the thin line between life and death: rip andrea and tony

i live in dubuque iowa, i appreciate your guys' suggestions and shit, i really do, i just found out today that her wake is tuesday so i plan on going to that, and i foudn out today that her brother ran away last night when his family was cleaning out her closet, nobody knows where he is or what hes doin hopefully he didnt do anythign stupid like kill himself but i couldnt really blame him if i was in his posistion id probably buy a half o and a half gallon and plan on dying, i cant handle shit liek that, its why i posted this thread cause i didnt knwo what to do with myself after i heard what happened, but thanks guys ill keep everything youve said in mind




ede

if you dont knwo dubuque is in the northeast corner of the state right where illinois and wisconisn meet



ede

I'm sorry to hear that.:(

my condolences

Wow, that really fucking sucks, i'm sorry man... :(

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Originally Posted by Ganj

I'm truly sorry for your loss. You emphasize your pain when you said, "waiting for ashton kutcher to hop out of my closet telling me that i just got punkd." Stay strong, take a day off and just reflect on the good times, man. The world seems mean when your thoughts are tender. It's not a joke, as much as you would like it to be, you must accept the reality--only then can you begin to move on.

Thanks for sharing.

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unbelieveably... i kept waiting for the same thing at my brothers funeral... for the first hour i was there i refused to go within 30 feet of the casket... cuz of 2 reasons: 1... i wasn't ready to see that, and knew without a doubt, ever bit of strength i'd showed since the momment i was told he died, would go right out the window and i'd break down (which i did) and 2. if my hopes had came true and he did sit up and tell me it was some prank, i would give him a reason to need that casket...

on the seat belt thing... i dunno how, but i was in a high speed chase, 120+ mph... car flipped quite a few times, i was in the back seat, with no seatbelt what so ever... i wasn't even hurt... aside from my knees slamming together and bruising...

it makes me realize how lucky i really am... i see people are severely injured or killed in car wrecks all the time... at lesser speeds... but somehow i lived, nearly without any injury or pain what so ever.. i don't believe in god.. but it makes me realize all that much more, that something had to of been watching over me that day...

i'm sorry about both your friends... it hurts to lose someone... it hurts more when you knew them well... and i agree, there should be some law in place, that you can't die when you're so young.. but in all honesty, if that were true, teens would be even more wreckless, then they are now.. (not saying your friends were wreckless, just teens in general)

yea man last night i went to the wake, first thing i did was hug tony, i didnt go see her for a while cause i didnt wanan see her dead, and when i did i just stood there in shock waiting for her to open her eyes and sit up and talk, today i went to school and i left early because ive felt like shit since i went to that wake, the funeral started about 35 minutes ago i wanted to go tot hat but i didnt have a ride it fuckin sucks,it was cool though at the wake i know that she wouldve have wanted it any other way because the whole place was covered in pictures of schoom and shit, she was wearing this cool shirt with a bunch of shooms on it, it was deffinetly a sad time, me and one of my friends went and smoke a j for her in his car out in the parking lot, we got out of the car and smoke just rolled out haha and this one chick i dont knwo probably one of andreas friend was like "yeaaa smoke it up for andrea and then my friend asked her if she wanted a hit and she came and took one and was like"thats for andrea", the whole time i was there i couldnt help but smile and laugh cause all i was thinign about was the fun times i had with her and i only cried a couple times, but yea it was deffinetly a very sad time and a very sad place to be



ede

its really painful to lose someone so close to you, its like a pain that never goes away and nothing can fix it.
im sorry that had to happen, death is really depressing.
they will be missed.