Whats the best way to break up??

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Originally Posted by slickrick

i like the giving off signals idea before the talk, in fact i did it kinda the other week but she somehow managed to prolong it for another month, how could i let that happen!?!
i dont really want to make her finish me because i dont wanna be seen as being a dickhead in her eyes or anyones elses for that matter which is what would happen because i would have to be extremely nasty for her her to dump me i reckon

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Nah, the desirable, "Maybe we should see other people" suggestion by her is within easy reach if you play your cards right. Just act nice, but really apathetic about the relationship and what she wants. Obviously, she' not your type, so it's your right to do this. Or, you could just break if off cold turkey - which is faster.

tell her butt looks big and run away :D

what the fuck ? what am i reading?

if you want to break up with this chick, get off your ass and go over to her place and look her square in the eye and say its over. fuck man you could be back before the ucla/florida game even starts.

what would clint eastwood do?

^^^ thats the best advice ur going to get lol stop being a pussy and tell her its over. Orrrrr tell her its not and kept her as abit on the side :)

tell her youre gay ;)

Do it like my ex wife... Cook an amazing meal,,,spread it out on the table and leave a dear john letter in the dish on your side of the table...

Oh, man, Skink. That's cold. Did she really do that? That's so below the belt. Especially considering the way husbands feel about dinner.

Just be direct, brief and honest, Slick. Be a man instead of a manipulative wus of a game-player trying to engineer the situation so she'll break up with you first. That suggestion was especially rich coming from a guy who's always claiming men have relinquished their "manhood." Now I see why he's found that to be true.

If she's upset, that's understandable. You really can't control her feelings or responses. You can only control your own. And if her emotions make you uncomfortable, well, too bad. She's allowed to have them. Just be direct. Once you've laid out your case. . .

Just slip out the back, Jack
Make a new plan, Stan
You dont need to be coy, Roy
Just get yourself free
Hop on the bus, Gus
You dont need to discuss much
Just drop off the key, Lee
And get yourself free

whatever you do, dont throw something flaming and sharp twords the direction of her home....ladies dont like that:wtf:

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Originally Posted by slickrick

It might seem a silly question what way will cause the least amount of tears/offence to ur partner???

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Honesty in a break up is allways the best policy, the person your breaking up with has the right to know why! and if your not man enough to handle her tears, well just buck up buddy!

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Originally Posted by birdgirl73

Oh, man, Skink. That's cold. Did she really do that? That's so below the belt. Especially considering the way husbands feel about dinner.

Just be direct, brief and honest, Slick. Be a man instead of a manipulative wus of a game-player trying to engineer the situation so she'll break up with you first. That suggestion was especially rich coming from a guy who's always claiming men have relinquished their "manhood." Now I see why he's found that to be true.

If she's upset, that's understandable. You really can't control her feelings or responses. You can only control your own. And if her emotions make you uncomfortable, well, too bad. She's allowed to have them. Just be direct. Once you've laid out your case. . .

Just slip out the back, Jack
Make a new plan, Stan
You dont need to be coy, Roy
Just get yourself free
Hop on the bus, Gus
You dont need to discuss much
Just drop off the key, Lee
And get yourself free

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You allways have the best sound adcice :D you rock Birdgirl, you rock! :smokin: