I have no idea where my life is going

let me start out by saying im 19 years old, been out of high school for a year and a half now. Started smoking the ganja my junior year, pretty much been a stoner ever since. Ever since high school ended Ive been completely lost.When high school ended im moved about 45 minutes away up into the mountains, I did it because I needed to get away from the town I lived in for 19 years of my life. it wasnt bad at first, but after a while I started hating it up there, I didnt know anybody up there, so I was pretty much just smoking weed by my lonesome self.well around march I moved back to my old town and moved in with 4 of my best friends from high school. I couldnt wait, I thought things were gonna start going good, life was gonna be fun again. I soon experienced otherwise. Me and my friends arent the same people we were in high school, we dont get along, I dont get along with any of them really. the make me into an outkast because I smoke weed and dont drink beer with them. I really feel like I have nobody. Im a real shy guy, and its not the easiest thing for me to make friends, so ive always just kinda been stuck with the ones I hvae. Ive recently made a decision to go move back in with my parents. Im leaving a good paying job and pretty much all my friends because im so unhappy down here. The funny thing is im leaving because my roomates make such a big deal out of me being a stoner, but once i move back into my old house, I plan on quitting smoking weed. Weed has been great to me, so many wonderful experiences that I cant remember most of, lol. But it has also dont alot of negative to me to. I can tell all the damage it has done to my body and mind, im not nearly as sharp as I used to be, and well, I just dont feel like im on the right path anymore. I really just dont know what to do with my life right now. im moving back home, I have big debts to pay off, i havent even started college yet and ive been out of high school for 1 and a half years. I really just need to clear my mind from all the smoke, straighten alot of things out, get life back on the right track, and finally feel some happiness again. i never thought id grow up to be as stressed out as Iam right now, I feel like my whole like is falling to peices and slowly coming to an end. You know what would make all this better to, it seriously would make me so much happier with my life, its all I really do want. a girlfriend, ive been so lonely for most of my life I cant even put it into words. I just want somebody to be with and be able to take care of. this sounds cheesy as fuck I know, but this is the only place I got to let my feelings out. i hope thing get better for me

im in the same boat as u...except i barley smoke weed...im just extremely lazy...im 19 been outta school for a year and a half and have no motivation what so ever to get a real job...i just float around these bull shit jobs, and sell weed...to cover rent and what not...i feel like im not doing anything with my life and if i keep it up im gonna end up in jail...but lifes a bitch so to say...i dunno whats gonna happen but everyday i wake up im glad to be alive, i guess in the end thats all that matters...

Well, I think you should quit weed first off. Start back up if you'd like once your lifes together. Move in with your parents, get a steady job to get yourself out of debt. Once that happens, or while, go out to clubs and shit - that's a good way to meet people. You have to stop being shy, just try taking to girls and guys, see if they're cool or not.
I guess it's easier said than done but you only live once, so get out there!
I hope this helps, just giving my two cents. I wish you luck:thumbsup: .

first and foremost u have to figure out what you want in life. what do u want to be? where do u want to be? what goals do you have for urself? Those are very important things to consider because if you dont know what you want, you wont know where you need to start in anything.

All you need to do is weigh out ur options and think about what you have to do to start gettin there. You might feel like ur stuck, but ur not there is always an option.

Life is what you make it and trust me you will go from 19 to 25 to 50 before you know it, life just has a funny way if passin us by, now u can either stand there still while it just moves on or u can grab ahold and ride. its all on u.


Good Luck in ur future :)

peace and love Ammie

good luck ;)

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Originally Posted by darthstoner09

