Help with Life Crisis...

[justinsane]

hey everyone. this is a thread asking for help..

im sure many if not all of you have experienced a time when everything is gone, and you have nothing, and no one to turn to.

My girlfriend of 2 years whom i love very very much, broke up with me because A.) shes interested in other guys, and B.) because my drug use was affecting our relationship.

on top of that, my job that i had which paid very well with great work said that they ran out of work for me to do so April 15th is my last day.

all my friends went to college out of state and i go to a Technical College where everyone is a lot older than i am so i dont make friends.

im not suicidal or anything. im just very very down and feeling hopeless.

does anyone have any suggestions on a pick-me-up?

im contemplating going away to a different state college and sort of starting over. going to the dorms to meet new people and stuff.. but im not too crazy about the idea.. just somewhat of an option i brewed up..

justinsane Reviewed by justinsane on 02-24-2006. Help with Life Crisis... hey everyone. this is a thread asking for help.. im sure many if not all of you have experienced a time when everything is gone, and you have nothing, and no one to turn to. My girlfriend of 2 years whom i love very very much, broke up with me because A.) shes interested in other guys, and B.) because my drug use was affecting our relationship. on top of that, my job that i had which paid very well with great work said that they ran out of work for me to do so April 15th is my last Rating: 5

[Das Boot]

I am in a similar situation. This is what I did:

I grew a big scary beard and all I do is lift weights and curse under my breath.

Life is simple.

[show7stopper]

Das Boot that was hilarious

[justinsane]

Get a new job, get a new chick, get some new friends and smoke more.

i wish it was that easy... but im afraid ill turn to alcohol or substance abuse. which im definitly not into,, thats why im trying to solve my problem as quick as i can.

[justinsane]

haha i wish it was as simple..

but it is true that being sober is quite different in the mind than getting high every day... i just cant make any rash decisions..

[pixel]

Come on man hit this blunt and let your problems go up in smoke.

...temporarily


hmmm justin, you're not an idiot so you can figure this out. i would look for events and other things that may interest you and go there and meet other people who are also interested in it. all you really need to do is make 1 friend and then meet all of his or her friends and you're in!

it can be very tough though... if it doesnt work out i would definitely go to college. it's an amazing experience.

[justinsane]

is there anyone down south near the desert that i could live with?

believe me im cool with everything...

[justinsane]

im 19. into anything. but mostly peace and chaos.

i know they dont go hand in hand.
but run with me.

[Fengzi]

Tough to give you any specific advice on what to do because we don't know enough about your situation. I will tell you, however, to just hang in there and take things one day at a time. A few years from now today will just be a distant memory. I've been through so many weird and bizarre periods in my life, times that seemed hopeless, and now I'm totally happy. The other thing I can say is that if you want to make things better YOU have to make them better. Don't expect anyone else to do it for you. Even if they help you out its still going to be up to you to make it happen.

[justinsane]

im thinking though. maybe this is my door.

maybe this is what i need to do.

i need to start my journey

but at the same time im torn by physical emotion.

damn...

the thing is. im a firm believer in Jim Morrison. i believe he was the most "right" figure the world has known.

i find myself following him.
ive never wanted to get old.