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aden mate, i reckon you should just go in there and hold your head up HIGH - there are bound to be loads of other guys in the closset at your college, ya never know you might even get a few interesting propositions on the quiet as a result . give it a few days/weeks and if the pressures too much THEN leave the country. :D
Well my Dad pretends like he approves,but he still points out hot chicks all the time and asks me things like, "Are you tellin me, you dont want to get some of that puusy?!"
dont know what to tell you. Most important you have to be comfortable with yourself. And if that means telling your dad, tell him. And you are not responsable for his feelings.
kill yourself, it'll make it easier for us humans.
I guess that's TipTIP's way of showing his emotions.
in the past month ive had like 4 friends come out, they are all old enough that they dont live at home anymore so they never really told their parents... nothing has changed we all still act exactly the same. I support gay rights 100%!
FUCK YOU!! YOU HOMOPHOBIC LIL' CUNT!Quote:
Originally Posted by TipTIP
:D Great newz! I managed too bullshit my way outta the problem of people findin' out about my sexuality. I think pretty much everyone fell for my little lies, and under the circumstances, I said what they saw me lookin' @ on the net was a missunderstanding. My worries are over!!! :rasta:
I might be lucky but my parents were the coolest folk about it i know.
I can remember one time (i live with my parents) when i had com home with erm a bloke erm and well they even made him breakfast so maybe you might be wrong your still his son........
But if you think it will cause to much grief and can live with keepin it away from them well do that and make things easy on yourself dont think your lying your just kinda protecting them........
Im lucky i suppose
You could stop being gay...then you wouldn't have to 'lie' anymore.
My dad thought I was gay in middle school. He didn't come out and tell me this, but some years later my mom told me about it. Actually quite a few people over the years have thought I was gay, and I'm really not sure why. One time I was at Denny's with my straight friend, and we were acting completely straight, and when he got up to go to the bathroom, my waitress asked me if we were a gay couple. Kind of rude, but whatever. I don't act like the stereotypical gay man that we always see on TV or anything, I'm not very feminine either.
I don't think it's possible to change your sexuality as it is programmed into you at birth really.A lot of people live many years living a lie making themselves and others around them unhappy and they then have regrets which can haunt them for the rest of their lives.Quote:
Originally Posted by Frivolous248
I really feel for you Mojavpa and hope that the decision you make is the best decision for not only your family but yourself too.Please let us know how things go.
Well Mojavpa I think if your family can't accept it, then thats their problem, your an adult, do what makes YOU happy, its no bodies place to tell you shit!
my family disowned me for the guy I'm going out with. And I'm straight! They just hate him because they think he's weird. They've been hoping I would conform since I was a kid and now all the sudden they dont love me anymore.
My point:I wasn't too sad when the people who couldn't accept me as I was and for who I wanted to be with, didn't want to be around me.
Dont let them force their ideals on you. It's sacregligous. If your family tells you to conform tell them their all Nazi's and you'll be glad to be free of them.
Man, it sucks that your faimly still exspects you to marry a woman and shit. I'd say tell him because if he gets angry well then screw him. You can't change who you are. You should'nt have to be ashamed that your not attracted to the opposite sex.