Help with Life Crisis...

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Originally Posted by Das Boot

I am in a similar situation. This is what I did:

I grew a big scary beard and all I do is lift weights and curse under my breath.

Life is simple.

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That had me laughing for about a minute. lol


And to Justin, just hang in there man. You never know what the tide will bring (to quote Castaway, lol)

the bottom line is this though..

if i dont get back together with my girlfriend.. i will become a wanderer.

something people rarely become. but ifeel a great urge

Don't drink, do something physical. Go running with some music, thats a better way to let your anger/depression out.

It will make you feel better too, trust me.

May want to wait till your sober though

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Originally Posted by justinsane

hey everyone. this is a thread asking for help..

im sure many if not all of you have experienced a time when everything is gone, and you have nothing, and no one to turn to.

My girlfriend of 2 years whom i love very very much, broke up with me because A.) shes interested in other guys, and B.) because my drug use was affecting our relationship.

on top of that, my job that i had which paid very well with great work said that they ran out of work for me to do so April 15th is my last day.

all my friends went to college out of state and i go to a Technical College where everyone is a lot older than i am so i dont make friends.

im not suicidal or anything. im just very very down and feeling hopeless.

does anyone have any suggestions on a pick-me-up?

im contemplating going away to a different state college and sort of starting over. going to the dorms to meet new people and stuff.. but im not too crazy about the idea.. just somewhat of an option i brewed up..

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Hey....I am going to give you something to live by....THERE IS ALWAYS SOMEONE IN THIS WORLD THAT HAS IT WORSE OFF THAN YOU. Keep your head up.

i just cant cope and dont feel like i can.

I wouldn't call this a life crisis, I would call thisa LIFE.

That is life man. Freinds come, friends go, girlfriends come, they go, jobs come, they go. Everyone goes through this and you will get over it.

Find new friends
Move on to other girls because she has moved on
Find a new job

There. I have lost all my friends because I choose not to drink anymore. I've lost girlfriends, found new ones. And I've done about a million jobs, and I get a new one.

This isn't that bad. Just a slight bump in the road. You'll get through it, but don't sit there are dwell on these things or you'll drive yourself crazy.

Good luck.

Peace.

Quit using drugs. If it's affecting your relationship with the girl you love in a negative way, it's not worth it. Duh.

I don't know your situation but I would suggest if you are feeling down try getting in to some physical activity. For me rock climbing is where it is at and if you are a stoner and fairly in shape you will love it. Don't ask me why but nearly every climber I know does or used to smoke weed, they seem to go hand in hand. If you get into it you will get loads of cool friends and have something that will become an important thing in your life. It is also seems to stop people (me and mates at least) going over board on the chemical pleasures. :rasta:
If the above sounds like a shit idea how about having a year off college and going travelling. If you want to go travelling it gets harder and harder as you get older.;)

my gurl broke up with me because i smoke but the way i view it is there are too many gurls out there to worry bout one.