Brain can keep you outta bullshit, But you gotta feed the heart every now n then.
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Brain can keep you outta bullshit, But you gotta feed the heart every now n then.
I don't trust either of them anymore. :(
She loves you but she wants to see how it works out...then she's off dating another guy? I'd be pretty concerned if I were you as well. :wtf:
Why not use a little of both?
And at the end of the day, can you be without them or not, bottom line. If it's those little things she does that keep you up in the clouds...I'd say you already know the answer. ~
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Originally Posted by Its a Plant
All she has to do is say a word, blink, smile, cough, anything, and I melt....the only thing is though is we used to be soo compatible but lately I find there is some awkward wall up between us. I don't know if one of us is presenting this wall or if it is just there on it's own, but I need to knock it down somehow. Using both my brain and my heart at once I can only come to the conclusion that I must act as though I am over her so she might relax a bit more and maybe in turn it'll condition me somehow to really be over her. The direction I'm going in right now seems to be getting me no where fast, not to mention in heaps of pain. All for a girl I've never even had the pleasure of kissing..
You know...it's like having your legs fall out from under you 3 feet from breaking the finish line of an Olympic race. Just as all seemed to be falling in place, the unexpected happens, and I'm left in a pile watching someone else take the prize. It's bullshit
Why don't you just lay back and let things happen. If she really wants to be with you to then she will come back to you.
Your heart pumps blood. Your brain makes decisions...You all are such softies. :p
My Bf and I were apart for a year. We completely stopped talking for the last 6 months of that year. Then crap started happening and he was being blamed for a huge robbery (about 300k of jewels). After 5 years of being friends with him and 3 years dating.. I knew that he couldn't have done it. The cops started asking me about him and I was like omg there is just no way. I spoke with his family. Specifically his aunt and she asked me what I felt in my heart. I told her that my heart said he didn't do it. She said that I had to tell him that while he was being framed that I believed in him. So I did. We ended up getting back together and they found the true robber and it wasn't him.
Were getting married this summer.
Follow your heart but ignore your brain at your heart's peril...
i usually go with my heart,, but damn man, i dont know,, yeh, i usua;lly follow my heart, but my brain is smarter , i just let it overule any stupid decision,, but my heart usually kows whats best,, better for me and everyone, my brain is jkust more rationlal