shit same here, right after i read the post kosh made about him being dead i got like goosebumps and shit...sorry to hear about that kosh, but just keep on truckin' :)Quote:
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shit same here, right after i read the post kosh made about him being dead i got like goosebumps and shit...sorry to hear about that kosh, but just keep on truckin' :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Day Dreamin Faze
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Originally Posted by koshea
Im so sry sweety,If u need to vent on someone come find me ill be here to listen :(
Hey Koshea, I'm so sorry abut your friend, 16 is waaay to young to go.... Keep your chin up, you'll pull through. Our feelings go out to you man!
I know that there is nothing that I can say to make your loss easier to bear, but would offer that sometimes things happen that defy logic and reason - we are, unfortunatley, left behind to deal with the aftermath of such events.
My philosophy on such things, is that they DO happen for a reason - even though we may never know what that reason is. And that, from every bad thing that happens, something good will eventually come from it.
Your friend's spirit will live on within your heart and soul, and everytime you remember him. Although this great tradegy has brought you much grief and guilt, you must accept that no matter how much you would wish it otherwise, there was nothing that you could have done to change it.
That you spent time being with him, and talking to him, shows how much you cared and loved him - and I am certain, beyond any doubt, that your being there helped his spirit to find peace.
The ones we love, never die,
It's just the vessel that has gone,
For in the hearts of those who care,
Their spirit lingers ever on.
Peace to you, Koshea
Res...
i don't know you, but i definatly feel for you man.
a few years ago my sister died(at 5 yrs old) of a heart failure, it almost pushed me over the edge. im 18 now so i was there to help change her diapers...
but things get better, just don't forget your buddy and he will live on with you as long as the memories remain. it's hard now i know, it must be.
once again i am deeply sorry for the loss :(
PEACE
My heart goes out to you man. I know thats prolly not makin it feel better... but we're here for you man. You need to vent, fuckin vent. We WILL listen. I know how it is to lose those that are close to us. I think most of us do. It's never a good feeling. Make sure you talk though man. Bottling it up isn't ever good.
Best of luck to you and his family.
- Encatuse
Sorry to double post in your thread, but I GUARANTEE he heard you while he was in a coma. 100% dude. My grandma was in a coma once and we talked to her, and evnetually she was lucky enough to come out of it. She remembered almost everything we told her. So know your words were with him when he passed man. I know he was happy to have you by his side. He may not have been able to show it, but he was.
It's ok to be sad and angry, but let the people that love you take care of you because your friend would want that. Eventually the stormclouds in your heart will part and the beautiful moments you have spent with your friend will shine like diamonds in your heart. Love and friendship is eternal.
Peace to you and your friend.
Howdy Koshea,
My prayers are with you and the young man's family. This was not your fault,your friend,chose to drink and made a bad choice in doing so. Let his death count for something good-as an example of the consequences of binge drinking. Hopefully,you and your friends,will learn to moderate your drinking because of this sad tradgedy.
I too,lost a good and close friend in this way,a young man of 19,the son of a woman that I was very close to..he and his mom,lived far away from family and friends,when he died of alcohol poisoning..I wish that I had been there for her. I don't know how she survived her loss all alone,but she was a very tough,military vet..and I have faith,that she somehow survived. I'm certain that you will survive too,and that you will be stronger .
May God give you strength and comfort....Torog
I would rather live and love where death is king than have eternal life where love is not --Robert G. Ingersoll
I'm so sorry for your loss Koshea, you're in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.
Lulu xx