i kissed my best friend last night

yikes, thats the truth. here is what happened:
we were STONED. i was spending the night. i woke up with her face right next to mine. she says to me 'youre pretty when u sleep' (this is the kinda platonic nicery that goes on between us, the standard dishing-out of friendly compliments. i thought nothing of it, so i said 'you looked hot stuff in your new dress today'). next thing i know, she grabs my whole face and just kisses me. a long, long, LONG kiss. no tongue. just lip. im stunned. totally weirded out. so i just do the next best hting and kiss her back. we exchange a few more pecks and a caress or two.we say NOTHING while this goes on. then i roll back over and fall asleep.
it didnt hit me till i woke up this morning. i'm a little freaked out. because i am not sure whether it was sexual or not. i do NOT swing that way, it one of the few things i wont do and i know that she does. madi and i will hug and cuddle like girl-friends do, but this just blew me away. i didnt say a word about it because i am not sure what to think. wtf? i have this scared feeling in the back of my head that this kinda thing will ruin our relationship. madi knows very well that i do not dig other women, but by kissing her back i think i just screwed up the message. i am just not sure what to do. i bitched at her earlier that day because i HATE her boyfriend, and i am not sure if she took that as some kind of hint. was she just stoned? i dont think so cause madi tends to keep her head well above the water. iam just scared.
need some help u guys! what do you think????
p.s. madi is my platonic soulamte and i want to keep our realtionship

This thread is Soooo Hot...

I wud just explain to her how you feel,the friendship will last if it is meant to...

NO ITS NOT!!!!!!!!! jeez u guys, you gotta take me seriosuly. this whole ordeal is just EATING my brain! I GOTTA TALK TO HER SOONER OR LATER

Maybe don't do or say anything right now and just see if she brings it up again. Then if she does, y'all can talk about it. Sounds like it was just a spontaneous moment of sleepy closeness, but if she swings both ways and had stronger feeling about it than you did, it has the potential to throw the dynamics of your close friendship off if she wants things to progress further. Romantic feelings do have a way of throwing a monkey wrench into good friendships, don't they? This happened with a guy friend of mine, and things have never been the same between us. (He felt romantic and I didn't.)

You're in that phase right now where it sounds like you're a little freaked and want to understand what happened and categorize it and maybe file it into some proper category so you can feel like you've dealt with and finished with it. That's why I think you need to take a day or two to sit with it and just fully process it and not rush in there and say something that would potentially hurt her feelings or damage your friendship. Does that make sense?

First) Take a chill pill

Second)Tell her how you feel.

Was this video taped?

Guys can be such dips!!!

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Originally Posted by birdgirl73

Maybe don't do or say anything right now and just see if she brings it up again. Then if she does, y'all can talk about it. Sounds like it was just a spontaneous moment of sleepy closeness, but if she swings both ways and had stronger feeling about it than you did, it has the potential to throw the dynamics of your close friendship off if she wants things to progress further. Romantic feelings do have a way of throwing a monkey wrench into good friendships, don't they? This happened with a guy friend of mine, and things have never been the same between us. (He felt romantic and I didn't.)

You're in that phase right now where it sounds like you're a little freaked and want to understand what happened and categorize it and maybe file it into some proper category so you can feel like you've dealt with and finished with it. That's why I think you need to take a day or two to sit with it and just fully process it and not rush in there and say something that would potentially hurt her feelings or damage your friendship. Does that make sense?

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makes perfect sense. the problem is, ill be leaving the country for one month in 4 days. i am kinda rushed for time and i dont wanna just abandon this little incident liek it never happened. maybe it was sleepy closeness, i dont know. im just worried it will hurt our relationship. i feel like madi is a good listener and appreciates my opinion but sometimes she has a very skewed way of looking at things

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Originally Posted by BizzleLuvin

makes perfect sense. the problem is, ill be leaving the country for one month in 4 days. i am kinda rushed for time and i dont wanna just abandon this little incident liek it never happened. maybe it was sleepy closeness, i dont know. im just worried it will hurt our relationship. i feel like madi is a good listener and appreciates my opinion but sometimes she has a very skewed way of looking at things

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That's right! Are you the one who's going to Spain?

Yikes, that does change things a bit. Well, then just talk to her and see where her head is and tell her you love and adore her and don't want to do anything at all to hurt your friendship and that at the same time you're not sure how you feel about what happened and don't think you share bi feelings. Just because you're going away doesn't mean you have to resolve everything immediately. I sorta wonder if while you're gone things won't simply resolve themselves. Tell her you'll bring her a good souvenir!!!

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Guys can be such dips!!!

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Please.............. we are 100% dips. what about the video?


Bizz
Are you sure she doesnt want more than you?

If yes.....do you want to be bisexual? might be good move?? i cant answer for you.


If no.... maybe it was just a "once" thing.

You need to talk to her..............imho



Now, if I was was you, and not married with a wife and 2 kids,

I WOULD PUT MY TRACK SHOES ON, AND TAKE A RUN AT THAT

Right back to birdgirls observation......dips :D