how much would you pay to keep your relationship

[friendowl]

im just curious

lets say for example you are married and have a stable life
but one night you had a one night stand that turned into a long term
secret love affair. lets just say that somehow a person who
knows both the husband and wife finds out and keeps it to himself
then one day big mr.cheated decided to piss off the holder of information

what would be a suitable payment plan
that would keep ms.angry wife from finding out
im thinking about 200 a month forever

does this sound unreasonable

[orangeman]

Friendowl did you cheat on your wife? :p

[friendowl]

im not married and if i was i wouldnt cheat
but i do like getting money and i am very observant
i have knowledge of several incidents that would
change the lives of many families
i find it better to stay quiet but if i wanted i could cause problems
to all you cheaters BECAREFUL OF THE X-FACTORS

[NightProwler]

hmm i thought i already posted on here but i guess it got fucked up from the site going down..

well i personally would NEVER cheat, and if i did, i would feel guilty as fuck and i'd have to tell her, and just hope she doesnt leave me forever.. even tho she probly would.

but to save my relationship, i would pay anyprice and i'd do anything to get the money

[birdgirl73]

Yeah, I posted on here previously, too, but it got lost during the system maintenance.

My advice is to stay the heck outta other people's business, especially the private goings-on between a married couple, and not to even think about blackmail. That's desperate and vindictive. And very creepy. Also, unless you have first-hand, eye-witness, photographic and scientific evidence of an affair, the truth is no outside person ever really knows what's up between two married people other than those two people themselves. They might have both cheated, for all you know, or might have a so-called "open" relationship. It's best to just stay out of their business entirely and worry instead about your own moral code, especially if you were giving serious thought to blackmail.

[AR15]

Blackmailing like that? Wow, if you're even contemplating doing that you're really fucking low in my opinion. That's so wrong and selfish.

I respect birdgirl's opinion. But I think sometimes people do need to know, however other times it's not necessary and you should just mind your own business.

So if you know something, depending upon the circumstances, you should either tell or don't tell, but do it based on what you really thing is the right thing to do, not because they either will or will not pay you.

And I would never even put myself in a situation like that, but if I was, and some pos like you came up to me like that that pos probably wouldn't be breathing. Scum of society, people who do that should be cut off imo.

[Skink]

FO,,,Blackmale will bite you in the ass...

[ericwt]

Let me put some perspective on this Hypothetical situation.

My divorce cost me over $300,000. Divorce is expensive, very expensive.

I was glad to see my loving ex go on her way. Divorce will cost a hell of a lot for any stable man. Trust me.

However the other side of the coin is this...

Someone can pay a crackhead $200 for each bone of your body that they bring back to him. $1,600 later you are dead or you wish you were.

Do put it past some people. If you scare someone with resources you will be a dead man.

So rather than give all the moral lessons, please consider my lesson in street justice.

Just know what you are getting into and make your own decisions. Hypothetically of course.

[Cheery Cherry]

Why wouldn't you want a lump sum instead of small payments?

[CYRAX]

I wouldn't pay anything, if it has to do with money then it doesn't have to do with love.

[stinkyattic]

Friendowl, I just lost a LOT of respect for you. Unfortunate that you should even think of that... very cowardly and dishonorable.

Doing the 'right thing' should not have any reward but the feeling that you acted ethically.

If you think someone needs to know, whatever; the moment you take money for hiding that knowledge, that's disgusting behaviour.

And just imagine... what if you are wrong? What if you cause harm to someone? What if you yourself are harmed as a result? IMO a blackmailer is kind of setting himself up to be hurt... and although I don't believe in violence, I would not feel a bit of sympathy.

So whose 'friend' are you, anyway?

[dark0ne]

in theroy i would pay any amount to keep my family together,BUT if it came down to sink or swim i would just lay all the cards on the table and put my trust in my family not some thug trying to make a buck.

[surreys princess]

i am lost for words.....speechless...dumbfounded.......

never ever take money to keep a secret and never ever get involved in others' business when possible..

i can sum this up in one word for ya'...

KARMA

princess <3

[Skink]

if someone propositioned me I would laugh at them...

[surreys princess]

after much thought, i am going to close this thread...a lot of people respect you on here friendowl, myself included, and i am just trying to keep it that way...i am sorry if you or anyone else feels this is an improper decision.....

princess