Could someone help me?

[wayoftheleaf]

Okay I am going to be as honest as I can be with this.

When it comes to breaking up with girls I have no balls what-so-ever.

I don't want to hurt the girls feelings.

Anyway, here is the scenerio.


Around january I met this wonderful girl named Rachel. She was beautiful and sweet. We hit it off and by febuary we were dating. Around august she had to go and we thought we wouldn't see each other again so we cut it off. Now her parents and her moved back and she really wants to start up again where we left off. I love Rachel, she was very special. I need some tips on how to breakup with a girl that is potentialy suicidal and has most of her hopes and dreams resting on you. The girl I met around sept. And she is nice and stuff, but I've just noticed stuff about her. She seems to rest most of her things based on me. It is creepy. I don't know how to break up with her. I want to not only because of Rachel but also because of the wierd factor. But I want to do it in a way where we can still be friends. I don't want her to be crying for days because of it. That would kill me for her to do that. I can't stand hurting other peoples feelings.

So after that...any advice?

[kindprincess]

tell her you're gay...

i don't know sweetie, sometimes girls just have to cry... we get over it. i promise;)

love, kp:p

[slipknotpsycho]

Okay I am going to be as honest as I can be with this.

When it comes to breaking up with girls I have no balls what-so-ever.

I don't want to hurt the girls feelings.


wish i could give you some great advice or something, but yeah, i prety much suffer from the same thing.

i can tell you, more than likely (especially because you say she bases everything on you) she's going to cry for days, there is no easy way... but atleast be somewhat of a decent person about it, do it in person... i'm sure it'll hurt more if you do it over the phone, email or through a note in school or something.... be honest with her too... tell her you want to move on, that things aren't working for you... bout all i can say.

[wayoftheleaf]

Tell her im gay? well shell know that im going out with rachel soon enough.. I dont know maybe i should be straightforward about it.

[wayoftheleaf]

Well, she is coming over in 20 minutes. She sleeps through the days and stays up all night. I dont know. She prolly thinks she is coming over because im horny or some shit. This is going to be akward.

[thcbongman]

Don't fall for any siren tricks. Be firm and don't waver.

[kindprincess]

i was just kidding babe...

be honest and direct, do it in person, she'll probably get mad and stomp off in tears. let her. this way she'll believe that SHE left YOU. or at least she may try to make it seem that way. as i said, don't worry; she'll get over it. if she's never had her heart broken, she will eventually, whether it be from you or someone else.

just be straight forward, and wait for the earthquake...

love, kp:p

[wayoftheleaf]

ok well, im gonna go ill be back after it is over.

[JunkYard]

No advice, leaf...except maybe keep it real. No point in lying. If you're not into her then that's life, right? She'll get over it, and probably sooner than you think, lol!


:smokin:

[wayoftheleaf]

Okay, she couldn't come but she kept asking what i was gonna talk to her about, and billionfold suggested just telling her so here it goes.

Um we broke up. She is pissed at falling in love. She still thinks the world of me, yet hates me at the same time and here i am single again.

Life is wonderful

[slipknotpsycho]

well atleast it's done? i also don't hold it against you that you did it over the phone as she WAS going to come over, then, knowing women just couldn't handle NOT knowing what it was you wanted to talk about... (if she's anything like my wife, i imagine the words "please" "tell" "me" came up about 20 times each.)

[timothylearyisdead]

haha im doing this exact thing tomorrow after i get back from my date with this super sexy girl who is soooo much better than my current girlfriend who ive been with for 2 years and she is obssessed with me. man she has no idea either. i feel like a fuckin asshole, but you gotta do what you gotta do.

[wayoftheleaf]

yeah roughly 20. ill go with that estimate.

[CYRAX]

That's very scary because the girl I've been dating for about the past month is named Rachel, lol.