let me start out by saying im 19 years old, been out of high school for a year and a half now. Started smoking the ganja my junior year, pretty much been a stoner ever since. Ever since high school ended Ive been completely lost.When high school ended im moved about 45 minutes away up into the mountains, I did it because I needed to get away from the town I lived in for 19 years of my life. it wasnt bad at first, but after a while I started hating it up there, I didnt know anybody up there, so I was pretty much just smoking weed by my lonesome self.well around march I moved back to my old town and moved in with 4 of my best friends from high school. I couldnt wait, I thought things were gonna start going good, life was gonna be fun again. I soon experienced otherwise. Me and my friends arent the same people we were in high school, we dont get along, I dont get along with any of them really. the make me into an outkast because I smoke weed and dont drink beer with them. I really feel like I have nobody. Im a real shy guy, and its not the easiest thing for me to make friends, so ive always just kinda been stuck with the ones I hvae. Ive recently made a decision to go move back in with my parents. Im leaving a good paying job and pretty much all my friends because im so unhappy down here. The funny thing is im leaving because my roomates make such a big deal out of me being a stoner, but once i move back into my old house, I plan on quitting smoking weed. Weed has been great to me, so many wonderful experiences that I cant remember most of, lol. But it has also dont alot of negative to me to. I can tell all the damage it has done to my body and mind, im not nearly as sharp as I used to be, and well, I just dont feel like im on the right path anymore. I really just dont know what to do with my life right now. im moving back home, I have big debts to pay off, i havent even started college yet and ive been out of high school for 1 and a half years. I really just need to clear my mind from all the smoke, straighten alot of things out, get life back on the right track, and finally feel some happiness again. i never thought id grow up to be as stressed out as Iam right now, I feel like my whole like is falling to peices and slowly coming to an end. You know what would make all this better to, it seriously would make me so much happier with my life, its all I really do want. a girlfriend, ive been so lonely for most of my life I cant even put it into words. I just want somebody to be with and be able to take care of. this sounds cheesy as fuck I know, but this is the only place I got to let my feelings out. i hope thing get better for me

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If you dont know where you're going, any road will take you there.:confused: \
\ dai*ma:stoned:

Growing up aint nothing
but all this indecision with these, debts, and doubts, and worries
hanging over my head
when i was a child
i spoke as a child
i wish i could remember
what i said:(

Life is cake, just smoke and do what you gotta do.

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Originally Posted by ChronicMike

Life is cake, just smoke and do what you gotta do.

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lol, I won't take that advice.

I was in the same situation, ive been smoking weed constantley for 7 years, i've been through hell and back. 1, got kicked out my house for being a lazy sod, and not being part of a family, i use to treat my parents house like a hotel, i use to get up in the morning go round a m8s house and just smoke weed all day, and play ps2. |I use to go back home very late about 2, 3 or sometimes 4 in the morning, just stoned out my face. Some days I never even use to see my mum and dad or sisters for a week even though I still came home everyday, one day my mum and dad just had enough, they told me if i want to live under there roof i have to be back home for 10,oclok , i thought feck that i told em i ain't living here no more so i just moved out and moved in with me gf (probably the worst mistake i ever made, moved out my house). she had a single room so it was difficult for the both of us to live there. I use to blaze zoots after zoots and that fecked up my head i didn't know if i was comming or going. I use to smoke on average about 6-7 zoots a day, on a daily basis and i swear it fecked up my head. and then one day i said to myself i'm gonna stop. I tried to stop on previous occasions but couldn't. But this time with pure will power i gave up smoking all together for 2 months. for the first two weeks it was fecking hard, i couldn't sleep coz i'm so use to blazing a zoot before going to sleep but I stuck at it, cold turkey as people call it. but after a 2months break i felt the differnce, i started to think staright put everything into perspective and got my life together. after 3 months i was back on it, and it feels goooood it feels like your first ever zooot. I dn't smoke like a chimney no more, those days are over for me, i smoke about 2-3 zoots daily and thats me.

I think thats what you need to do m8, stop smoking the herb for a couple of months m8, and you will feel like a different person trust me. if your stoned 24/7 you can't think staright and you can't make any realistic goals. for the first two weeks you will feel like shit, sleepness nights and very moody. but after two weeks you will feel fresh and alive again and more importantley healthy.

good luck daima. you can do it m8.

ok guys i can go on and on and on about my life but its too boring so i ain't gonna bother.

this is only my second post and I told you part of of my lifestory to a bunch of strangers. :)

same kinda thing happened to me but not as dramatic. I had been smoking for 5 years maybe, 4/5 yrs. nearly every day. then when i was 16/17 i started 6th form (uk just b4 uni shit) and my life was shit, i didnt kno what i was doin where i wanted to be in life etc etc, hardly went out just sat and smoked. and i knew the weed was to blame. I gave up half way thru 6th form, worked hard, got decent grades now im off to uni soon and only smoke every other day taking 5-6 day breaks now and then (mainly because im skint!).

anyway the point myself and others have already made is definatly try giving up weed for a while at least.

Theres millions just like you and almost everyone goes through this very phase in their 20s, where do I belong? I should be finding the love of my life... Read a book called "Quarter Life Crisis". Entering adulthood will have many lonely times