Being kicked out sucks...

[Gothen]

So, a couple months ago, maybe a month ago, I made a thread about how a lot of different stuff in my house had been going "missing," and that my mom was going psychotic about it accusing me or my friends of stealing these items from our house.

Well, it happened again today, or last night, or I don't know WHEN. But, she "noticed" it today. Her mascara was lifted. She said she had 4 of them, and that they were all fucking gone. She told me that she is done with me, that she washes her hands of me, my brother (who is 24, and already out on his own with a fiance...), and our entire family (all...ya know...9 or so that are still alive). She said that she doesn't care where I go, but that I better be gone.

She said that if I'm here in the morning, she's calling the cops. So, I'm packing all of my shit right now, or trying to. I guess I'm really depressed because I don't have anywhere to go and if it comes to it, I guess I'll just pack up all my stuff and wait until 8 am when she gets home from work, and just leave around 7:45. I'll just walk around all day, I guess...I don't know.

My brother is going to try and call her, but it won't do any good, remember? She's "washed her hands with all of us."

And, btw, all the things she said were missing turned up later on. And her fucking mascara, at least 3 of the four, are right in her fucking room.

This bitch has less of a grasp on reality than I do when I smoke so much I don't remember where I am at first.

I don't know what I'm supposed to do, though, guys. I just needed someone to talk to I guess. I thought my life was going great, too. I was getting out of here in 3 months, I'm starting college in January (at least I was...), I was gonna get a steady job, I haven't spent any money on buddah in a while and I was going to start building a home, instead of just buying pot.

I'd never felt so good, before, guys. I mean, I am/WAS in a point in my life where I was finally okay with not being high all the time. I was finally okay with not buying pot with any bit of money I got.

And then this happens and makes me want to start crying. Sorry, guys, I'm really pathetic.

Gothen Reviewed by Gothen on 10-08-2006. Being kicked out sucks... So, a couple months ago, maybe a month ago, I made a thread about how a lot of different stuff in my house had been going "missing," and that my mom was going psychotic about it accusing me or my friends of stealing these items from our house. Well, it happened again today, or last night, or I don't know WHEN. But, she "noticed" it today. Her mascara was lifted. She said she had 4 of them, and that they were all fucking gone. She told me that she is done with me, that she washes her hands of Rating: 5

[LIP]

what the fuck is wrong with her?

No offence man, i know shes your mother but shes not a very good one.

No parent should do that to their children...

And dude, your not pathetic.

[B u M b L ee K y]

If you don't mind me asking, how old are you?

[Gothen]

I'm 18. She called the cops on me once before a year and a half ago. I was smoking in the house when she was home and she smelled it. I deserved it that time, but don't think I do this time.

I haven't really called her, or considered her, "mom" since March 12, 2005, the day she called them on me.

[LIP]

No mother calls cops on they're own, no matter what they've done.

Im sorry man

I'd offer you a place to stay if i was in America.

[MastaChronic]

fuck her, she was probably doing it on purpose just to mess with your head and get you out of the house

[Frivolous248]

That sucks. You were starting college in january?

Worst come to worst, can't you ask to crash at your bro's for a bit?

Hope things work out for ya'.

[TallulahGreen]

My mom once called the cops on me in her drunken state sleep walking. She didn't remember it the next day.....

[Its a Plant]

Damn man, I feel for ya. And I'm assuming money's a little tight too, otherwise you'd be out on your own by now? I'm in practically the same boat, only my mother isn't some schizo who might have a drug problem of her own?

Seriously, is she on anything, or possibly chemically imbalanced? I ask that because the way you described it, her writing off her whole family sounds a little erratic and out of the blue.

Hopefully you're trying to get ahold of any or all of your friends to look for a temporary place to crash, because you walking around all day is just no good man.

If you have enough cash to maybe rent a cheap place for the time being, DO IT. Like even a cheap hotel room until you get a job and the money comes flowin' back. Just an idea. I think I would be out of there anyways. OR you could call the cops her on for doin' God knows what, because she sounds either mentally ill or on drugs.

Hope things get better. ~

[SwirlyMass]

Tell her straight to her face that she's a bad mother, tell her all the things you said on here and it will let her know that your opinion of her is probably the opinion other people have of her, she'll probably just have a breakdown though. People who have to blame retarded shit like that on other people have problems with themselves that they project onto other people.

Say sorry i stole your mascara mommy, i guess i leave since you cant deal with losing a $3 item of makeup that makes you look like a whore.



You could come live with me, i need a roomate.

But you should get a job, any job will do, and then just live in a motel until you can get on your feet. Motels are The same or cheaper than an apartment, and you dont have to pay utilities. Just let the guy at the front desk know you are gonna be there for a few months and ask him what the rates are. hopefully it will be under $500 a month and you can make double that at any minimum wage job.

Or try and work things out with your mom, thats what i had to do when my dad kicked me out. after he lit our house on fire and almost killed us, then found my pipes and almost a QP of pot in my room. so he kicked me out for like a week and i eventually came back and its good now but im still moving out asap, i just bought a 95 SUV and im so happy so be more and more independent. (i had a car before but the piece of shit broke down every week)

you gotta start somewhere kid, and when you're young you have alot of potential that you lose when you're older so dont let your mom take that away from you!!!!