Have you ever been told by your partner to stop smoking pot?

[moeburn]

My girlfriend recently changed her opinion on my pot-smoking, mostly because I did it every day alone, instead of occasionally with friends. I chose to submit, because she's more important to me than pot, and because I wouldn't want to seem like the kind of guy who would give up a girl for drugs.

How about you? Has anyone ever been asked by their girlfriend or boyfriend to stop smoking weed? What did you do?

[JaggedEdge]

Haha, yes kind of, except I was the one demanding she stopped. Ha I have changed so much since 15. Now I'm considering trying to land a job dealing with cannabis activisim. I'm currentlworking on an English major (though it may not be obvious here) and am looking for something to do with my life. Can't think of anything I would love, so I just set a goal to at least got a job (not even career as a writer for weed. I can go to my shitty tech writing job every day but I will always have the one I like on the side.

God I'm rambling like a mad drunk woman...

Oh yeah, but 6 years ago I was trying to force my girlfriend of the time to quit smoking.

[moeburn]

Oh yeah, but 6 years ago I was trying to force my girlfriend of the time to quit smoking.

Why?

[OniEhtRedrum781]

never ever ever

[Stemis516]

ya my gf of 3 years told me about 8 months ago to stop

i tried and tried to get a reason but she couldnt come up with a good reason that i didnt have a counter for....shes always been bery stubborn and very close minded and basically it was just another way she could try to express her dominance over me...i mean its not like i smoke everyday alone or choose pot over her or sacrifce time with her because of pot...im completely responsible about it but and she knew about it and was fine but one day something just went off in her head and she freaked

shes really important to me and just like you i would never choose a drug over some1 i love...so i quit for her....lasted about 3 weeks at most until my mates convinced me for a smoke and i went back to my ways...she doesnt need to know that though

[big smoke07]

Yea, girls can be real bitches when it comes to that. I was talking to this girl for 3 months and every time we were suppose to meet up and fuck something would come up with her. Comes to find out she wouldnt fuck me cause i smoke weed? Wtf?



All i need
Is patrone and weed.

[Matt the Funk]

Yeah, I quit for 2 months.

[Zimzum]

Yeah my old GF got a job that drug tested. Told me I had to stop since she couldn't do it anymore. And thus she is an "old" GF.

[JaggedEdge]

Why?

I was very religious and straight laced when I was youn and bought into the bullshit. Than I slowly started seeing the light and enjoying life.

[Taiden]

Haha, yes kind of, except I was the one demanding she stopped. Ha I have changed so much since 15. Now I'm considering trying to land a job dealing with cannabis activisim. I'm currentlworking on an English major (though it may not be obvious here) and am looking for something to do with my life. Can't think of anything I would love, so I just set a goal to at least got a job (not even career as a writer for weed. I can go to my shitty tech writing job every day but I will always have the one I like on the side.

God I'm rambling like a mad drunk woman...

Oh yeah, but 6 years ago I was trying to force my girlfriend of the time to quit smoking.

I was the same way. I feel like such a dick about it now.

I had a girlfriend with lots and lots and lots of medical problems. Chronic pain, severe glaucoma, weekly ear infections. I loved her dearly, but at that point in time I had this HUGE thing against weed and alcohol. I told her so profusely how much I hated people who did those things because for all I knew she was straightedge.

The relationship lasted about 13 months. A year after that, I found out she used to smoke an 1/8th every 2 days and had five plants in her basement. I actually called the exact location when I found out... I feel really bad, because she stopped using weed for her glaucoma because she didn't want me to get angry at her. Now that I think about it, I really wish she had brought it up and told me straight out, because if it's safe and it takes away the pain, do it.

:(

I wish I could go at it again with her.. but current situations aren't exactly working out.. (her boyfriend was killed in a car accident two days ago). One of the most amazing people I have ever met..

[smoke it]

ive "cut down" on smokin for a couple girls, but if they ever told me to stop completly, id say fuck no

[JaggedEdge]

I was the same way. I feel like such a dick about it now.

I had a girlfriend with lots and lots and lots of medical problems. Chronic pain, severe glaucoma, weekly ear infections. I loved her dearly, but at that point in time I had this HUGE thing against weed and alcohol. I told her so profusely how much I hated people who did those things because for all I knew she was straightedge.

The relationship lasted about 13 months. A year after that, I found out she used to smoke an 1/8th every 2 days and had five plants in her basement. I actually called the exact location when I found out... I feel really bad, because she stopped using weed for her glaucoma because she didn't want me to get angry at her. Now that I think about it, I really wish she had brought it up and told me straight out, because if it's safe and it takes away the pain, do it.

:(

I wish I could go at it again with her.. but current situations aren't exactly working out.. (her boyfriend was killed in a car accident two days ago). One of the most amazing people I have ever met..


I find it so funny because most of the people I knew in the beginning of highschool would dislike me now and the people I know now would have hated me than.

[bentleygtgirl]

i had a boyfriend who i quit for for a year...god, shit sucked that year :-( it was fucked up cuz he'd go out n get drunk like every night

[MastaChronic]

ive had girlfirends that have tried to make me quit. i told them straihgt up (and some of them cried) that just because they are giving me pussy, it doesnt give them the right to try and control me. they are not the boss of me, they are simply the provider of thy nookie. it told them that i didnt even need them. that i could make a phone call and have a nice hot lunch right at my front door in 20 minutes if i wanted to and they wouldnt try and control me, they would just say "thanks for the fuck but i gotta go" and be off. most of them left and i did exactly like i said i would, called up a ho and had her come over. this reminds me of something. i had finished telling my ex all of this (its kind of a prepared speech ive got for the situation) and she said it was over and left my house. a while later shes knocking on the door and im in the middle of banging one of my hos so i had to put on some boxers and answer it. she wanted to come in and talk, i said, okay but you have to wait in the living room for about an hour. she comes in, sits down and watches tv. i go back in my room and the ho wanted know who it was, i told her it was my ex, we just broke up and now she wants to talk. so im eating her out and she starts moaning so loud my ex barges into the room to find out who was dying. she flipped out and i said "i told you! your not my girl anymore so back in the living room or you can watch!" she left, never came back and i havent seen her since.

[Taiden]

ive had girlfirends that have tried to make me quit. i told them straihgt up (and some of them cried) that just because they are giving me pussy, it doesnt give them the right to try and control me. they are not the boss of me, they are simply the provider of thy nookie. it told them that i didnt even need them. that i could make a phone call and have a nice hot lunch right at my front door in 20 minutes if i wanted to and they wouldnt try and control me, they would just say "thanks for the fuck but i gotta go" and be off. most of them left and i did exactly like i said i would, called up a ho and had her come over. this reminds me of something. i had finished telling my ex all of this (its kind of a prepared speech ive got for the situation) and she said it was over and left my house. a while later shes knocking on the door and im in the middle of banging one of my hos so i had to put on some boxers and answer it. she wanted to come in and talk, i said, okay but you have to wait in the living room for about an hour. she comes in, sits down and watches tv. i go back in my room and the ho wanted know who it was, i told her it was my ex, we just broke up and now she wants to talk. so im eating her out and she starts moaning so loud my ex barges into the room to find out who was dying. she flipped out and i said "i told you! your not my girl anymore so back in the living room or you can watch!" she left, never came back and i havent seen her since.

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[KottonMouthKid]

my girlfriend smokes just as much if not more then me, that was one of the things taht i told her upfront, that a smoke a fuckload and she was compltely okay with it

[MastaChronic]

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[kindprincess]

i've had a few guys tell me not to smoke; so i don't... within a week they're rolling it for me;)

[Garden Knowm]

i've had a few guys tell me not to smoke; so i don't... within a week they're rolling it for me;)

You seem to have that POWER

iloveyou

[TallulahGreen]

ive had girlfirends that have tried to make me quit. i told them straihgt up (and some of them cried) that just because they are giving me pussy, it doesnt give them the right to try and control me. they are not the boss of me, they are simply the provider of thy nookie. it told them that i didnt even need them. that i could make a phone call and have a nice hot lunch right at my front door in 20 minutes if i wanted to and they wouldnt try and control me, they would just say "thanks for the fuck but i gotta go" and be off. most of them left and i did exactly like i said i would, called up a ho and had her come over. this reminds me of something. i had finished telling my ex all of this (its kind of a prepared speech ive got for the situation) and she said it was over and left my house. a while later shes knocking on the door and im in the middle of banging one of my hos so i had to put on some boxers and answer it. she wanted to come in and talk, i said, okay but you have to wait in the living room for about an hour. she comes in, sits down and watches tv. i go back in my room and the ho wanted know who it was, i told her it was my ex, we just broke up and now she wants to talk. so im eating her out and she starts moaning so loud my ex barges into the room to find out who was dying. she flipped out and i said "i told you! your not my girl anymore so back in the living room or you can watch!" she left, never came back and i havent seen her since.

WOW you're an asshole. Glad you're not my boyfriend.

[mushypeas]

My girlfriend recently changed her opinion on my pot-smoking, mostly because I did it every day alone, instead of occasionally with friends. I chose to submit, because she's more important to me than pot, and because I wouldn't want to seem like the kind of guy who would give up a girl for drugs.

