REALLY REALLY ANGRY

Okay well my Nazi mother who i have absolutly no respect for anymore tried to get me to go take a drug test today. I told her that I didnt need to because i would not pass it. Well you would think she would appreaciate me being honest but no instead the fucking bitch threatens to call the police on me and now I am grounded for a month or more. I really love her but for this i can never truely respect her as a person. Another thing is, is that she smoked when she was my age and now she has to freak out on me about it. I really have no respect for any adult like this because they are total hypocrits and i am really really pissed off right now. Another thing i cant stand about adults is that because I am 16 they think i am less of a person than they are. Why should they have so many more rights than me i have a brain that functions better than alot of our idiot adults we have out there *cough* George bush *cough*. Ageism is really dumb and for all the adults that think they are supirior to me because they have lived longer can go fuck themselves i am seriously sick of this.
Thank you for your time i needed to rant
Bob

moms is only trying to protect her witle baby
she probobly remembers how she got fucked up and thinks the same for you.
just show her thru your actions that whatever you decide will be for your best interest.if she wants to give you a drug test just tell her you smoke weed fuck it.if not just play the game better and keep shit to yourself.stop looking for approval for everything you do.

Damn, that does suck. You're right, you would think that being honest would make her take it a bit easy on you.. but Parents can be assholes sometimes. Just explain to her your reasoning (i'd pull up info on marijuana to back you up) and just try to get her to understand. It's one thing if you do it in her house, since it is her house and her rules should apply, but whatever you do outside that house should be your own choice. Good luck though... being in that position is never fun.

That's whacked... things should get better with time, good luck :D

Intresting..... I concur.

Yes i have tried showing her research and what not proving her bullshit wrong but she is convinced that everything DARE says is true. You know because the government wouldent lie.

Maybe she ran out of Vespene gas?

i'm sure she understands his reasoning...the problem is she doesn't want it in her home or her son doing it and until he's out of her home and on his own he'll have to put up with house rules. and rules don't end once you leave the 'rents...

bake that nazi bitch some canna butter and make her breakfast in bed.
hot toast with coffee.
when shes feeling good tell her thats how you like to feel too so enjoy it and shut the fuck up

HAHA yeah i actually considered that once but i wouldent want to waste my precious grass on her. I asked her why she drank wine and she said 'because i like the taste and it relaxes me'. Well i told her thats why i smoke weed and she says 'No when i did it i was always just out of it, you cant think when your high, and it makes you dumb'. She also is sure i will have cancer in 6 months. Yet she dosent seem to care about my sister who smokes a pack of cigs a day and drinks everynight in our house which really pisses me off.

My mom is very similar to that except for the fact that she didn't smoke. I have been grounded for about 3 months now and have been caught 2 times since Christmas. What sucks even more is I got grounded for another month today because I accidentally slept through school. Parents can be annoying as hell but I could never not respect my mother seeing as she has given me a place to live, food, and clothing for 14 years. The best thing to do is just refuse to not smoke and be honest with them. I am open with my parents about my smoking now but it hasn't seemed to help much. But your mom smoke she will probably be understanding as long as you keep your grades up and remain respectful (or atleast fake it). Just show her that the antidrug people are full of it and she will begin to accept it.

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HAHA yeah i actually considered that once but i wouldent want to waste my precious grass on her. I asked her why she drank wine and she said 'because i like the taste and it relaxes me'. Well i told her thats why i smoke weed and she says 'No when i did it i was always just out of it, you cant think when your high, and it makes you dumb'. She also is sure i will have cancer in 6 months. Yet she dosent seem to care about my sister who smokes a pack of cigs a day and drinks everynight in our house which really pisses me off.

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Aww damn man. Well my mum's said to me "If you keep doing this stuff you'll probably have overdosed on heroin or something in a couple of years" I couldn't fuckin' believe it! I had to walk off before I got too pissed lol.

I would gladly move out of the house i hate living here, and i do have a place that i am welcome to stay at and be fed and everything. But the time i tried moving out my mom called the cops on me.

