A Question to All Girls

[ShWeave]

Would you rather be asked by a guy if he can kiss you, or just have the guy try to kiss you out of the blue?

ex1- talking about something kinda deep, etc. then ask

ShWeave Reviewed by ShWeave on 05-22-2006. A Question to All Girls Would you rather be asked by a guy if he can kiss you, or just have the guy try to kiss you out of the blue? ex1- talking about something kinda deep, etc. then ask Rating: 5

[ShWeave]

Would you rather be asked by a guy if he can kiss you, or just have the guy try to kiss you out of the blue?

ex1- talking about something kinda deep, etc. then be asked, "Can I kiss you?"

or

ex2- talking about something kinda deep, etc. then be asked, "Guy trys to kiss you."


Because this weekend a girl and I hung out at a party and I really wanted to kiss her at the moment. I just didn't know if it was appropiate or not?

This girl and I hang out like all the time though, almost every day. Lately though I feel like I really like her and she kinda likes me. Like at the party she asked me to kiss her on the cheak, after I won a game of beer pong for us. I thought that could be a just like a "YES we Won!"

I just want to know if it would be ok for us to kiss/makeout b/c I dont want to ruin what we have right now.

[ShWeave]

sorry double-post

[PaulCT7]

Now I am a dude. But this is how I see it, if you ask, they are gonna be like, damn, is this dude a vagina? There isnt room for two.

In my opinion, it is a risk that you have to be willing to take, and if you are close friends, and talk as you say you do, she will accept it.

Be confident, from what I hear, chicks dig that. And go with your gut feeling.

Paul

PS. I had three tongues in my mouth last weekend, so I have to be doign something right. Hahaha

[TheLion]

You don't necessarily have to ask her, but you need to make sure she wants you to kiss her. You do that by reading her body language and seeing how she reacts to your advances. For example, you're sitting down with a girl in your arms and you want to kiss her. You make a slight advance, like rubbing her inner thigh, if she seems to enjoy it, go ahead and make another advance. The next logical advance would be to gently carress her neck and earlobes with your fingers. If she exposes more neck and obviously enjoys it, look at her in the eyes, move her hair from her face slowly and move in slowly for the kiss.

[birdgirl73]

Somehow I'm not completely convinced on PaulCT7's strategy, and if he had three tongues in his mouth this past weekend, I'm guessing he's probably not exactly discriminating about romance and relationships. (Sorry, Paul, but it's true. ) Speaking as a "chick," yeah, we dig confidence but we also dig gentlemen. I think the idea of asking is nice. It's not like you're begging or anything, and ladies like it when they feel like they have a say in how things are going. When the time's right, you can just say something flattering like "I have the strongest urge to kiss you right now. Would you mind?" Then you can go for it and take Lion's approach to moving further. Don't you think that'd be a lot better than feeling the urge and leaning in there and finding out you were reading her signals wrong and she didn't want that at all?

Good luck!

[P.E.N.G.U.I.N.]

Spontanaeity is good, but so is being a gentleman.

I'm a gentleman, but I think I'd know the appropriate time for a kiss .

Maybe.

[yoda]

its better when its kinda random. girl #1 from my situation, one time i asked her if it was alright to kiss her, which it was. i was joking about that the other night with her, and she said never ask, just go for it. so thats my answer to you.

[MaryJaneintheCloset]

It could go either way...

[Polymirize]

...You make a slight advance, like rubbing her inner thigh, if she seems to enjoy it, go ahead and make another advance. The next logical advance would be to gently carress her neck and earlobes with your fingers. If she exposes more neck and obviously enjoys it, look at her in the eyes, move her hair from her face slowly and move in slowly for the kiss.

Well yeah, I wouldn't discount any of that off hand. But it seems like he's talking about a 'first kiss' situation.

And I have never pulled off the inner thigh caress before the first kiss. I've never even tried. If you're unsure as to whether or not she's willing to kiss you, I'm guessing caressing the inner thigh will polarize the situation. Quickly.

I dunno though, maybe it would work out.

ladies?