How about you? Has anyone ever been asked by their girlfriend or boyfriend to stop smoking weed? What did you do?

wat ur gal dont know cant hurt her i been puffin away in secret 4 2 yrs my bf hates weed lol

[Pipe Dreams]

Nope, my girls parents grow, and smoke, she smokes herself.. and none of any of my old girlfriends have ever asked me to.

[rebgirl420]

My on and off bf doesnt care if I smoke, he even grows.

[someuser]

I guess anything is possible... If I met the absolute girl of my dreams and she was against weed.... I mean you have to be a little messed up in the head to let a love of a life-time go cause of a fucking plant!!! LoL

But the average girl, hell no. I wouldnt be a dickhead about it, I would just take the position that smoking is part of who I am and if she isnt willing to accept all of me then it just isnt going to work...


PS
MastaChronic, hey bro I'm totally cool with you but your post was a little harsh man... I hope you really wouldnt say or do that to a chick... They tend to be sensitive creatures you know ;)

[rebgirl420]

PSHHH....

[couch-potato]

and have a nice hot lunch right at my front door in 20 minutes


You shit in girls' mouths then skull fuck her, then force her to swallow a mixture of your jizz and shit?








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Kinky.

[Euphoric]

dont let somebody tell u you cant smoke weed....communicate and form some kinda compromise dude, that way u can have your babycakes and smoke it too :cool:

[smokin dope]

Ive chosen the weed over a few girls, I dont think Id chose it over the perfect girl for me, but the rest, fuck em, id rather burn with my buddies and fuck girls then be with the girl who doesnt like ME doing what I wanna do..

[Taiden]

I guess anything is possible... If I met the absolute girl of my dreams and she was against weed.... I mean you have to be a little messed up in the head to let a love of a life-time go cause of a fucking plant!!! LoL

But the average girl, hell no. I wouldnt be a dickhead about it, I would just take the position that smoking is part of who I am and if she isnt willing to accept all of me then it just isnt going to work...


PS
MastaChronic, hey bro I'm totally cool with you but your post was a little harsh man... I hope you really wouldnt say or do that to a chick... They tend to be sensitive creatures you know ;)

You'd have to assume that any girl of anyones dreams would be the girl to accept what ever activity they enjoy is alright. After all, it's about spending time with the person, not controlling their habits.

But yes, I do agree. :)

[MastaChronic]

You shit in girls' mouths then skull fuck her, then force her to swallow a mixture of your jizz and shit?








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Kinky.

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[MastaChronic]

MastaChronic, hey bro I'm totally cool with you but your post was a little harsh man... I hope you really wouldnt say or do that to a chick... They tend to be sensitive creatures you know ;)

im a harsh person when it comes to control. dont get the wrong idea and think that im a control freak, please. what i mean is i dont like people trying to control ME. i cant stand that at all, ya know? i really dont care if a girl chooses not to smoke weed, thats her choice and i respect that.

[moeburn]

MastaChronic, that attitude won't last when you get old and stop being attractive, you might actually have to commit to someone.

[ninfan77]

Yea, i was told, after we got married. 6 years later we're divorced. No not cause of weed, but hey.. it still matters :P

[Reefer Rogue]

All my girlfriends smoked weed and all my future ones will too.

[Garden Knowm]

All my girlfriends smoked weed and all my future ones will too.

LOL...
careful..

don't temp fate...

[twocamaros]

ahahahahaha loser

[ju99al0b0mb3r]

my girl dont smoke but she dont care if i do :jointsmile:
she was gonna buy me a glass peice from EDIT but she would have to use her mothers credit card so she couldent :(

[Herbal]

My girlfriend recently changed her opinion on my pot-smoking, mostly because I did it every day alone, instead of occasionally with friends. I chose to submit, because she's more important to me than pot, and because I wouldn't want to seem like the kind of guy who would give up a girl for drugs.

How about you? Has anyone ever been asked by their girlfriend or boyfriend to stop smoking weed? What did you do?

One of my old gf's did not like me smoking pot. Since then, I only date girls who smoke pot. Do yourself a favor and avoid the drama and find a smokin' tokin' girl. They are out there and usually carry less drama too.

[the yeag]

yeah once what was her name...hmmm I don't know but she had a sweet ass

[spliffstar22]

ya a couple girls told me to quit, and replied with hell no, if you can't except me for me, then leave.....and they never do....

