I don't understand the reason for having the bud+milk in a glass jar inside a pot of boiling water....I'm sure there is a good reason for doing this so maybe somebody can explain why you can't just simply have the bud+milk in the pot directly over the stove? If heat is an issue, couldn't you just heat it a little lower than boiling?
Also....what else could be used instead of milk for those of us that are lactose intolerant? I am usually fine if I drink a little bit of milk, but I'm just a little curious and thought it would be a good question to have answered for others that can't even drink a cup of milk.