissed me off though.
ha ha me mum did a proper buzz kill on me other night started tellin me loads of bad shit bout me ex. i didnt want to know said mam just keep it t yerself love i am not arseed let her get on with it
Gothen, dude, consider this as a big CHANGE in your life. A new path to walk on. Thats GOOD. Take your life in your hands! Fuck the past and all your problems. All your previous ones are all gone now. You have new ones to deal with. Relax, chill, calm down and make a new beginning! You already solved your sleeping problem. 13746518765914556 big thumbs up! Now thats only you and yourself left, youll see how good it would be! Not easy, but it would be the first time doing something completely for yourself! Be cool and happy and everything will go smooth for you. And i bet you'll be a freshman in a few months!:D:D:D:D
Best wishes
damn dude this is SO fucked up. I could never imagine my family doing this to me, never. Hopefully you win the lottery or something.
goth, i'm a hoosier too, fort wayne, (long gone but still a bred and born hoosier!) and i went thru a 'distressed mom' much of the time too. we fought and carried on something fierce and i was tossed out a few times too ("if you can't live by the rules then you go somewhere else and make your own") almost always over some stupid shit that escalated for whatever reason...it doesn't matter. people have bad days and they can be especially hard on those who live with the one having the bad day...the trick is not letting it escalate to the point where things get said that were never meant. it's tough, i know but most likely it's over some bullshit that just got carried away by its own force.
let it go man...buy some flowers and tell her you love her. you don't have to apolgize unless you feel it's necessary but a simple 'i love ya mom' and a hug will fix it...toss in a handful of flowers and i guarantee it! you know she didn't mean it so give her a break...forget about it and replace all those hate words with love and flowers.
I once got kicked out of the house in the middle of Feb., in -35degC weather. I deserved it though. They found me curled up in a ball on a bench, out cold, at 3am. If I would have stayed out all night, I probabky would have froze to death.
Anyways though, sounds like your mom is losing her memory a bit and doesn't really realize it. I'm sure she's not doing this on purpose, but maybe she's starting to get Alzheimers. Seems like a sign to me.
Who knows though, but you're 18, and it's time to start your own life. I suggest finding a place to live, getting full time work, and when you get on your feet and get some checks rolling in, maybe consider a student loan for college, or save up enough cash for college, but that can be hard paying rent and living.
Anywho, good luck to you, sorry your mom is going crazy. :p But it's time to start life now.
I havent got kicked out in a while. I've become way smarter than I was before and now I'm way more slicker lol.
IMO 16 is old enough to be taking care of yourself.
I started a window cleaning round at 14 and made enough at that and moved onto decorating those same homes now I've earned enough in the last 30 years to buy all of the ones I used to clean.
All because I believed in one thing ........ ME !
I give you much respect for that, but that was 30 years ago. This is a different world, and even a different country probably.Quote:
Originally Posted by psychocat
Gothen I feel for ya, I know you've been goin thru some shit and this definately doesn't help ya. If you got a place don't worry as much, just work on supporting yourself through college.
if you wind up near colorado, you can stay with me we'll get blazed and go snowboarding
hey anyone out there who is desperate for a place hitup couchsurfing.com
I did a road trip to L.A. and back crashing on random peoples couches and spare beds.
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Originally Posted by The Figment
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Originally Posted by The Figment
Trust the Hippy, "He knows things" but seriously I would go for it if I was you
Well, just a little update for you guys: I WAS KICKED OUT! I was out of that house at about 2 am that day...or...at least, the next day. Anyway, things worked out for the best, actually.
I HAVE MY OWN PLACE! Given, the bitch is paying rent for the moment, but still I have to get a job and shit and I am still gonna be able to go to college in January. But, yeah, that's the update. I have my own little apartment and I basically just do nothing all day except try to find a job and get ripped on the days when my friends have some, haha! I'm broke...always. So, I haven't bought buddha since I've been here, but they are always willing to get people ripped, so it's all good.
Anyway, I don't have the net and I'm using the college computers and I'mma get out of here. I'll check back the next time I am able to get on here. PEACE GUYS! And like the song says, 'Don't worry, be happy!'
Well, i for one am glad your ok, im a little pissed at the mo, but seriously man, im glad your alright, Good cuk with a job!
Myuch love, Lippy titty!!!!
i'm glad things are working out for you