Holy shit my mom said nearly the exact same thing. It must be the antidrug commercials. But I always thought England was atleast a bit less retarded than the U.S.

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I would gladly move out of the house i hate living here, and i do have a place that i am welcome to stay at and be fed and everything. But the time i tried moving out my mom called the cops on me.

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Damn that sucks. I feel abit out of place but I don't have a steady source of income. If you have a job move out. I don't think she can do anything about it although I'm not sure. Live with a friendf or something if you're that unhappy leave.

when your mother dies, her soul will go temporarily insane untill the higher spirits beat some sense into her confused soul.


poetic justice will serve her life.


your sister will become a politician or something "respectable" in society, and soon die of lung cancer, and you will be an infamous voulenteer who lives years beyond your life expectancy.

and your mother will be forced to cope with not understanding why your sister got cancer and you didnt.

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when your mother dies, her soul will go temporarily insane untill the higher spirits beat some sense into her confused soul.


poetic justice will serve her life.


your sister will become a politician or something "respectable" in society, and soon die of lung cancer, and you will be an infamous voulenteer who lives years beyond your life expectancy.

and your mother will be forced to cope with not understanding why your sister got cancer and you didnt.

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Jesus?

I am also curious as to what all of you think about the whole Ageism thing i spoke of.

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Originally Posted by Stoner Shadow Wolf

when your mother dies, her soul will go temporarily insane untill the higher spirits beat some sense into her confused soul.


poetic justice will serve her life.


your sister will become a politician or something "respectable" in society, and soon die of lung cancer, and you will be an infamous voulenteer who lives years beyond your life expectancy.

and your mother will be forced to cope with not understanding why your sister got cancer and you didnt.

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ha!

the thing about parent hypocrism is that they didnt know the truth about things when they did all theyre stuff. they didnt know cigerettes were bad or that anything could have a bad consquence... so now that they see that some of the things were hurtful (not weed) they think everything is harmful and bad...

or perhaps we feel that 16 is just too young?

Why do you feel that 16 is to young. I feel that i am responsible and mature enough to smoke pot and i belive that is all that should matter. Why should how long i have been living determine what i can or cannot do with my own body?

I moved out when I was 16...

AGE is meaningless. my dad has the mindset of a fucking 12 year old.
i've seen 12 year olds with as much wisdom and maturity as 25 year olds should have!


and most 25 year olds are as immature as 16 year old punks!


the world is so fucking insane, and people keep trying to blame everything but themselves for everything that is wrong in the world. everyone says it's the punk kids, everyone says it's the old farts, everyone says everything they can to make it look like they are better in some fassion.

get out there and start breaking heads i say. the world's fucked up one end and down the other, and we just sit here letting it be.

i blame myself for not getting out there and making a change, and i blame all of you for that as well.

maturity man. how many adults do you see coming here posting about not getting their raise they had counted on so they're going to kill their boss or or the store was out of something so they're gonna kill the manager...? besides the fact if you do everything now what will there be to look forward to when you turn 21? it is admirable of you to confront your mom face-face but did you really expect her to say, "oh, ok...go ahead now that i understand how you feel about it."? even when it becomes legalized do you realistically think it'll be made legal for minors too?

Hey GanjaBob,
Here's what you do. You buy a t-shit that says "drug testing in progress", and wear it in front of your mom. let her guess what drugs you are testing :dance: :dance: :dance: :dance: :dance: :dance: :dance:

dai*ma :thumbsup:
pee for enjoyment, not for nosey parents or employment :stoned:

lmfao THAT is awesome!

im in the same world of bullshit as you man... amagine having a mother like that and trying to pull off a 100+ plant grow a half a mile away from your house...(thats me), hah...

goodluck bro.

haha that would be great.
And as for your comment del...
Just like SSW said there are 15 year olds who are way more mature than some 30 year olds. i think that if you think you are ready to smoke pot you should be allowed to.