Oh well atleast you cleared shit up for yourself, enjoy :p

[BabyFacedAbortion]

I dated a girl who basically thought we were going to get married, adopt children and live happily together for the rest of our lives. She was extremely suicidal, bipolar and basically just insane. She was also a heavy drug user. I basically told her "I want you to live your life, without me holding you back..you need to learn how to live on your own and make your own decision..and by the way, I cheated on you with a dude"

minus that last part it went pretty okay, after a bunch of crying, stalking and such..So I'm gonna warn you, she's going to be livid..she's going to want to be with you and potentially ruin any future relationships you may have. Avoid her at all costs AFTER breaking up with her, end it all or she WILL come back and you WILL get back with her.


P.S

Crazy girl's name was Rachael.

[BabyFacedAbortion]

Oops, already broke up with her.

Good job buddy :)

[tootsie roll]

Okay I am going to be as honest as I can be with this.

When it comes to breaking up with girls I have no balls what-so-ever.

I don't want to hurt the girls feelings.

Anyway, here is the scenerio.


Around january I met this wonderful girl named Rachel. She was beautiful and sweet. We hit it off and by febuary we were dating. Around august she had to go and we thought we wouldn't see each other again so we cut it off. Now her parents and her moved back and she really wants to start up again where we left off. I love Rachel, she was very special. I need some tips on how to breakup with a girl that is potentialy suicidal and has most of her hopes and dreams resting on you. The girl I met around sept. And she is nice and stuff, but I've just noticed stuff about her. She seems to rest most of her things based on me. It is creepy. I don't know how to break up with her. I want to not only because of Rachel but also because of the wierd factor. But I want to do it in a way where we can still be friends. I don't want her to be crying for days because of it. That would kill me for her to do that. I can't stand hurting other peoples feelings.

So after that...any advice?


I would be very honest with this girl and tell her that your first and true love has moved back and the two of you want some time to see if it can work out again. Tell her that you 2 still care very much about each other and your sorry but you have to do what is best for you. Wish her the best of luck and say that hopefully one day you can be friends again.

[Skink]

get her in a room alone,put on some music "Psycho killer" by the Talking Heads then pull out your fishing knife and start to sharpen it... tell her how good she looks in black... slip and cut your finger a little bit then stare at the blood for a while then wipe her cheek with your finger and tell her,,, I love you in a Satanic way,,,but not sexually...

[BabyFacedAbortion]

Skink, that'd be kinda hot. I think I'd have to jump the boy's bones ;)

[slipknotpsycho]

BFA is a FREAK! haha... not that it's a bad thing, "weird girls" are the best girls.

[timothylearyisdead]

get her in a room alone,put on some music "Psycho killer" by the Talking Heads then pull out your fishing knife and start to sharpen it... tell her how good she looks in black... slip and cut your finger a little bit then stare at the blood for a while then wipe her cheek with your finger and tell her,,, I love you in a Satanic way,,,but not sexually...

yeah man id say about 1/3rd or the girls you try that to would be all about that shit. by trying to get her to break up with you like that is takin a pretty big risk because it might get you trapped.

[Skink]

Well it will be a good night either way...

[wayoftheleaf]

Well she left and told me she still loved me and still wanted to be friends. Well it could be worse.

And I had a girl that came to my house and did shit like that. she bit her finger till she drew blood and made designs on her body with it and shit. Ill never date another girl that resembles anything like that again in my life. She asked me to do some shit while she drew more blood and made more designs and i was very straightforward with that.

Get the fuck out of my house

[tootsie roll]

Well she left and told me she still loved me and still wanted to be friends. Well it could be worse.

And I had a girl that came to my house and did shit like that. she bit her finger till she drew blood and made designs on her body with it and shit. Ill never date another girl that resembles anything like that again in my life. She asked me to do some shit while she drew more blood and made more designs and i was very straightforward with that.

Get the fuck out of my house


For real man, I'd be creeped out too. And omg...my mom woulda freaked too. (I lived at home forever.lol)

[NightProwler]

yea jsut tell her what youve told us

[wayoftheleaf]

We broke up and she was sad Really pissed at me. Well the bud driver had us get searched, luckily i didnt have anything on me. Could be conicedence. He does have us searched sometimes.