View Full Version : need help bnow, im freakin' out
mini pothead
10-10-2006, 12:06 PM
Look im realy worried, i just told a friend i smoke over MSN, i dont know his stance on weed and he bailed out after i said i did, i dunno if hes gonna tell anyone or what.... he lives a 3 hour drive away from me so not realy any worries with him comin over...
HELP
BobBong
10-10-2006, 12:10 PM
Look im realy worried, i just told a friend i smoke over MSN, i dont know his stance on weed and he bailed out after i said i did, i dunno if hes gonna tell anyone or what.... he lives a 3 hour drive away from me so not realy any worries with him comin over...
HELP
Be yourself.
mini pothead
10-10-2006, 12:14 PM
That is the single greatest piece of advice:thumbsup: but i mean... in regards to trying to keep the friendship together... 'cos this guy is pretty cool and ide hate to lose a friend over some stupid argument 'cos he has the wrong idea
BobBong
10-10-2006, 12:26 PM
That is the single greatest piece of advice:thumbsup: but i mean... in regards to trying to keep the friendship together... 'cos this guy is pretty cool and ide hate to lose a friend over some stupid argument 'cos he has the wrong idea
Something like this shouldn't end a friendship and if it does.. well, you have to ask yourself if it really makes that much of a difference on your life. My best friend of 13 years dropped me like a dirty diaper, for reasons.. that still baffle me. I was pretty taken back by it.. as we grew up together and nothing really "caused" the end of the friendship.
"Understand that friends come and go, but for the precious few you should hold on. Work hard to bridge the gaps in the geography of lifestyles because the older you get, the more you need the people you knew when you were young."
If he can't accept what you've told him, than perhaps it's time to part ways as active friends.
Cheers,
Bob.
Frivolous248
10-10-2006, 09:02 PM
If he ditches you for that, hes not really a friend.
One of my friends stopped hangin' out with me cause I smoked weed. Blamed it entirely on me, "we were great friends untill you started smoking pot!" etc. And a year later the kid is a stoner...
Fuck him though, his loss.
kibbles
10-10-2006, 09:07 PM
My friends who don't smoke are against pot, know I smoke, but are coolw ith it because I was able to provide a counter-argument as to why I do it. Just make an effort to explain why you do it, and then try to work it out.
And yeah, like the people above me said, if he ditches you for that, he's not really a friend.
slpntrx5
10-10-2006, 09:46 PM
if he'll listen, and if you have the patience, explain to him how harmless it is, then if he's willing, get him to try it a few times, and see what his viewpoint is. anyway, if he bails, then fuck him! assholes like that are a dime a dozen.
Greenport
10-10-2006, 09:55 PM
lmao just say fuck it and not care, its his problem. i tell all my friends i smoke they really dont give a damn.
AlwaysBlazed
10-10-2006, 10:29 PM
All my friends smoke so I don't have this problem.
moorephened
10-10-2006, 10:41 PM
Who are you worried about him telling?
smokin dope
10-11-2006, 12:55 AM
whoa man, your trippin
mini pothead
10-11-2006, 01:08 AM
nevermind, its all sorted now... i jus got the wrong idea, now im working on convincing him to try it :D
moorephened
10-11-2006, 01:48 AM
Alls well that ends well.
Reefer Rogue
10-11-2006, 08:24 AM
get him to try it :)
buddymyfriend
10-11-2006, 01:35 PM
It could even bring you closer together and build a stronger relationship. Nothing like sharing a high with ya buddy to build a stronger bond!
Peace
Buddy
I have a friend that hated me smoking cigs, but in the end he came round to it. Then i started smoking weed at his house and shit, and he was telling me all this shit about how it kills you and blah blah blah. So i got his laptop, showed him all the truth about it and now he tokes up with me, and loves it. It was good to actually teach someone about it, because before i told him about all the government lies he belived it. now he knows the truth
CultureCherryPopper
10-11-2006, 01:53 PM
AlwaysBlazed wins the award for coolest avatar in my book. Requiem for a Dream made me almost quit smokin', almost, heh. Then I realized that movie wasn't about the harm of narcotics, but of self control. Or some shit, I don't remember. :p
Buddha Man
10-12-2006, 02:49 AM
shit happens
peace plz
10-12-2006, 02:55 AM
There's no need to pressure or continuously ask/suggest to your friend that he should experiment. If you're just throwing the suggestion out there for him, cool. But have some respect and accept his choice/decision not to smoke just like you wish him to respect your decision to smoke.
I dont understand the problem. Are you two room mates at the police academy?
Frivolous248
10-12-2006, 04:06 AM
AlwaysBlazed wins the award for coolest avatar in my book. Requiem for a Dream made me almost quit smokin', almost, heh. Then I realized that movie wasn't about the harm of narcotics, but of self control. Or some shit, I don't remember. :p
...Now I HAVE to see that movie, knowing that sweet little clip is from it.
Hmmm...I don't know if I'd try and 'pressure' him too much. Just be like "yo' you wanna try it thats cool, if not thats cool too" otherwise you might come off like one of those "JUST DO IT MAN!" guys that those abovetheinfluence bullshit ads percieves us as.
Do it like training day. Tell him, You are sitting in my newly installed ejector seet. If you do not smoke this we have a problem etc.
Zoosh
10-12-2006, 03:53 PM
"Understand that friends come and go, but for the precious few you should hold on. Work hard to bridge the gaps in the geography of lifestyles because the older you get, the more you need the people you knew when you were young."
Thats inspirational man. :)
FlipHKD
10-12-2006, 10:32 PM
wrong post
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