the thin line between life and death: rip andrea and tony

[EmericanStoner420]

:sadcrying:sadcrying:sadcryingthursday morning one of my friend got in a car accident in utah on the way home from a cali vaction(i live in iowa), but her aunt was driving and she fell alseep and my friend and her cousin werent wearing seatbelts, my friend is now gone forever, and her cousin is brain dead, her aunt is in "stable" condition, its some fucked up shit that an 18 year old can die there shoudl be soem kidn of rules with life that you cant die until your atleast 30, but she was fuckin 18, about to graduate, and was engaged. ive known her for about the past 4 years, although i wasnt really close with her i used to hang out with her all the time and just get fucked up, and her younger brother and i have been friends for about the same amount of time, thursday morning there was a 2 hour delay in our district because of snow, she died at 730 and her brother was over at my house at 9 and he didnt find out about his sisters death until after he got out of school when he was on a burn cruise with some of his friends, not even 3 years ago my best friends brother died after he got high and drowned the kid was 15 fuckin years old he died 4 days before his golden birthday, his funeral was on his birthday for fucks sake, i knwo this is a pretty long thread but i just wanna express the pain i feel because of these two deaths, it seems like yesterday that me and her were smoking at her dads house, she was the coolest chick you could ever know she was a great friend, she never really hated anybody if she did she didnt show it, she would give you the shirt off her back, only if andrea(friend) had been wearing a seatbelt, she may not be in perfect health oviously but im sure anybody would rather have some broken bones then being dead, i know im just ranting and raving but its for a good reason wear your fuckin seatbelt when you get in a car man, i never used to give a flying fuck about weraing a seatbelt and i didnt think that it mattered that it wouldnt make a difference but it can and those faggot cops give people tickets for a good reason because they know how that shit can happen in a matter of seconds, first thing you do when you get into any vehicle is put your seat belt on, easy as that, im still waiting for ashton kutcher to hop out of my closet telling me that i just got punkd and that andrea and tony(best friends bro that died, and odly the name of andreas younger brother) are still alive and this is all some big kind fo sick twisted joke,
:joint1: so people who have lost friends or family members in the past smoke a bowl hell if you done have weed smoke a cig for them people that youve lost



Rest In Piece

Tony Jared Murphy
1988-2004


Andrea Marie Bellmann
1988-2007

You two will always be missed you will be in our thoughts and your memories will be kept in our minds forever.



ede

EmericanStoner420 Reviewed by EmericanStoner420 on 04-14-2007. the thin line between life and death: rip andrea and tony :sadcrying:sadcrying:sadcryingthursday morning one of my friend got in a car accident in utah on the way home from a cali vaction(i live in iowa), but her aunt was driving and she fell alseep and my friend and her cousin werent wearing seatbelts, my friend is now gone forever, and her cousin is brain dead, her aunt is in "stable" condition, its some fucked up shit that an 18 year old can die there shoudl be soem kidn of rules with life that you cant die until your atleast 30, but she was fuckin Rating: 5

[Samwhore]

I'm sorry, but I don't think they'd want their last names all over a public internet forum.

[EmericanStoner420]

yea probably shouldlnt have put names on there, bad idea on my part

[Samwhore]

I think you still have time to edit.

[Ganj]

I'm truly sorry for your loss. You emphasize your pain when you said, "waiting for ashton kutcher to hop out of my closet telling me that i just got punkd." Stay strong, take a day off and just reflect on the good times, man. The world seems mean when your thoughts are tender. It's not a joke, as much as you would like it to be, you must accept the reality--only then can you begin to move on.

Thanks for sharing.

[EmericanStoner420]

yea its just hard to belive when soembody is there everday, you see them constantly and your close to them and then the next day there gone, ive never really understood the saying "you dont know what youve got until its gone" until now, you truly dont know what youve got until now i think deaths of family and friends are so unbeliveable because alot of people take there relationships for grantid and the oviuos fact that you care for that person alot, yea i just need to sit down and think of all the good times weve had and sit there and smile and try not to forget the bad, i appreciate the sympothy alot though, im even more depressed because of her death originally it was because of probation and the shit im in, but yea i appreciate it, thanks




ede

[JSTA]

Sorry to hear about the losses man. I don't have any weed atm, but will light up a cigg in memory. Think of the good times and keep on keepin' on. Good luck to you.

[JOINTMASTER5]

cry at birth, laff at death, there in a better place now

[Nochowderforyou]

I always find it best to celebrate lost lives during death instead of mourning. It's how I got through many friends/relatives deaths. I remeber the happy times, not what they are leaving behind.

In New Orleans I believe they dance in the streets during a funeral. Like I said, celebrate their life.

[hardon]

Dude, I'm really sorry t'hear that. No one deserves death at 18. Like others have said, just remember the good times you've had with 'em. Whenever I have to deal with death, I enjoy sitting in a dark room with or without weed and just sit and reflect, and, if you feel like it, crying. Just sit and think, man.

On another note, if you don't mind me asking, where at in Iowa? I live near Osceola and Creston, down near the south west corner.