Confusing situation

[andyj420]

So there is this girl that likes me and I like her. We have been hanging out lately and getting to know each other. She found out that I smoke pot and she wants me to quit. She says she doesn't want me to do it for her but to do it for myself and my health.

What do I do? I don't really want to quit and I don't feel like I need to quit. I really do like this girl and quitting wouldn't be a big deal.

[MastaChronic]

dude, if she says that she doesnt want you to quit for her but for you and your health then that most likely means she wants you to quit for her. my suggestion is dont stop toking up and tell her you dont want to stop because there is almost no health hazards with it and if she doesnt want to be with you because you wont stop then be like" fine, theres more fish in the sea."

[OniEhtRedrum781]

Don't quit, fuck. Tell her its just one of the things you do and she has to deal with it... Don't start a relationship pussywhipped...

[thcbongman]

Gotta be honest with her about your desire to keep on smoking. It's up to you man, but don't have anyone tell you what you need to do for yourself. You have to realize it on your own.

[Inferius]

This isn't an issue of control or trying to change you anymore.
This is about educating her.
Just explain to her (with the aid of the internet)
that pot is a VERY safe and healthy way of relaxing.

Also ask her (maybe before you talk about pots healthyness) if drinking alcohol is ok. Just to see how ignorant she is.

[Stemis516]

trust me dude, ive learned the hard way...be honest with urself

my gf told me to quit and we we dating for 2.5 years at the time....well i loved her and at the time i was stupid and just promised never to do it again....well i made it for so b4 i realized it was ridiculous of her to ask that of me and i smoked a few times...anyways i got caught up in the lie eventually and now we are going through a really hard break up

if i wouldve just been honest back then none of this wouldve happend...i mean, ya maybe she wouldve dumped me back then too if i said i couldnt make the promise..but at least i wouldve been an honest man

[andyj420]

Well I've thought this over and I've decided to keep smoking unless we get serious. I plan to not smoke around her though.

[Taiden]

People should like eachother for who you are. Pot smoking probably has an affect on who you are, any activity you participate does. When you stop smoking part of who you are will leave, and then she is dating someone who is different then she was originally interested in. She is perscribing her own downfall.

[I just love weed]

Gotta be honest with her about your desire to keep on smoking. It's up to you man, but don't have anyone tell you what you need to do for yourself. You have to realize it on your own.

This is kind of funny because your basically saying to not take advice, this girl is advising him to stop because its bad for his health. Yet you are currently giving advice to him. your contradicting yourself in your own advice. lolz... just thought id point that out.

Anyways i kind of have the same problem, im into this girl, but shes really anti-drug, she hasnt asked me to quit but if i want to get with her i might have to. Im not sure, but this girl does mean wha the badger guy said (sorry forget ur name) she wants you to do it for her, but i think she wants that because she watches godamn above the influence commercials and worst of all BELIEVES THEM. Educate her, as in long term affects, and what you actually do when your stoned.

[gabee42ee]

she should like you for who you are and if ur not making her smoke then why does she have such a problem with it

[RyanTheCaveman]

Yeh like the one dude said dont be a pussywhipped bastard
Mary jane is your GF too!
pot is pretty damn healthy. (might i add fun to!)

[insanity]

I quit for the same reasons a few years ago, it was mainly for the girl. When I finally got my balls back and began smoking again she got all pissed off at which point I told her that she can be with me or not, but either way I'm still smoking.

[Skrappie]

Present the facts. It is not much worse then eating at micky d's. Cite sources. If the truth is not good enough for her, and you still want to smoke, well sometimes people aren't just compatible. Don't waste your time i say.

[40oz]

Don't let the she-devil make you do things you don't want to do. unless of course you want her muff really bad.

[crudemood]

Definately a hard choice you have to make but perhaps you guys can compromise each others needs.

[deltron]

Before you tell her to fuck off because you like weed too much, get some poon. Why not?

[yoda]

try to enlighten her with some facts, if she doesnt ease up, you could a little. not fully quit, but cut back on smoking, to make it an even resolution. she still says no, then she likely isnt worth it if she can reason with you on the subject.

[thcbongman]

This is kind of funny because your basically saying to not take advice, this girl is advising him to stop because its bad for his health. Yet you are currently giving advice to him. your contradicting yourself in your own advice. lolz... just thought id point that out.

Anyways i kind of have the same problem, im into this girl, but shes really anti-drug, she hasnt asked me to quit but if i want to get with her i might have to. Im not sure, but this girl does mean wha the badger guy said (sorry forget ur name) she wants you to do it for her, but i think she wants that because she watches godamn above the influence commercials and worst of all BELIEVES THEM. Educate her, as in long term affects, and what you actually do when your stoned.

You misunderstood that. He shouldn't have anyone make decisions for him (the girl).

[LIP]

She isnt doing it for you, she's doing it for her, simple as that.

Dont quit, you are you and you shouldnt let her change you.

If she doesnt love you for who you are and what you do then there's not point in being with her.

She "fell in love" with you while you were a toker? So NOW, shes trying to change you.

I say smoke more, alot more, and smoke it infront of her, dont talk about anything else...

Nah, but educate her.. Or she'll go though life ignorant of fact.