[Garden Knowm]

smoking weed retards emotional growth... anything done habitually becomes a "coping mechanism" the last thing you want is WEED to become your coping mechanism..

for 2 main reason..
1. it cost to much
2. nothing OUTSIDE yourself should be a coping mechanism..

we must be the master of our mind.. not the other way around...
iloveyou

[LvT]

Yeah and it really piss me off sometime :(

[JeenYuss]

smoking marijuana is (a big) part what makes me "me", if she dont love weed, she dont love me

[moeburn]

So I switched to guitar for my coping mechanism. Every night, instead of smoking a J, I call my girlfriend up and play her guitar for half an hour or so. I sing too.

It makes her pass out, and I'm so tired from singing that I go to sleep too.

I like this coping mechanism better than weed.

[Garden Knowm]

So I switched to guitar for my coping mechanism. Every night, instead of smoking a J, I call my girlfriend up and play her guitar for half an hour or so. I sing too.

It makes her pass out, and I'm so tired from singing that I go to sleep too.

I like this coping mechanism better than weed.

YOU ROCK!!!

iloveyou

[Canadien.]

Well, my idea on it is... If that girl can honestly not accept me for what I am, and what I do... She isn't worth it. Not to mention, the second someone says something uninformed or ignorant about weed, I usually am automatically un-attracted... well, at least emotionally.:pimp:

[yoda]

yeah, but thats why they are my exes now...mary jane loves me more

its not that i left them cause they wanted to "control" me, its just that if they dont like me smoking, they dont like me for who i am.

[Garden Knowm]

at least emotionally.:pimp:

ahahahahha

LOL

[JeenYuss]

basically... before probation she was an even bigger pot head than i am (this was before we got together) she still thinks its cool an shit she jus dont/cant do it, i've seen her get 2 shotguns one time when she was drunk thats as far as i can say on the weed usage

most of my exes i met thru weed or weed dealers:D:rastasmoke:

[J-dubb206]

Yep been told many times but never listened.

[akfa]

havent been told,, but thats something i do and am very upfront about,, so if they hated weed, theyd never get with me in the first place cuz theyd already know i smoke.

[chapman420]

my girlfriend won't let me smoke weed. the first month or two she didnt say much about it. but after that she wanted me to quit. i quit for a month or two, then she started to back off, she didnt discuss it with me as much, because most of our friends are stoners as well, the topic is brought up frequently, and now, almost 6 months together, i keep it from her that i secretly toke, and i feel like a shitty boyfriend for going behind her back about it.

[akfa]

my girlfriend won't let me smoke weed. the first month or two she didnt say much about it. but after that she wanted me to quit. i quit for a month or two, then she started to back off, she didnt discuss it with me as much, because most of our friends are stoners as well, the topic is brought up frequently, and now, almost 6 months together, i keep it from her that i secretly toke, and i feel like a shitty boyfriend for going behind her back about it.


i wouldnt be able to go behind my gf's back about it.. id just say hey this is me ;// i love the ganja.. take it or leave it. maybe a bit harsh but she knows i smoke! if she didnt want it she shouldnt have gotten with me first off.

[smokingskeleton]

Yep...I just told her to get fucked..She didn't mean that much to me. But we stayed together and I just didn't smoke around her. Stayed together for another 4-5 months.
Tip: Use mints, Get some eyedrops. Try not to giggle ur tits off at anything. :p

[higher4hockey]

this girl i was dating at one time never came out and asked me to quit smoking weed, but she guilted me into feeling like i should.... she used to say: i always thought i was the perfect drug. that one used to get me. i never quit smoking weed, and we stopped being together. i regret not smoking now. she was a lot better to me than weed was. eg: weed got me arrested, she got me off.

live and learn i guess.

[schizoid]

Once a GF told me it was either weed or her. I said bye. Not to be a dick, but NO girlfriend ever made me feel good like MJ. And Ill never leave her. Through the good and bad, I stand by her. One girlfreind didn't smoke but said she could tell the difference between me sober and high, and she said she prefered me to smoke if sober I was THAT depressed.

[Amun]

i quit for one maybe two girls, it all depends.

im not desperate enough to date anyone who is trying to change me, and if they cant understand or sympathize with my (seemingly unique) perspective on marijuana, then ill just find someone else to be with. i have no problem getting girls.....

but like i said, ive quit for at least one i can remember. it all depends on why they want me to (because 'its bad, mkay'), how long i think itll last, and how how she is.

[moeburn]

How about any older people?

I know in young relationships, you tend to not change any of your personal habits for a relationship, but I also know that when you're getting into a serious relationship, both partners tend to have to give up bad habits or other nuances to support the relationship.

Can anyone relate?

[Prunedale]

Last night. Sigh.. I felt wierd.

"He had sex with my momma! WHY!"
"God... if you listenin... HELP!