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You need to stop being so self conscious. I had the same problem for YEARS during puberty and whatnot. I'm not sure what happened, but once you learn to relax and stay calm, things go a lot smoother. You only get better with practice, so keep at it.
Just curious, are you referring to conversation with complete strangers you're looking to get to know, or people you are familiar with?
your awesome for quoting TOOL!Quote:
Originally Posted by SpiralOfDivinity
i also read that certain strains of MJ are better for anti-anxiety, i would be interested in learning more about that
If you need to prepare for social interactions by implementing the use of bud, you have a problem, and a serious one at that.
They are people too. Just converse with them like a regular person. A little disinterest on your part seems to draw their interest if in fact they had any interest to begin with. Slightly cocky but a little aloof or hard to pin down don't begg or grovel. If you are too needy and clingy it is gauaranteed to put a woman off. Be nice but not too nice.
STIMPY21
just let it flow...
the harder you try to talk, the harder it's gonna get... just forget it's a girl you like... you're just shooting the shit with just another person... just let it flow naturally man...
a couple beers/shots won't hurt tho... it's not enough to get you drunk or buzzing, but enough to get you to loosen up some... maybe take 'em out for dinner and have a beer/drink with your dinner
Dude, you're not anti social, just shy man, start talkin' more, be yourself and you'll get over it, it's no biggie.
its just nerves but try and ignore them and just say what you want, sounds hard but dont see them as girls i suppose just try and see them as males and talk to them more.
^^^ Oh yeah i remmember that bastard from DOOM, i used to love that game lol.
Watch some porn movies and learn some lines to break the ice. :weedpoke:
Talking to random people isnt easy! But dont be scared... I always see so many guys who I wish I had the balls to talk to, but Id never know what to say to them. But I feel like it's the guy who should approach the girl ... which s pretty lame and I should get over that, but who ever gets picked up by a girl? Like wut the hell are u supposed to say? U got a mirror in your pants ....
Being high and talking to girls I have no interest in...never works out. I can't stand talking to anyone on the phone when I'm high MUCH less a squeaky, fast, sober voice. lolQuote:
Originally Posted by MagicalHerb
but when it's a girl i like(which I miss doing) I take control of the conversation. I'm talking on the phone to get to know her right? So I ask questions... questions that matter not what she just ate..
but then it all depends on how close you two are.
i don't know. just carry the convo along as long as you interested.....when it becomes dull, wait for her to start carrying it and if not, call her another day.