Whats the best way to break up??

[slickrick]

It might seem a silly question what way will cause the least amount of tears/offence to ur partner???

slickrick Reviewed by slickrick on 03-31-2007. Whats the best way to break up?? It might seem a silly question what way will cause the least amount of tears/offence to ur partner??? Rating: 5

[Samwhore]

There is no easy way.

Do NOT do it over IM/E-mail/Myspace...LAME.

If you must, phone is okay, in person is best.

She will most likey feel sad/cry no matter what.

Tell her straight out what it is, no lame "it's not you, it's me." The "I don't have time" only works in certain circumstances. Like, if you really don't have time.

Respect her as much as possible, talk in a calm voice, be truthful, do it in a not-so public place, but I wouldn't do it in my house either. Try not to swear either and try to avoid physical contact.

[slickrick]

I thinks its very hard to watch some1 cry, i will tell the total truth face to face but will then tend to take back some of my words in order to not cause any more upset, which is quite bad i think.

[Samwhore]

So then, plan out what you are going to say.

[higher4hockey]

whatever you do, go in with a game plan and fucking stick to your guns! girls are evil when it comes to break ups, they know that once they start crying most guys lose their nerve.

go to her place, tell her its over, and leave! dont let her suck you in with the tears !

good luck.

[Andrew Nguyen]

Meet her in person and tell her how you feel.

[slickrick]

i suppose the phrase "u gotta be cruel to be kind" is quite appropriate here isnt it...its not necesserily being harsh but the truth will hurt but will be for the best.

[Kid Dynamite]

Be a man and do it to her face...other than that there really is no easy way. Try to avoid telling her out of the blue, e.g give her sognals that you're not totally happy with your relationship.

[Breukelen advocaat]

It might seem a silly question what way will cause the least amount of tears/offence to ur partner???

Assuming you're a guy, get her to break up with you. Believe me, I've done it - and it's great. Whatever it is she doesn't like, pretend to like it - or the opposite. Don't get mean, just sculpt an impression of yourself in her mind that will make her want to dump you. This can include such things as claiming that you're planning to never work at a job again, not wanting kids (my personal favorite because it's true), no religion (another favorite of mine), and other ideas that are undesirable to her. This way, nobody feels too bad about the breakup. You may not even have to lie. In my case, I usually just told them the truth for the most part - which was enough to send them packing.

[slickrick]

i like the giving off signals idea before the talk, in fact i did it kinda the other week but she somehow managed to prolong it for another month, how could i let that happen!?!
i dont really want to make her finish me because i dont wanna be seen as being a dickhead in her eyes or anyones elses for that matter which is what would happen because i would have to be extremely nasty for her her to dump me i reckon