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Originally Posted by Bluntmasterbabe
very true!!!! too bad sometimes you love them a little more, and are trying to make things work harder than they are, and lose sight of what's important (not me silly)
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Originally Posted by Bluntmasterbabe
very true!!!! too bad sometimes you love them a little more, and are trying to make things work harder than they are, and lose sight of what's important (not me silly)
am i happy being single? thats kind of like how in the summer time i can't wait for winter, and in winter i can't wait for summer.....if that makes any sense.
That makes perfect sense h4h.
But equating single and lonely- nah, I don't see that. If you are happy with yourself you can be perfectly content single, or in the company of friends.
Now, single, and un-fixably HORNY, that's another thing entirely!!!
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Originally Posted by higher4hockey
I think everyone is that way...just human nature to be unhappy even when we have everything we ever wanted (not everyone, just most):)
Single.
Relationships are amazing, but they will always put constraints on you, no matter who it is you are with.
I think the process of finding yourself is an ongoing one, that if done properly, never ends. And you need to be able to spend time free of everything, just to yourself, for long periods of time if need be, and a relationship tends to get strained in situations like that. And I know that I would not want to put someone through that purposefully, when I need to just seperate myself from everything.
Now I currently am with a wonderful woman, whom I love dearly. But I noticed the strain on our relationship from doing the above mentioned... and I have found, by living life as a single person, while still spending time with her in most of the same ways we did before, that everyone is alot happier. I do things with her because I want to, not because we are dating and need to do things together... I surprise her with things because I want to, everything I do I do because I want to, with no expectations, and no boundaries.
I can feel ok with just disappearing for days at a time on some soul search, and she can feel the same. Its not perfect, and its probably not for everyone, but its something, and thats all that matters.
im pretty happy being single i got hurt pretty bad with my first and only relationship and ive had a sex buddy at one time but she wasnt any good at handjobs so i made her leave and never talked to her again and i didnt get anything more then a H.J. i think the only way id be happy in a relationship is if i found a chick that really really dug me and i could fall in love with and have a real good relationship without lies cheating and overall douchebaggery then id have to probably marry that chick cause shed be the one.
I like the fact that I'm attached to a loving husband, but if I weren't I definitely think being single is preferable to being in an unhealthy, unsatisfying relationship. It's natural to want intimacy and connection, I think. But I'd much sooner be unconnected than allow myself to subsist in an unahppy partnership. Life's too short for that. And being alone isn't the end of the world, despite what some people may think.
Frankly, the freedom of the single life sounds appealing to some of us long-married types. I think that's just because it would be so different from what we're used to. My husband and son have been in Houston at my in-laws' house since yesterday and won't be back till tomorrow. I'm loving the peace and relative solitude. Nothing like a quiet house (except for barking Chihuahuas) to let the mind settle and do some thinking. That, to me, would be the best thing about being single. Plenty of quiet and the freedom to do quite literally anything I wanted.
I enjoy all my wives (7 total)
You should be here on Naked Tuesdays! :thumbsup:
I like to feel loved, so I hate being single =]
I like being single, I have been married twice.... unlike the cat that sits on a hot stove, is only gonna do it once, dumb ol' me didn't learn the first time.
I have a GF, and we have been together for almost 6 years. Neither of us have any plans to change the terms of our relationship. There is something to be said for the great sex too. The biggest thing about being single, is that you have to figure out the differance between being "alone" and being "al-one" (all one). A great partnership is not combining 2 halves to make a whole, but combining 2 all-one singles to make a pair.
Great sex by itself, does not a relationship make.
The hardest thing I have a problem with is finding a *partner* that has the drive, intuition, education, and work ethic to be able to keep up with me. Finding a lover is not a problem.... there are lots to chose from.....but finding a partner..... thats the real trick.
Idealy, I would love to find a partner that is also a business owner and understands the business of running a business, has the dedication, and time required to run a business.
I suppose the real question should be "Are you looking for a partner?? or just a fuck buddy??