uhh....

[royalHIGHness]

what do you do when you break up with your boyfriend because he just got charged with 5 felonies and 3 misdemenors and you dont feel like dealing with all that monkey shit.....and he has a nervous panic attack and threatens to kill himself because now he has nothing to live for....starts writing good-bye notes....(very intense)...

am i being selfish?

i have so much shit to deal with (totally wrecked my car last week)...my family AND friends HATE him and i have to fucking SNEAK around.....he constantly causes me anxiety....and im bipolar so i have completely mixed emotions about everything anyway.....
my thought dont agree with my beliefs which dont agree with my actions and all vice versa...

:confused: what do i do what do i do :confused:

[fikusroot]

You go online and get advice from complete strangers apparently.

[royalHIGHness]

who better to get advice from?

[fikusroot]

people who care about you and have full knowledge of the situation

[royalHIGHness]

the situation is all too fucked up....
people who care.......are a lil selfish in their own ways....not completely understanding.....

[royalHIGHness]

i just mean......is it selfish for me to *abandon* a person while hes going through all dat?

[mrdevious]

who better to get advice from?


I dunno, coastguard?

seriously though, dump him. You both have shit to deal with and are probably making each others mind-state worse by being together. How or if you do it I can't say, but don't try to keep contact "as friends" with him, just cut off all contact if you can.

[fikusroot]

so are the people here. I sympathize with you beause I'm bipolar but I wouldn't take a bunch of stoned potheads advice, myself included.

[royalHIGHness]

yeah....i figured cutting him off cold turkey would be best.....all my friends and family agree....obviously.....they hate him.....i just feel my consience getting to me because i care about the guy......and i realize hes going through some shit right now........

[royalHIGHness]

FIKUS.....people who dont know you are the most understanding because they dont have preconceived notions or judgements and they would answer from the most genuine or "in my shoes" perspective

[fikusroot]

Very true. But you are posting on Cannabis.com. about 70% of people here are currently stoned. I guess your right though, it could be useful in giving you 1 side of the situation but I wouldn't take the people's advice here as bible. I'd talk to a priest or counseler or if you have one, a therapist.

[Nochowderforyou]

I think you need some booze, lots of it. :)

[Samwhore]

just leave him, and if your worried about him being suicidal, get him a thearapist