A Question to All Girls

well before the first time I kissed my ex g/f a longgg while ago, we were at a party and she was all over me, including caressing my thigh. Then some time later I finally recognized what was going on, lol, and went for it. Best thing I ever did. She was a bit of a fa-reeekk if you know what I mean.

It just varies girl to girl, and if you know her as well as it sounds you do, then you'll know when the time is right. The way she looks at you has a lot to do with it, so always be on your toes and listen to your gut instinct!

I am talking about a first kiss situation.
And ya, you have to know how to read girls if you're gonna attempt it in that way.

lion agree u have to read the body language... p.e.n.g.u.i.n. has the right idea on this one... lol... the rub on inner thigh... thats a good one... ha ha

Body language is super important. A febig step to see if they are intrested is if they mimick your body language in casual conversation. Then when the time is right slowly make your move and build up to a kiss that preferably leads to sex.

Just be like: Tryin to make out? Done.

dont ask....be a man, claim it...confidence is a huge turn on

When I decide to kiss a girl, I just do it. Of course I been married to her for eight years.
Heck with a kiss. I do coon-ass foreplay. I role over. I don't think about stuff like that anymore so here's my :twocents:

..even though I'm not a girl. Equal opportunity, right?

kiss me out of the blue :)

Depends.

If you read her body language correctly, then an out of the blue kiss can be quite a turn on. Before I got with one of my ex's we were flirting, and he just leaned in and kissed me right after saying something dirty. I wasn't complaining in the least and we ended up going out.

But if you read her body language incorrectly you're setting yourself up for a very embarassing situation. There's no harm in asking whether it would be cool to kiss her, provided you do it in the right way. Stuttering and stammering is probably not the way to go, unless she like the cute&shy type. Another ex of mine, again before we were going out, was telling me how much he liked me, and that he'd really like to spend more time with me and finished off this really long speech with "but can't I just kiss you now?" and that worked as well.

Good luck either way!