GanjaBob, whatever bullshit they try to throw, the clock will strike "18" in 2 yrs and it will all be left behind....(by the way, they have no right to gound you nor to make you take a drug test, have you ever thought about YOUR rights?

I belive they have the right to ground me because they are my legal gaurdians but explain what you mean please.

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Hey GanjaBob,
Here's what you do. You buy a t-shit that says "drug testing in progress", and wear it in front of your mom. let her guess what drugs you are testing :dance: :dance: :dance: :dance: :dance: :dance: :dance:

dai*ma :thumbsup:
pee for enjoyment, not for nosey parents or employment :stoned:

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Haha that was funny.

Ganja, I am 55 yrs old and I am a lot smarter than you! What the fuck do you think I did in those 39 years if not learn a thing or two. Dont you expect to get smarter over time? I have 3 boys all grown. Now I smoke with them (the eldest isnt into it). But when they were teenagers I lied to them and sneaked around to smoke a J. (Apparently they were doing the same) If I had know that they were smoking pot I would have been pretty darn anxious because its a situation that can go many ways from a smoking a J to messing with hard drugs and bad kids - you dont know which it is and you get scared. Being a parent is a job from hell. The stakes are huge and no one knows what the fuck he is doing! You have to muddle through as best you can and the teenage years can be downright scary! When I was their age thas IS what I did and several of my friends didnt make it to adulthood. Teenage boys may know everything but they have a very poor track record. They are very prone to killing or injuring themselves and others through their own stupidity. No joke. Also, everyone is a hypocrite at one time or another, you included! Its an unavoidable part of being human - get over it. My kids accused me of being one - and they were right. Your kids will do the same to you and they will be right too!

Its not really an issue on how smart the person is. What I am talking about is the ability to make your own choices in life . I dont think that if i want to snort some meth and jump off a bridge the government or anyone should be able to stop me because it is my body and i think we should have the right to do what we want with our minds and bodys despite what our age is. Im not saying adults are not more intellegent because the majority are, Im saying that if you are mature enough to make your own choices then i dont think the number of years you have been alive should stop you.

And I am not saying that i approve of meth because i dont , but i belive that if someone wants to use it there shouldent be some rich guy in a big building in washington saying he cant.
peace
bob

Anyways here's my advice. You didnt ask for it but you get it anyway because like I said, I am just so fucking smart! Try to see it a bit from your mom's pt of view. She is scared. You are growing up and she is losing her ability to protect you - at the same time the stake are getting much higher. Try to reassure her. Explain this has no connection with hard drugs or hard kids. Point out that kids your age are drinking and that really is dangerous! Tell her that she has to trust you to use your judgement - she brought you up and taught you - now you know how to behave. Reassure her that this doesnt mean you are going to become a juvenile delinquent or that your grades will suffer. Remind her that you are growing up and she is going to have to let go some. Explain that you want an honest relationship with her that you want to be able to approach her as a friend and talk about your life. If she cracks down like this it will only mean that you will hide shit from her. Be a little patient - let her rant and rave a while she gets used to the idea.

Yes but everytime i explain the bit about alcohol and my grades and whatnot she pulls up the DARE website and starts going off about how my braincells are being killed every second.

Be patient. Explain that that site exaggerates the risks for the sake of propaganda. Brain cells are dying all the time , in everyone. Many intellectuals, scientists and engineers smoke mj. I am a mathematician and I have been smoking since I was your age. From the comments I see around here there are a lot of smart people on this forum - there's also a lot of really stoned morons who, in my opinion, should be donated to medical experiments

Hang in there! I give you full marks for standing up to her and being upfront - she will respect you and appreciate it - even though she is going to yell and scream on the way.

When she calms down, suggest you smoke together so that she can be in your life.

Haha wow she just came downstairs and told me that i was nothing but a criminal and i disgust her. i really wanted to flip shit on her but instead i just said 'i love you too mom'

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I belive they have the right to ground me because they are my legal gaurdians but explain what you mean please.

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They have the right to tell you that you're grounded, and you have the right to ignore them and do as you please...